NETPHANTOM

Is masturbating once a day with ejaculate ok? or is it not i see sites saying its ok and doesnt do anything but others say it does affect you. As make you tired and make you smell odd...Anyone know?

xepherys

Haha, trust me, it's fine. Even more than once a day. Mmm hmm...

Coppertop

Yeah it affects you: you'll be more relaxed.

Samalie

Only once a day?

Don't worry man, you'll be fine

Sammy

reiii

it can be kinda dependency forming if you use the post orgasm relaxation to fall asleep. But if you dont have trouble sleeping, no worries.

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Hanxter

isn't ejaculation the desired effect of masturbation???

Poppinjay

Adding to what reiii posted, some folks say that it's also an impediment to a healthy sexual relationship with a partner, ie: jack off too much, nothing left for your partner.

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snow wombat

I was reading in the New England journal of medicine that it was good for your prostate to ejaculate at least 3 times per week. This way you don't accumulate old sperm and the chemicals that form with it. By this they say that it might decrease the chance for prostate cancer.....

Add this to the pleasure and relaxation....do it as much as you want...

BigBen

How about 5 times a day?

Once at wake up, as soon as (or before, if the dream was good) eyes open;
Once in the morning shower;
Once at the end of shift, back at home, or barracks;
Once during the afternoon/evening, when looking at something that arouses you;
Once before bed (fall asleep, reason posted above);

Is that bad? Will I go blind when I am 80?

Or worse, will I obsess about sex so much that it takes over my life, and all I do is masturbate and think dirty thoughts...

I have often wondered what the average for males (normal males, I don't want to hear from you perverts) is on an average day.

For me, it is 5 times a day.

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xepherys

I masturbate, it never takes away from the wife and I getting it on. *shrug*

rebeldog

Once a day can't be that bad for you. The population of the world continues to increase and you know people are still "rubbing one out" on a regular basis!!

Martian

BigBen - There is no average. And about becoming sex-obsessed, the reality is quite the opposite. Rather than becoming obsessed, relieving those urges will allow you to not think about it quite so much.

5 times a day is plenty for you. Once a week is great for me. We're two different people. There's nothing wrong with either.

As to hearing that it's not healthy, that's a recent scam. There are websites claiming that 'over-masturbation' can have dire consequences and the only way to prevent those consequences is to use their product. It's snake oil for the new millenium.

Poppinjay - If you're masturbating to the point where you don't want sex with your partner, that's not as healthy. But you can masturbate regularly and still have a healthy sex life; what if I want it twice a day and she wants it once every two days? Why should I keep holding onto that sexual energy when I have a perfectly valid way to release it?

Hell, some people even include their partners in the act.

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Charlatan

What's masturbation?

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Siege

Damn Ben, 5 times a day? My balls hurt after twice.

As for me, usually a couple times per week. I'm not big on sexual gratification, which is odd, coming from a guy not getting any. Maybe i'm just in denial

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Different strokes for different folks.





hehehehehehehehehehehehee......

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Redlemon

Smell odd? Only if you don't clean the ejaculate off...

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Furry

Yes, don't forget under the foreskin either...

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billwood

What You can't see the hear growing om your palms? Oh ya, mom side if you do it to much you'll go blind.....
Don't worry it never efected me and Ia'm an old dude...

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SupraMan23

2-3 is the range i like to keep... keep the juices fresh

SiN

valid point.
granted, i'm female ... but yeah, i'd been using that as a form of 'sleeping pill' for yeaaarrrsss...
fortunately, I usually can get to sleep if i'm in situations where I need to just go to sleep, but when i'm alone, it's really hard to not fall back into doing it.

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Key

i'm the same way, i've used the same 'sleeping pill' regularly to get to sleep at night almost daily for a while now. but if i'm on a trip with other people or in a shared sleeping environment it's not like i'm not able to sleep without it.

if i'm alone at home though, it's hard not to, since i can't think of a single good reason to not.

Mantus

I made a post on this a long time ago, no cliffnotes though


PS. I am typing this on a brail keyboard....

777

And this is why people fall asleep after sex.

Although this "sleeping pill" may become habit forming, the side effects are different for everyong.

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analog

Not for nothing, but if I don't have a girlfriend with whom I can get busy, I gotta get off at least once (absolute minimum) a day to keep the relatively small amount of sanity I already have. I'd say average is about 3 a day.

Of course, if I have a girl to have sex with, that average goes down to nill.

healer

The only problem I can see with doing it too frequently is that once you do get with a girl you'll be too used to your own hand/foot/fluffy toy to reach orgasm with her.

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Tetanus

The first time I stuck it in I was so excited that I felt like releasing after 5 seconds. And that was after five years of 3-4 times a day.

sailor

Only once a day? Shit, my girlfriend does it more than that. Don't think it'll hurt you

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Franconian

once a day is fine, and ...... you juist get blind if the ejaculat gets in your eyes and you don't remove it immediately...

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Seaver

You should learn to do it with both hands. Be a switch hitter and you wont have the problem with one forearm getting bigger than the other.

Franconian

both hands?? man i hurted myself badly once I tried to do it with my left hand.....

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Halx

I think the only thing that keeps me from doing it more is the cleanup. Kinda odd huh?

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uncrtn

Good bad right or wrong whos to say ????

marsbarz

Lol check the websites..
If they say you can do it as often as you like and then try to sell you a product because of that fact then they have other interests.
If they say you can't do it as often as you like and try to sell you a product because of that fact then they have other interests.

I think you'll quickly find out exactly what the truth is.

ScottKuma

I travel a lot, and I'm away from the wifey...and so a good tug is one way to keep from getting TOTALLY frustrated.

And it certainly helps me relax after dealing with some unhappy people out there.

Nothing wrong with doing it, or with not doing it. If you're happy, you're OK.

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Dragonknight

Holly hell 5 a day, yeah my junk would probably fall off. Once a week or so works for me.

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macmanmike6100

Everybody's already said it...I think we can consider this case closed :-)

tspikes51

You're fine dude. I've been going about once a day for a long time now.

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Johnny Pyro

I do it a minimum of once a day during my work week and a shit load on the weekend! I also have sex on the weekends. I think the internet porn might have something to do with it.

Once a day is perfectly healthy. You have nothing to worry about.

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sisis

If you are over 50 once a day is supposed to help prevent prostate problems. Consider masturbation as preventative therapy.

Leto

hmmm.. thinking... Can this be performed by a therapist? AND.... can it be claimed under OHIP?

hmmmm... looking forward to the age of 50.

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