04-28-2006, 05:39 PM | #121 (permalink) |
Walking is Still Honest
Location: Seattle, WA
|
Correct me if I get this wrong, but you're implicitly saying that it's okay to murder a fetus if it serves a good purpose and yet not okay to murder an infant if it serves a good purpose.
Why?
__________________
I wonder if we're stuck in Rome. |
04-29-2006, 04:19 AM | #123 (permalink) | |
Junkie
Location: Ontario, Canada
|
Quote:
How about people who get pregnant deliver a full term baby and give it up for adoption if they don't want children? Then get sterilized, maybe? Nobody gets killed using this method.
__________________
Si vis pacem parabellum. |
|
04-29-2006, 10:29 AM | #124 (permalink) | ||||
Junkie
|
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
2) most people adopting want new borns. what happens when there are more new borns then people want to adopt? and then think about the older kids that people aren't taking. what about them? is brining kids up in the foster system really fair to the kids? and why should my taxes pay for your mistake for 18 years? 3) if you had them get sterilized after it, that's the same as murder. if they want to have kids one day, but are not ready yet (and that's why they'd have prefered an abortion to forced preganancy + adoption), then by sterilizing them you're pre-emptively killing any future children she planned on having.
__________________
shabbat shalom, mother fucker! - the hebrew hammer |
||||
04-29-2006, 11:20 AM | #125 (permalink) | |
Junkie
Location: In the land of ice and snow.
|
Quote:
|
|
04-29-2006, 11:52 AM | #126 (permalink) | |
Location: Iceland
|
Quote:
NOTE: I am pro-choice, and I will never support a political candidate whose platform is based on restricting women's choice. However, I do not ever see myself having an abortion, barring rape or extreme health complications. Harry, your argument for abortion is based on the opinion that "forcing" a woman to have a child, if she doesn't want a child, is wrong. To me, that's like saying a woman is also "forced" to not use birth control (or to use it incorrectly) and that she is "forced" to choose to have unprotected sex. Personally, I find that this opinion actually demeans women's reproductive choices. Women can and SHOULD be responsible for what happens to their bodies as a result of sex. If a woman doesn't want a child, no one (unless it's a rapist, or if they are very low-income and have ZERO access to birth control or condoms) can force a pregnancy on her. If she gets pregnant, well... sure, no one can actually force her to keep the child. But no one forced her to get pregnant in the first place; to believe that is to believe that woman cannot and should not be expected to take responsibility for their own bodies. Barring socioeconomic differences and education, it all comes down to choice and taking responsibility for one's decisions. For me, I recognize that having an abortion is a valid way of taking responsibility for one's poor decisions. However, it's a responsibility I would clearly like to avoid, because I am just not emotionally able to handle doing something like that to myself. Therefore I take any and all precautions (short of abstinence) necessary to avoid getting pregnant. If I got pregnant, I would carry the child to term. That is all there is to it, for me. Others can do what they wish; it is, after all, a free country. "Force" is not the right word to use in such an argument (again, unless we are talking rape).
__________________
And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran Last edited by abaya; 04-29-2006 at 11:54 AM.. |
|
04-29-2006, 12:09 PM | #127 (permalink) | |
Junkie
|
Quote:
unless i'm reading this wrong, your only objection is my use of the word 'force.' while it's true, barring rape/incest, no one held a gun to the womans head and forced her to have sex, if we made abortion illegal it would be legally forcing her to keep the pregnancy. what else would you call it? if your only options are 9th months of pregnancy, risking your health with a back alley abortion, or trying to force a miscarriage, with the latter two bringing possible adverse health consequences (including the mothers death) and criminal charges if found out, how would that not be being forced to carry the baby to term?
__________________
shabbat shalom, mother fucker! - the hebrew hammer Last edited by hannukah harry; 04-29-2006 at 12:47 PM.. Reason: changed 'legal' to 'illegal' oops. |
|
04-29-2006, 12:30 PM | #128 (permalink) | ||
Location: Iceland
|
Quote:
Quote:
However, I don't dispute you on that point. What I disagree with is the idea that a woman has no choice when getting pregnant in the first place. Women do have responsibility, they do have the power (again, unless poor/uneducated) to use birth control correctly, to ask their partner to use condoms, and to even practice abstinence if all else fails. To say that making abortion illegal would be forcing women to do something they don't want to do may be correct, but it ignores the logical precedence that a woman chose to take the risk of getting pregnant in the first place. I would guess that very few instances of abortion involve a woman feeling "forced" to have risky sex and get pregnant. It is still a choice. I cannot logically be pro-choice about women getting rid of pregnancies without also being pro-choice about women preventing a pregnancy. That's all.
__________________
And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran |
||
04-29-2006, 12:45 PM | #129 (permalink) | ||
Walking is Still Honest
Location: Seattle, WA
|
Quote:
Quote:
B) Yes, it's not a viable being yet. So?
__________________
I wonder if we're stuck in Rome. Last edited by FoolThemAll; 04-29-2006 at 12:52 PM.. |
||
04-29-2006, 02:12 PM | #131 (permalink) |
Lover - Protector - Teacher
Location: Seattle, WA
|
It's not that cut and dry!
Life is not always life. Are vegetables still living a life as good as someone who isn't a vegetable? Killing is not always killing -- what about animals? Is there killing the same as killing a human? If not, then you agree that there are degrees of life and degrees of killing. Frankly, I don't see having an abortion as any worse than killing a cow for steak. Or a bug thats 'icky' or a plant that you need for food. Wherever you draw the line for killing, you draw it somewhere. They're lesser beings who don't have the same law-provided rights that we do. You just feel the need to protect vestigal cells from death, and not bugs. I do not. End of story.
__________________
"I'm typing on a computer of science, which is being sent by science wires to a little science server where you can access it. I'm not typing on a computer of philosophy or religion or whatever other thing you think can be used to understand the universe because they're a poor substitute in the role of understanding the universe which exists independent from ourselves." - Willravel Last edited by Jinn; 04-29-2006 at 02:16 PM.. |
04-29-2006, 03:06 PM | #133 (permalink) |
Lover - Protector - Teacher
Location: Seattle, WA
|
We eat many of the things we eat of of convenience. Unless you can abstain from eating everything but leafy vegetables (or your one food of choice) than you are no longer eating out of necessity.
So then, if you can't stop eating the convenient foods, how can you other people to stop doing things for THEIR convenience?
__________________
"I'm typing on a computer of science, which is being sent by science wires to a little science server where you can access it. I'm not typing on a computer of philosophy or religion or whatever other thing you think can be used to understand the universe because they're a poor substitute in the role of understanding the universe which exists independent from ourselves." - Willravel |
04-29-2006, 04:14 PM | #135 (permalink) | |
Junkie
Location: In the land of ice and snow.
|
Quote:
|
|
04-29-2006, 11:46 PM | #136 (permalink) | |
Walking is Still Honest
Location: Seattle, WA
|
Quote:
An infant is more developed than a fetus. An infant resides outside of the mother's body. An infant is more likely to survive without assistance. You care to answer the question now?
__________________
I wonder if we're stuck in Rome. |
|
04-30-2006, 04:07 AM | #137 (permalink) |
Junkie
Location: Ontario, Canada
|
what exactly did you learn about the development of babies changed your mind?
How the brain develops, the rate of growth, the physical transformation. It all happens much earlier than we previously thought. 1) do you realize how many different medical complications (life threatening and non) can come with preganancy? and that's not too mention the hormonal swings, physical discomforts, wierd food cravings, relationship complications, post-partum depression, etc, that a woman will go through (or may, depending on which thing). to force that on a woman who doesn't want it... you may as well lock her in a cell and torture her for 9 months. personally, i prefer my women to be incubators by choice, not force. All of which is easily outweighed by the fact that taking the innocent life of a baby is about a million times worse than anything you just described. 2) most people adopting want new borns. what happens when there are more new borns then people want to adopt? and then think about the older kids that people aren't taking. what about them? is brining kids up in the foster system really fair to the kids? and why should my taxes pay for your mistake for 18 years? I think we can cross that bridge when we come to it - right now there is a dearth of adoptable newborns, which is why people are going to China and Russia to adopt children. 3) if you had them get sterilized after it, that's the same as murder. if they want to have kids one day, but are not ready yet (and that's why they'd have prefered an abortion to forced preganancy + adoption), then by sterilizing them you're pre-emptively killing any future children she planned on having. Not even close; no life was taken in this example you provide. That's like saying every time you jack off you're killing thousands of unborn children.
__________________
Si vis pacem parabellum. |
04-30-2006, 07:13 AM | #138 (permalink) | |||||||||||||
Junkie
|
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
b) so? so why should a non-viable group of undeveloped cells take precedence over a woman? Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
i'm sorry, but you're wrong. the only difference between an abortion and forced sterilization is that one is stopped pre-fertilization and the other post-fertilization. in both cases, left alone, a child would be born. if a woman wants to have 3 kids, and you sterilize her before she has any, you are keeping 3 kids from being born. if she got pregnant 3 times and you made her abort them, you are keeping three kids from being born. sterilization is just one logical step ahead of abortion. at least abortion has the benefit of allowing the woman to have a child at a later date when she's ready and wants one. jerking off isn't murder because those sperm weren't intended to be used for making babies. sterilization keeps ovum (planned for fertilization) from being used to make babies. notice a difference in the intent?
__________________
shabbat shalom, mother fucker! - the hebrew hammer Last edited by hannukah harry; 04-30-2006 at 07:15 AM.. Reason: formatting |
|||||||||||||
04-30-2006, 07:50 AM | #139 (permalink) | |
Junkie
Location: In the land of ice and snow.
|
Quote:
And please, drop the cross examination bullshit. I answered a couple of your questions, the least you could do was answer one of mine without acting like i was trying to hide something from you. |
|
04-30-2006, 08:37 AM | #140 (permalink) |
I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot!
Location: Upper Michigan
|
I doubt many here would agree with my point of view. BUT I would not push my ideas on anyone either. That is one of the problems that I have with this issue.
When I first knew I was pregnant I did not go to my Dr until about 3 months along since we did not have good health insurance until then. My Dr asked if we'd planned this pregnancy and the answer was no. Then he asked if we wanted the baby and the answer was yes. Both my husband and I were working, I had a bachelors degree and a good job. We had an apartment in a good part of town and we had health insurance. We were in one of the best situations to have a baby. BUT - my Dr asked me repeatedly if I wanted to terminate. He asked me at more than one appointment. I don't know what his agenda was but I believe that if you've asked a person a question twice and they resolutely say NO you should not ask again. I felt like he WANTED me to abort. I wish there were stronger restrictions on repeat abortions. I've known women who used it as a form of birth control. They didn't bother with condoms or pills and slept with every guy they could get ahold of. She didn't care about her body or her children that she DID have. She did not desire to protect her body. She was too lazy to deal with the consequences of her promiscuous irresponsible lifestyle. She had 4 repeat abortions and 4 other children in foster care. I wish there was some way at that point to have her sterilized. She was 30 and should have learned by then how to use birthcontrol.
__________________
"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma. Last edited by raeanna74; 04-30-2006 at 03:54 PM.. Reason: for spelling - cause I'm anal |
04-30-2006, 08:57 AM | #141 (permalink) | ||
Junkie
|
Quote:
Quote:
does anyone know if there's a safe, 100% reversable procedure to sterilize a woman? i know there's the tube tying thing, but i've always heard that's permanent, or close to it.
__________________
shabbat shalom, mother fucker! - the hebrew hammer |
||
04-30-2006, 09:25 AM | #142 (permalink) | ||
Walking is Still Honest
Location: Seattle, WA
|
Quote:
Quote:
B) A non-viable group of undeveloped cells - a human being - should have no precedence over the mother. But its right to life should have precedence over the right to an unoccupied womb. You don't have that latter right without the right to life. When it's right to life against right to life, the mother wins out. When your life is threatened, even unintentionally, you have every right to take every necessary measure in response to save your life. No matter how many times I get into an abortion debate, that tired strawmen always seem to show up: "why is the z/e/f more important?" No one's arguing that. Give it up.
__________________
I wonder if we're stuck in Rome. |
||
04-30-2006, 09:36 AM | #143 (permalink) | |
I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot!
Location: Upper Michigan
|
Quote:
__________________
"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma. |
|
04-30-2006, 09:39 AM | #144 (permalink) | |
Location: Iceland
|
Quote:
__________________
And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran |
|
04-30-2006, 11:19 AM | #145 (permalink) | ||||
Junkie
|
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
__________________
shabbat shalom, mother fucker! - the hebrew hammer |
||||
04-30-2006, 12:39 PM | #146 (permalink) |
Addict
|
Forgive my somewhat redundant comments, but I feel the need to crystalize a few points:
People, including mothers and fetuses, have a right to life. I offer no proof for this statement: it is simply wrong to kill human beings, with exceptions built in such as self-defense, war, etc. One can argue about legitimate exceptions, but I'm not sure how to interpret an outright rejection of the principle that you should not kill humans. People, including mothers and fetuses, have a right to autonomous decision. Because the fetus is totally unable to communicate, it is not possible for it to express its will. It is certainly possible that fetuses and even infants do not have any will to speak of. The mother, however, sometimes wills the destruction of the fetal life. Fetuses are human beings... in the genetic sense. They contain a complete human genetic code that will automatically construct a human body within the confines of the womb. It does not necessarily follow, however, that this physical human being has the same rights as a morally significant human being. Without offering an argument (again), I claim that it is wrong to murder healthy infants. If you disagree with me on this point, I will do my best to respond with a logical condemnation of infanticide. The question: is there a morally significant difference between an infant human being and a third trimester fetus human being? My answer is that I have yet to find one. I do not deny the possibility that a meaningful difference exists, but I have not discovered one yet. The second question: is there a morally significant difference between a third trimester fetus human being and a first/second trimester fetus human being? The obvious answer: viability! Humans that are not yet able to live outside the womb have less moral worth than humans who can survive. An interesting claim, to be sure. It is hardly self-evident. Suppose one were able to construct an oversized artificial womb. Further suppose that a middle-aged man contracted a terrible physical disease that caused his lungs to deteriorate until they were (like a premature fetus') unable to function properly outside the womb. Naturally, the man is put in the artificial womb and is then able to receive nutrients and oxygen through an artificial umbilical cord. Does the man lose moral worth when he is put in the artificial womb? I believe: 1. that it is not possible to make a morally significant distinction between fetuses with the same moral rights as infants and those who do not. 2. that it is not possible to make a morally significant distinction between late-term fetuses and infants. 3. that infants should not be actively murdered. Unsupported premise: A mother does not have the right to kill her newborn child even if that child will cause a significant amount of inconvenience to the mother. Unsupported premise 2: two beings with the same moral worth should be afforded equal treatment in the same circumstances. Conclusion: It is not moral for a mother to abort her fetus unless the fetus threatens the mother's life or health. My post grows too long, so I will close by saying that, although I believe essentially all acts of abortion to be the immoral killings of morally significant human beings, the social consequences of banning abortions are too great. It is preferable to allow women to safely terminate the lives of the fetuses, rather than forcing them to seek back-alley abortions that risk the lives of mothers as well as those of fetuses. As Bill Clinton once said: Abortions should be safe, legal, and rare. - The goal of the government should be to reduce the number of abortions being performed to the greatest possible degree.
__________________
The peculiar evil of silencing the expression of an opinion is, that it is robbing the human race; posterity as well as the existing generation; those who dissent from the opinion, still more than those who hold it. If the opinion is right, they are deprived of the opportunity of exchanging error for truth: if wrong, they lose, what is almost as great a benefit, the clearer perception and livelier impression of truth, produced by its collision with error. ~John Stuart Mill, On Liberty |
04-30-2006, 01:36 PM | #147 (permalink) | |
Junkie
Location: In the land of ice and snow.
|
Quote:
Do you have a point with all these questions? If all these questions are trying to somehow get me to say something specific so you can launch into whatever defense of the "right to life" you currently subscribe to you might as well just come off it and explain why you think unborn children are entitled to a birthday. |
|
04-30-2006, 07:24 PM | #148 (permalink) | ||||||
Walking is Still Honest
Location: Seattle, WA
|
Quote:
You keep getting these questions because you fail to explain your answers adequately. It's okay because it's not viable? Without an explanation, that makes as much sense as "it's okay because it doesn't look human" or "it's okay because it can't fight off infection without the mother's antibodies". Fyi, unborn children don't have a birthday because they haven't yet been born. Not sure where you were going with that, but I won't ask since questions irritate you. Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
It's not giving preference to the z/e/f, it's giving preference to a right with higher priority. Your inability to understand my position does not change it to an easier-to-understand, easier-to-attack position. Quote:
Quote:
__________________
I wonder if we're stuck in Rome. Last edited by FoolThemAll; 04-30-2006 at 07:28 PM.. |
||||||
04-30-2006, 07:56 PM | #149 (permalink) | |||
Junkie
Location: In the land of ice and snow.
|
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
|
|||
04-30-2006, 08:22 PM | #150 (permalink) | ||||
Walking is Still Honest
Location: Seattle, WA
|
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
__________________
I wonder if we're stuck in Rome. |
||||
04-30-2006, 09:04 PM | #151 (permalink) | |||||||||
Junkie
|
Quote:
this part that i quoted though, a quick response. i disagree on the immoral part, but the rest i'm in agreement with. Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
either analogy you choose though, you have only two options. either let the perpetrator go scot free or throw him overboard/out in the cold. and since a fetus has no rights, nor in my opinion should it, and the woman does, choosing to 'throw it overboard' seems like an acceptable solution. Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
__________________
shabbat shalom, mother fucker! - the hebrew hammer |
|||||||||
04-30-2006, 09:16 PM | #152 (permalink) | |
Location: Iceland
|
Quote:
Not to say I didn't enjoy a healthy debate here, for a few posts... but this is getting outrageous. Is there a point here, beyond the expression of one's ego?
__________________
And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran |
|
04-30-2006, 09:20 PM | #153 (permalink) | |
Addict
|
Quote:
"Moral rights" are claims about good and evil (or right and wrong, if you prefer) that require certain conduct from individuals. For example, if a mother has a moral right to control her body, then her moral claims as a morally significant human being are being violated whenever her moral right to control her body is being violated. As I said earlier, I believe that all morally significant human beings have a right to live. It is, admittedly, a very difficult position to argue in favor of: I will conclude by saying that I believe killing people who have never used their autonomous will to bring harm to you is always, always wrong... unless, of course, killing would prevent a greater number of deaths from occuring - you are also not expected to sacrifice your own life in order to avoid killing. Thus, we are in agreement that abortion to save the life of the mother is ok. It's wrong to kill your neighbors, friends, coworkers, family, etc. - what's the moral difference between them and a fetus?
__________________
The peculiar evil of silencing the expression of an opinion is, that it is robbing the human race; posterity as well as the existing generation; those who dissent from the opinion, still more than those who hold it. If the opinion is right, they are deprived of the opportunity of exchanging error for truth: if wrong, they lose, what is almost as great a benefit, the clearer perception and livelier impression of truth, produced by its collision with error. ~John Stuart Mill, On Liberty |
|
04-30-2006, 10:52 PM | #154 (permalink) | |||
Walking is Still Honest
Location: Seattle, WA
|
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
I am not saying that the z/e/f's rights are more important than the mother's. I am saying that the z/e/f's right to life is more important than the mother's other rights besides the right to life. Similarly, the mother's right to life is also more important than the z/e/f's other rights. It's not z/e/f > mother, it's right to life > all other rights. I don't think I can put it any simpler. I'm not sure what to suspect here if it isn't a matter of density or dishonesty.
__________________
I wonder if we're stuck in Rome. |
|||
04-30-2006, 11:25 PM | #155 (permalink) |
Winter is Coming
Location: The North
|
Completely off topic, I wonder how this little gem of a thread got bumped after being started almost three years ago to the day. I was very surprised to come across a three year old post of mine. I'm not sure now-me necessarily agrees with then-me.
Yay for kicking a cold, dead horse! Now back to your regularly scheduled discussion. I will add to it by commenting that, regardless of feelings about the result, Roe v. Wade is a horrible horrible decision from a legal standpoint. Rules regarding social phenomena like gay rights and abortion should not be decided by courts on the basis of a wildly expansive reading of the 14th amendment, they should be decided by the people through constitutional amendments or state legislatures. The only reason no one has touched Roe v. Wade is because it's Roe v. Wade, not because it's a shining pinnacle of impervious legal excellence. |
04-30-2006, 11:29 PM | #156 (permalink) | |||||
Junkie
Location: In the land of ice and snow.
|
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
|
|||||
05-01-2006, 03:40 AM | #157 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: Want to run away? Follow the light
|
As an ongoing 'contraception' (for want of a better word), no.
But I am pro-choice. When we had our 8 week scan, it really hit home that this little baby, even at 8 weeks was moving and apart of us. However, there's too many neglected kids in the world that I think this needs to be a big deciding fact in the consideration of having an abortion. What's worse do you think - having an abortion, or bringing a child into a world that you are unable to care for?
__________________
ciao bella! |
05-01-2006, 03:50 AM | #158 (permalink) | |
Junkie
Location: Ontario, Canada
|
Quote:
An abortion is an active act of killing - people can argue whether it is "murder" or whether it is something else, but undeniably, a life is extinguished when an abortion occurs, and at some of the later stages of development, the infant feels pain before death. Nice. Sterilization (although I was not seriously advocating its use, but lets go down that road anyway) kills no one. Notice a difference? Let's review: abortion kills. And the people who are vehemently pro-choice, who can only couch their meaning in terms like "it's just a bunch of cells, dude", are, IMO, in denial. We used to practice infanticide in the West and not that long ago. We figured that such practices were barbaric and uncivilized and we now look with disgust on people in India and China and Nigeria who continue to kill excess children and call them savage. IMO, a couple of generations from now, when we are more enlightened, we will look with disgust on abortion (at least after the first trimester or so) and call the people who did it savage and selfish, in this land of plenty. We will in the future look with more understanding on the poor third world dirt farmer who kills the extra infant mouth than we will on virtually anyone in the Western world who killed their child in the womb because it would force them to buy a house in the suburbs, wreck their dress size or stop them from partying on a regular basis.
__________________
Si vis pacem parabellum. Last edited by highthief; 05-01-2006 at 09:18 AM.. |
|
05-01-2006, 04:57 AM | #159 (permalink) | ||||
Walking is Still Honest
Location: Seattle, WA
|
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
__________________
I wonder if we're stuck in Rome. |
||||
05-01-2006, 06:56 AM | #160 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: South Florida
|
This argument about abortion can and will go on for as long as women are getting pregnant and convienantly having abortions for whatever reason. I am sure that they can validate it to themselves. Fact of the matter is they could something that either was alive or would be some day. Who knows. Mom doesnt and we certainly don't. You will always have people for abortion and people against it. Pro Life= Anti-choice, Pro choice= Anti life yeah yeah whatever. I guarantee this thread is not going to convince any women to have their baby if they are considering abortion and it wont turn your average pro-lifer into a pro-choicer.
Fact of the matter is that this thread is dead and nothing new is being said. I have read the other abortiont hreads and nothing new is being said. Same stuff from mostly the same people. I think thread starter wanted to stir the pot a little and wish granted now can we all move on? HEHE And yeah I know I am a horrible typer and an ever worse speller but oh well. You'll live and thank god your mom didnt abort you.
__________________
"Two men: one thinks he can. One thinks he cannot. They are Both Right." |
Tags |
abortion |
|
|