01-13-2006, 06:35 PM | #161 (permalink) |
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How many children at birth are able to give consent? NONE of them are. Just the same as how many children have the ability to be fully functional at birth, by which I mean (feeding, changing, grooming, etc.)?? Again, none of them can.
So then would it be reasonable to think that there are a few things at birth that your parents should be able to make a decision for you on? Yes. If the statistics were flip flopped and the un-cut were the majority, would this be an issue?? Would it be a "societal norm" ? Would people be called "sheeple" if they just followed along and left a child un circumsized?? Think about it from the other side of the fence. Being of the "cut" demographic, I suffer not on sensitivity, arousal, lubrication, or any of the other symptoms described in detail here. I haven't had a foreskin so I cannot argue to the having one side, as those who do have one cannot make assumptions that I must be less sensitive, etc. I do not have emotional issues, resentment to my parents for "mutilating" me. *mutilate being a bit of a strong word in my opinion* I see 'mutilate' and think of hitting your foot with a lawn mower, an injury that severly disfigures a limb or body part. Not the trimming of skin in a medical procedure. To the poster that asked if it would be ok if they allowed their child's earlobes to be cut off.. I would say to you "go ahead". It is your child, and they do not have the ability to consent to what you do. Is it right? Who am I to say? I do not make laws, or judgements as to what is "morally and ethically" correct. Seeing how I will not see the genitals of 99.9999999% of the world out there. I couldn't care less if someone is cut or un-cut. As long as they are comfortable with their bodies, and are happy with themselves; who am I to really say anything? And who am I to say that someone is a "bad parent" or makes "bad choices"? So who are you to tell me that what I choose to do to MY child is a bad choice? Why do you feel it is your need to tell me what I am doing is wrong? I don't know if any of this was particularly thrilling or not, but I felt compelled to respond with something. I just have issues with people in general thinking that they know what is 'right' or the 'best decision' for me and my life style.
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01-13-2006, 09:14 PM | #163 (permalink) | |
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01-13-2006, 09:15 PM | #164 (permalink) | |
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01-14-2006, 06:01 AM | #165 (permalink) | |
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The point is, as always, the uncircumcised penis is the natural state of the penis. Altering it is uneccessary for the proper functioning of the penis. There is no truly sound reason for doing so. Many pages in, noone has yet offered a sound reason for cutting their children. PS: can we agree not to use the term "sheeple" anymore? It has to be one of the most ignorant terms I've herd in the past few months.
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01-14-2006, 07:50 AM | #166 (permalink) | |
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The fact that it is common in America does nothing to suggest that it isn't abuse.
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01-14-2006, 10:30 AM | #167 (permalink) |
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Maybe we should define abuse a bit better. There are many that believe that a single, good swat on the ass is child abuse (and it's been held up in court that way), while other the age old approach of the belt across the ass and believe it is NOT abuse. There are a LOT of people on both sides of that. But wait, there's a third party that believes you should NEVER physically punish a child. Uh oh, no it's all murky and such. So who's right? Is anyone? Is anyone definitely wrong? Why? If you believe it is unnatural to lay a hand on your child for reasons of punishment, what about if your child is in danger and you have to PULL them out of the way of say... a moving car. What if, then, you dislocate their shoulder. The sad thing? If someone called child services on you, you'd be investigated for such a thing. That's how out of control "child abuse" advocates are.
Here's another one... nudist colonies. Is THAT child abuse? Nudity regulations and societal acceptances vary so much from place to place and person to person. If you live in the city, and someone comes over and you're sitting naked on the couch (as a dad) next to your 16-y/o daughter... you'd be in a heap of shit. In a nudist colony? Of course not. THIS is why parents have to be allowed to be parents again and make their own decisions for thei own kids. As a society, we can lay out basic laws of governance... we cannot and should not tell people how to live their lives, including how to raise their children. What if the family is just a bunhc of closet nudists? That's their right... but the dad would probably go to jail. Really... |
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01-14-2006, 11:45 AM | #169 (permalink) | |
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There really should be much better statistics out there. There are millions of guys in Europe living very similar lives to Americans. What are the cancer rates currently? What about STD rates? The problem is if you sleep with an uninfected partner, you aren't going to get an STD regardless of if you are circumcised or not. |
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01-14-2006, 02:52 PM | #173 (permalink) | |
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You will notice though that the Australians, where circumcision is not prevalent, take a more decisive tone.
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[quote] * Circumcision disfigures: Circumcision alters the appearance of the penis drastically. It permanently externalizes the glans, normally an internal organ. Circumcision leaves a large circumferential surgical scar on the penile shaft. Because circumcision usually necessitates tearing the foreskin from the glans, pieces of the glans may be torn off, too, leaving it pitted and scarred. Shreds of foreskin may adhere to the raw glans, forming tags and bridges of dangling, displaced skin.[32] Wow I didn't know they did cicumcisions with dull scissors! Quote:
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Who writes this stuff anyways, its like PETA does anti-circumcision.
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It is actually recommended that you just leave his willy alone until it actually detaches itself, at which point you can clean undeneath it - my boy is not 2 yet and I've never had to clean his willy.
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01-14-2006, 04:10 PM | #180 (permalink) | |
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In most boys you need to start cleaning under after about age 2, some will take longer.
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01-14-2006, 04:14 PM | #181 (permalink) |
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I retract my "a lot" and ask all to re-read posts 150 and 151.
I stand by my assesment of you. If you have nothing constructive to add to the thread, I suggest you "begone".
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01-14-2006, 04:48 PM | #182 (permalink) | |
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As for being constructive, when someone posts a rather amusingly one sided article making circumcision seem like a great evil plague upon man I reserve the right to make fun of it. Lighten up, you will enjoy life more.
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01-14-2006, 06:15 PM | #183 (permalink) | |
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Now let's look at those points. First of all, they are all very definitive and absolute. Circumcision denudes (not sometimes, but apparently always). "The denuded glans takes on a dull, grayish, sclerotic appearance," again, not sometimes but always. I'm looking at my penis right this very second. It is noit "dull", "gray" or "sclerotic" in any sense. Sclerosis generally has to do with a hardening of tissue, which I've not known to occur in cut men at all. Also, keratin seems to have been throw around a lot here. Keratinous tissue is generally thought of as being hair and nails. Do I have a tusk for a penis? Hmmm, nope! Both arguments here and elsewhere in this thread have no real bearing in reality. 80% or more of your penile skin? Is that so? Oh yeah, because it loops back. No, still not really 80%. I'd imagine 50%... but it only covers 25% or less of the actual LENGTH of the penile shaft. Okay, maybe 33%. Certainly not 40%. Again with the desensitization... I guess that whole 3-minute man is a bigger myth than we're led to believe. Us cut men must be STALLIONS in bed since we're so desensitized. I can go about... maybe 15-20 minutes if I really put some effort into it. Maybe 25-30 minutes the second time around. I could go for an hour if we took breaks to do other things. If I was more sensitive, I think my wife would be sad. Question for the cut men here... has your penis EVER just cracked and bled? Don't be shy... I really, truly want to know. Send me a PM even... I'll list the number of responses here. WTF? "Because circumcision usually necessitates tearing the foreskin from the glans, pieces of the glans may be torn off, too, leaving it pitted and scarred. Shreds of foreskin may adhere to the raw glans, forming tags and bridges of dangling, displaced skin." Are you KIDDING me? What kind of butcher doctors perform the surgery in these cases? Was this study done in a hosptial with a high malpractice occurance? If I had a pitted, cracked bleeding penis with skin tags and dangling bridges... I'd never get laid. I mean, are there pictures in any medical books or magazines or journals of this occurance? If it's noted, it must happen at least now and then. No, I don't buy it. It might happen as a freak thing in 0.001% of cases... maybe. Also, uncut men can have "curved" penises. Curving of a penis can happen do to any number of things. This, again, may be the cause in SOME cases... but I doubt it's the norm. Well, I'm kinda of tired of this argument for now. But again, I just don't see a good argument against it. Really I don't. Even when sources are quoted specifically, they are easy to refute. Come back when you have better evidence. Thanks! Last edited by xepherys; 01-15-2006 at 09:43 AM.. |
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01-14-2006, 06:41 PM | #184 (permalink) |
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Weird, I just had a discussion on this elsewhere.
It seems like many of the crusaders on this particular front are using circumcision as a scapegoat for their own sexual dysfunction. Which is ironic, since the only interesting new tidbit I picked up in that above-linked discussion was that premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction are more common in uncircumcised men.
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01-14-2006, 06:47 PM | #185 (permalink) |
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See, for me it doesn't even matter how valid that source is (and, by the way, I agree - it's suspicious). What it all comes down to - setting all the possible negatives aside (and there have been more valid sources showing negatives, albeit less sensational as some other sources might have you believe) - is that it is the permanent removal of a body part, without the person's consent, for absolutely no necessary medical reason. If there WERE a significant medical reason, penile problems would abound in Europe, Australia, South America, etc - all places where circumcision is quite rare. I mentioned earlier, the circumcision rate in Australia is about 10%, and it's not dissimilar throughout most of Europe.
Surprisingly to me, someone actually responded that they'd be fine with me having my child's earlobes removed after birth. I'm not sure if that person was serious, but I'm pretty sure that person is in an extreme minority if they were. The best any medical organization is willing to say is that circumcision maybe, potentially might have slight medical benefits. And, by no surprise at all, that's from an American source - again, the ONLY country in the world that regularly performs non-therapeutic neonatal circumcision. It is a cure in search of a disease. The point is, it doesn't even really matter if circumcision isn't BAD. The point is, it's not really even GOOD. It just IS. And when we're talking the permanent removal of a body part on a helpless child who has no ability to consent, that's simply not a good enough reason.
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01-14-2006, 07:05 PM | #186 (permalink) | |
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From my selfish standpoint (as in what I like about it myself). #1 It IS culturaly acceptable and expected, there are fights worth fighting, this doesn't seem to be one of them. #2 I'm always BJ ready and the women in the US expect it. #3 I'm glad it was done when I was a wee-one so I don't recall it. It doesn't seem to really hurt anyone so I don't understand the frothing at the mouth some people have about it. My evolutionary biology take on this is the foreskin became obsolete once we started to wear clothes, and while I've never experianced it first hand the fun descriptions I read while researching this make me glad I am since there are obvious hygine issues and I like to keep'em clean (see #2).
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01-14-2006, 07:39 PM | #187 (permalink) |
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For the life of my I can not understand why people would want to remove it... it is something we are born with and have had ever since humans were humans. And for those of you who say it doesnt change anything, yes it does. The amount of feeling you would loose would be insane. Having your penis constantly rub against your pants must kill so much feeling, essentialy creating a calluse over the most sensative part of the males body.
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01-14-2006, 07:47 PM | #188 (permalink) | |
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Someone PROVE that cut men enjoy sex less than uncut men. Loss of nerves? Maybe some are lost, more likely the body adapts and developing nerves develop elsewhere. Keratination, callous and other similar terms? I don't experience that. Other cut men here don't seem to. Are there pictures? Case studies? Can anyone show me PROOF of this occuring? I'm happy to post a medical study picture of my penis. It's fine. It's not scared, abnormal, curved, inverted, calloused, cracked and bleeding, keratinized (beyond what any exposed flesh is). It's soft, sensitive skin that reacts favorably during sexual situations. My wife likes it. My previous partners have enjoyed it. Why is this SUCH a problem to some people. It's not a limb. It's skin. Sheesh! |
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01-14-2006, 08:05 PM | #189 (permalink) | |
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It looks like more states are not having Medicaid fund this surgery. In the future, it could be just as culturally unacceptable to be circumcised. Or the younger circumcised guys are the different ones just like they are in Europe. The Internet is allowing a lot of people to see for themselves what goes on, and why it isn't necessary to remove the foreskin.
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01-14-2006, 08:32 PM | #190 (permalink) | |
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Do you still have part of your frenulum? That is the part on the bottom of the penis right behind the glans. Could you see that if someone had a circumcision where all or most of the inner skin was removed, it would reduce sensations? Yes, the glans would still work, and allow orgasms, but what if your shaft skin could have the same feelings? You aren't going to orgasm quicker, it would just be more intense. For girls, it would be like having an orgasm by simulating her clit only vs. both the clit and her vagina. We get worked up about it because it is sensitive, erogenous skin that was removed because our parents thought since everybody else is doing it, he'll get it done also. Without doing any research or knowing anything about the foreskin. Or that they have been conditioned to think uncircumcised penises are different or unclean. Last edited by ASU2003; 01-14-2006 at 08:35 PM.. |
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01-14-2006, 09:40 PM | #191 (permalink) |
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I do have sensation along my shaft. Maybe I'm missing something... I just don't see what it is I'm missing... and I don't mean that in a speculative fashion. I know about the foreskin. I have done research. I still circumcised my sons. *shrug* It CAN be unclean, but I don't think it normally is. I do believe there are potential health benefits. Maybe I'm wrong, but I cannot be accused of not looking into it.
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But one of my relatives did get it done late in life like that, and he got a different cut where there is some tissue at the bottom like a "waddle" supposedly it's for the woman's pleasure. Again, i don't know if it's true or if he's just making it up but I did see it and it is different.
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kids use and think of different ways to class themselves as the same... I recall some uncuts that were "ashamed" to shower in gym because they were different. I didn't shower in gym because I couldn't shower and get dressed in the short 10 min timeframe. I tried a couple times, but there weren't enough stalls for everyone all at once.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_...f_circumcision But let me break it down.... For adult circumcision.... Sex drive: 2 studies, sex drive was unchanged. Erectile function: 6 studies, 2 in favor of non-circumcision, one in favor of circumcision, and 3 showing no effect. The study in favor OF circumcision was larger in sample size by a factor of 15 to any other study done. Ejaculation: 5 studies. 3 no difference, 2 say circumised men take longer to ejaculate, including the very large study above, it also claims circumcised men are LESS likely to prematurely ejaculate. Penile Sensation: (note just what you can feel where) 6 studies. Two in favor of noncircumsision one in favor of circumcision, 3 no difference. Overall satisfaction 5 studies, 3 favor circumsision, two no difference. Now its been a LONG LONG time since I did a meta analysis of like studies, but it seems to me that over all there is a benifit to circumsision over being non-circumcised. Cynthetiq I'd like to thank you for pointing me in this direction, if anything it makes me more confident I made the right decision for my son. Its late, I'm tired, I'm just getting over being sick and I can see typos all over so I'll ask you all to forgive me there
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