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Old 11-09-2003, 11:24 PM   #81 (permalink)
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it's not ejaculations, once again
it's just lube. girls and guys orgasms are different
dude...read over the ENTIRE thread please
sorry to say it but your ignorance is agitating me
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Old 11-10-2003, 04:02 AM   #82 (permalink)
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i don't understand, how is that ignorance? iif anything, i'm informing you ignorant people
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Old 11-10-2003, 04:22 AM   #83 (permalink)
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dude...read over the ENTIRE thread please
sorry to say it but your ignorance is agitating me
Must agree. It is ejaculate, not the standard female lubrication.

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Old 11-10-2003, 04:49 AM   #84 (permalink)
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Sorry Biffy... You're wrong...

I've ejaculated and it isn't pee, and it's quite different from normal female lubricant.

Yeah, some chicks in porn are peeing but that doesn't mean that all women are...
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Old 11-10-2003, 07:47 AM   #85 (permalink)
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Biffy, Yeah I know guys are girls are a bit different, BUT have you ever seen a guy take a leak during sex? I haven't heard of it. Girls can ejaculate just as guys can, I just believe its a LOT more common for guys. Shit I do believe I've heard that some guys can orgasm without ejaculating every time. (Damn guys with multi's....) So technically I seem to think we're on opposite ends of the playing field... yet you can always run to the other side... hehe. Its not pee its ejaculate.. Next time just find a woman who can.. taste it... then a bit later have her pee.. and taste that, I'm willing to bet the tastes would be a little different.
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Old 11-10-2003, 08:21 AM   #86 (permalink)
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I prefer the slow wet drip, drip, drip, drip, drip, drip, sticky, icky, almost clear fluid, prefect for intercourse.
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Old 11-10-2003, 12:45 PM   #87 (permalink)
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i don't understand, how is that ignorance? iif anything, i'm informing you ignorant people
You're wrong. Take a sex ed class or ten. Then we'll talk.
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Old 11-11-2003, 03:02 PM   #88 (permalink)
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IIRC both the male and female urethra (sp?) close during sexual arousal, not permitting urine to pass.

I'm not 100% sure for the girls...just remember reading it somewhere.

I agree, female ejaculation is, in my limited experience, a wonderful thing to be celebrated and enjoyed.
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Old 01-29-2004, 11:21 AM   #89 (permalink)
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It's happenned to me once or twice, while i was going down on her, it was my first girlfriend so i didnt know what to expect, but the next thing I knew was a got a little squirt of love juice on my face. It was kinda fun to please her like that though
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Old 01-29-2004, 11:32 AM   #90 (permalink)
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Man, I don't know if I've ever been witness to it or not. I just know that there have been gigantic wet spots all over my bed seconds after she gets done.
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Old 01-29-2004, 02:01 PM   #91 (permalink)
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Man, I don't know if I've ever been witness to it or not. I just know that there have been gigantic wet spots all over my bed seconds after she gets done.
Same thing with my wife! No squirt, huge wet spots.
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Old 01-29-2004, 02:55 PM   #92 (permalink)
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My wife does it so much during sex that we usually end up sleeping on towels on the bed afterward....
ROFL....that totally made my day
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Old 01-29-2004, 04:12 PM   #93 (permalink)
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IIRC both the male and female urethra (sp?) close during sexual arousal, not permitting urine to pass.

I'm not 100% sure for the girls...just remember reading it somewhere.

I agree, female ejaculation is, in my limited experience, a wonderful thing to be celebrated and enjoyed.
Thats correct. the urethra (you spelled it right) has a one way vavle that closes during sexual arousal as part of the muscle contractions (in the cases of females, dilation of the vagina) that the body goes through in preperation for sexual activity.
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Old 01-29-2004, 05:18 PM   #94 (permalink)
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wait... you're a guy, right? enough said
Biffy, I'm not a guy and I'm pretty sure I didn't pee on my boyfriend last weekend. My point is: the lube you're talking about (which you seem to think is the only other fluid we can produce in that area besides urine) is released inside the vagina, and not through the urethra. (http://health.discovery.com/centers/...ia/vagina.html) Perhaps you don't understand this because your period (which also comes through the vagina as opposed to the urethra) feels like peeing to you. Or are you just being ornery because you're looking for conflict?
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Old 01-29-2004, 05:47 PM   #95 (permalink)
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I've made my girlfriend "gush" before, the first time was quite a surprise considering my face was still down there.

I'm afraid I don't share TerraFORM's sentiments on the subject; I ask her to let me know right before so I can move out of the way.
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Old 02-01-2004, 07:20 AM   #96 (permalink)
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My last girlfriend had the nerve to try to learn to do it but the sense that she was going to pee kept ketting the best of her. I think she could have let it fly if she weren't so self conscious about the idea that she was going to urinate.

I hope to experience this first hand (or I guess that would be second hand) some time...
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Old 02-01-2004, 08:40 AM   #97 (permalink)
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Heh, you definitely need a snorkel! Sue Johannsen, the "talk sex with sue" lady has something about it on her site, just go to http://www.talksexwithsue.com and learn about it.
I am down for the count after ejaculating. I turn into a total idiot, I giggle, pass out, and am sort of useless for a few hours in terms of comprehension.
If you can get your girl to squirt, it's worth it. Just assure her she's *not* peeing. However, it is good if she doesn't go pee first, and has some to hold, as it increases the presssure that you need to squirt.
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Old 02-01-2004, 11:18 AM   #98 (permalink)
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My girlfriend had never gushed or squirted, until we finaly did it doggie style last time i saw her. I guess she gushed on the 2 occasions we did it, there was a big wet spot on the bed...lol... I thought it was kinda cool, but she was embarased...she said some of it had to be sweat lol.
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Old 02-01-2004, 12:18 PM   #99 (permalink)
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Biffy, Yeah I know guys are girls are a bit different, BUT have you ever seen a guy take a leak during sex? I haven't heard of it. Girls can ejaculate just as guys can, I just believe its a LOT more common for guys. Shit I do believe I've heard that some guys can orgasm without ejaculating every time. (Damn guys with multi's....) So technically I seem to think we're on opposite ends of the playing field... yet you can always run to the other side... hehe. Its not pee its ejaculate.. Next time just find a woman who can.. taste it... then a bit later have her pee.. and taste that, I'm willing to bet the tastes would be a little different.
/me grins... I guess I'm one of those "dammned" guys with multi's....

anyways yes.... I was suprised the first time I had one of my ex's squirt... felt like a watergun shooting all over my nuts..... suprised the hell outta me.. and all she could say was: "OOOOOH MMMMMYYYY GOOOD!!!!! Oh MY GOD!Oh MY GOD!Oh MY GOD!... "..."That IS SOO NOT PEE.. KEEP GOING!!!"

I was 17 at the time... didn't know what to think... but it left the seat in my old truck sticky for days til I got some soap on it..

after that... lets just say a- I kept a bottle of fabreeze in the truck, and b- I got good at giving them to her... orally, with my hands, and through intercourse...

and yes biffy.. it is NOT urine.. taste it, then go taste urine... you "could" drink her cum.. but DEFINATELY not her urine.. gag.... but yeah.. girls who squirt... TWO THUMBS UP!
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Old 02-01-2004, 11:39 PM   #100 (permalink)
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Coming from the logic that men are modified females (we all start off as females in the womb), it wouldn't surprise me that women can produce ejaculate. Whatever men have, we have the equivalent. Clit & Penis, although we're cooler because the only known function of the clitoris is sexual only whereas the penis is also for reproduction and expulsion of liquid waste; Labia & scrotum; Ovaries & testes; Vaginal lubrication (when you're turned on) & pre-ejaculate. So, why not ejaculate also.
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Old 02-02-2004, 12:48 AM   #101 (permalink)
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Old 02-02-2004, 10:22 AM   #102 (permalink)
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i'm so glad there are so many women out there who can ejaculate...nobody believes me when i tell them my ex gf from a long time ago used to flood the bed when she came, they jus tthought i meant she wa sreally wet, but i kept trying to explain that she would literally spray this stuff that wasn't urine out all over me, the bed, whatever. Really funny when it happens when you're going down on a girl and she comes on your face w/out your expecting it....I guess that's why women wanna know when a guy is going to come...just the nice shock factor.

Keep it up, teach more women how, i wanna get another that can
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Old 02-02-2004, 01:54 PM   #103 (permalink)
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my chick has gushed, not really squirted, a couple times
its very rare, like 4-5 times in the past 4 years
not sure what causes it, we can't really repeat it by trying, it just happened, i think it has to do with g-spot orgasm to cause it
its always been great when it does, it only happens during esp. good sex,
my gf gushes/squirts pretty much every time we have sex, it's pretty easy to do, actually. one way is to have sex with her on her back with her legs folded up so her feet are up by her head. you can also do it from behind with a little reacharound stimulation of the clitoris. these both seem to work great for us.
as for what makes them gush (ie. where all that damn liquid COMES from), i think it's when you poke the cervix and all the fluid from the uturus flows out. don't know for sure, but it seems to make sense to someone with a penis.

hope that helps

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Old 02-02-2004, 02:02 PM   #104 (permalink)
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I didn't even know women had prostates. Ya learn something new everyday.
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prostate gland
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A gland in male mammals surrounding the urethra at the base of the bladder that controls release of urine from the bladder and secretes a fluid which is a major constituent of semen.
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Old 02-02-2004, 11:37 PM   #105 (permalink)
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If it oozes out, then it's either a) the vaginal equivalent of lube or b) yeast infection. Female ejaculate is often like a jet powered squirt and much more watery. I've read that it also has its own distinct flavor.
Or its spooge That doesn't always stay up there so well
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Old 02-03-2004, 05:28 AM   #106 (permalink)
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For the people like Biffy who appaerntly dont do research of their own, or follow links, this article sums up all you'll need to know about Female Ejaculation. Its also interesting reading in general.


Female Ejaculation History

If you were to refer to literature over the last 50 years you would be lead to believe that females have only been able to ejaculate since about 1980. Of course this is absurd, and just shows how "the experts" can be wrong for decades on just about anything. Many knew the experts were wrong, but had little success in convincing anyone. Needless to say this lead to many problems, needless surgery (to fix the poor women who would ejaculate), expensive counseling (got to find out what happened when they were children to cause this "problem"), and in some cases divorce. "The G Spot" by Alice Kahn Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry, has dozens of letters from women who went though various personal tragedies because they would ejaculate during lovemaking. Doctors, gynecologists, and psychiatrists invariably told them they were peeing and needed either surgery or psychotherapy.

Newsweek published an article entitled "Just How the Sexes Differ" in May of 1981. One of the major difference was listed was that men ejaculate, but women do not. However, Aristotle wrote about female ejaculation, and Galen knew about it in the second century. The female prostate, which generates the fluid which is ejaculated, was described in some detail by De Graaf in his "New Treatise Concerning the Generative Organs of Women". (1) "... During the sexual act it discharges to lubricate the tract so copiously that it even flows outside the pudenda. This is the matter which may have been taken to be actual female semen." He describes the fluid as "rushing out" with "impetus" and "in one gush." (2)

The medical community was finally awakened in 1980 when Perry and Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the SSSS (Society for the Scientific Study of Sex). Martin Weisberg, M.D., a gynecologist at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia responded, "Bull ... I spend half my waking hours examining, cutting apart, putting together, removing, or rearranging female reproductive organs. There is no female prostrate, and women don't ejaculate."

Yet after seeing the film and witnessing the event in person he changed his tune: "The vulva and vagina were normal with no abnormal masses or spots. The urethra was normal. Everything was normal. She then had her partner stimulate her by inserting two fingers into the vagina and stroking along the urethra lengthwise. To our amazement, the area began to swell. It eventually became a firm one by two cm oval area distinctly different from the rest of the vagina. In a few moments the subject seemed to perform a Valsalva maneuver (bearing down as if starting to defecate) and seconds later several cc's of milky fluid shot out the urethra. The material analysis described in the paper (Perry & Whipple's) is correct; its composition was closest to prostate fluid".
Fluid Characteristics
The ejaculate is very much like prostrate fluid. It is usually clear or milky and as thin as water. It does not have the look, smell or taste of urine. It is almost odorless. The taste varies, depending on the time of the month and diet, and possibly other factors, such as amount of stimulation received prior to ejaculating or time since the last ejaculation. It can vary from an almost honey sweet, sour, bitter, or a combination of these tastes.
Even though it is ejaculated from the urethra, it is most definitely not urine. It is absolutely impossible to pee during an orgasm unless there is a weak pubococcygeus muscle. This is very important, and it is important for the female and her partner to both understand this. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts when terminating a stream of urine, and is the muscle which contracts during orgasm. This contraction helps prevent retrograde ejaculation (ejaculation back into the bladder), and of course prevents the bladder from draining during orgasm.

Problems Women have Ejaculating
I think there are two major problems women face that prevents them from the immensely enjoyable experience of ejaculation. They are the female's mental attitude, and their partner’s inability or unwillingness to spend the time and effort during lovemaking and to learn the necessary techniques. We will address both of these problems and the solutions here.
The ejaculation is done through the urethra. This is the same tube that is used for urination. It is located outside the vagina, between it and the clitoris. The fluid is water like, and non- lubricating. In no way does ejaculation improve the chances of conceiving, it offers no lubrication, and is dumped outside of the vagina. The only conceivable purpose of female ejaculation is for pleasure. And the pleasure is intense, in many cases far surpassing the best orgasms. Often ejaculation takes place during both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm (yes there are two type of orgasms, clitoral and vaginal, but often orgasm is a combination of the two), giving the female extreme pleasure, sort of a triple whammy. Sometimes after ejaculation the female will virtually pass out from the intense feelings.
It can be argued that since the only reason that females can and do ejaculate is for pleasure, and then there should be no reason for them to not do so, and as often as they please. It is one of the safer sex acts, since in most cases it can be triggered with fingers alone. Ejaculating from intercourse is more difficult, especially when performed from the missionary position, but still possible.

Preparation Recommendations for the Woman's Partner
Wash hands well. Trim fingernails. Make sure that the thumb and first two finger nails do not extend past the fingertips. Trimming them as far back as possible would be best. Make sure that there is no dirt or crud under the fingernails.
Place a towel on the bed. A surprising amount of fluid can be released during female ejaculation. Compared to a male it can be like a water cannon instead of a water pistol.
Have some K&Y Jelly handy. At some point additional lubrication may be necessary, even if she is having heavy orgasms and climaxes.
Set aside enough time. The first successful ejaculation may take from 10 minutes to over an hour.
It may be wise to exercise your hands, fingers, and arm for several days prior to this exercise. The motions necessary can become quite tiring after a while if you are not in good physical shape.
Before beginning the first time, discuss it. Let her know that you are striving to give her an ejaculation. That female ejaculation is perfectly normal, and a wonderful experience for both of you. Convince her that there is nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. Explain that just prior to ejaculation, she most likely will feel like she is about to pee. This is a difficult point for many women, as they will immediately draw back. Convince her that it is normally impossible to pee during an orgasm, and that the feeling is simply the first sign she is about to ejaculate.

Since the movement of the fluid through the urethra will initially feel exactly like when she starts to pee, this is very important. The reflex to stop peeing will immediately abort the ejaculation, so she needs to be told to relax, and allow the fluid to pass. In other words when she feels like she is about to pee, she should go ahead and pee. Only it really won't be pee, it will be an ejaculation, and within a couple of seconds it will be very obvious to her that this is something quite different. Once she knows the feeling, she will be able to push it out once it starts, with astounding results. It is best for the partner to be sitting between her legs at this time; else she may overshoot the towel or even wet the far wall.

Once she has ejaculated, rejoice with her. Don't make fun, or a joke. If you do it may be the last time she will be able to ejaculate, at least in your presence. Unlike a man, this is not the end. You can continue, and she may well have multiple orgasms and ejaculations with further stimulation.
Technique
Start slow. Use typical foreplay. You may want to start with her on her back. Stimulate the clitoris. This can be done with a moist finger, or with your tongue. Performing cunnilingus while rubbing her breasts with your hands can be quite stimulating for her. At any rate, continue clitoral stimulation until she is lubricated. At this point slide two fingers into her vagina. Allow them to move along the front wall of the vagina. You should encounter an area about 2 inches in, which should be somewhat enlarged. This is the G spot. It lies directly along the urethra, and is located almost directly behind the clitoris. Slowly stroke this area. It should start becoming more enlarged.
Ejaculation is almost always triggered by stimulating the G spot. Clitoral stimulation can often assist in helping her reach an ejaculation, and also can make it more intense. But stimulating the G spot is usually necessary at least initially. Once she starts ejaculating easily, she may find that clitoral stimulation alone is sufficient.
Stroking can be done a number of ways. The two fingers can rub the area as a unit, or they can take opposite strides, similar to walking. A third method involved sliding the two finders out a fraction of an inch, and pushing them back in, similar to the in- out motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes. Initially pace the stimulation somewhat slow. Alternate with clitoral stimulation either with the thumb, other hand, or mouth/tongue. Also try simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. Watch her reactions.
Simultaneous may be too intense for some but necessary for ejaculation for others. Take your cues from her. When she starts bearing down, and you feel the vagina contract, begin pumping rapidly. When she is in the middle of an orgasm, stimulate the clitoris at the same time, and pump the G spot gently, but very rapidly. Talk to her. Say, "your getting it, go for it, don't worry, relax and let it come" or other similar words. She may need reassurance that if she drenches you, you will not be upset. Tell her how erotic you find it for her to ejaculate. Make her comfortable with both you, and the idea of ejaculation.
This actually is not the best position. If she does not succeed after a short time, have her roll over on her stomach, and get up on her knees. You will find stimulating the G spot much easier in this position, and she will most likely respond much better. With the two fingers turned down, slide your two fingers back into her vagina. Find the G spot and continue stimulating the G spot. You may use the other hand to stimulate the clitoris. If after a couple of orgasms, using rapid pumping on the G spot during orgasm, she still has not ejaculated, then turn the hand around, putting the thumb into the vagina.
The thumb will likely not reach the G spot, but don't worry; it should come up to meet the thumb during orgasm. Take the two fingers and lay them down on the clit. Allow the entire curve between the thumb and forefinger to lie along her from the vagina to her clitoris, and begin pumping with the thumb, and rubbing the clit at the same time. When she starts an orgasm, start pumping the entire hand rapidly. At this point she will most likely ejaculate. The trick is to massage the area where the urethra comes out, while stimulating the clitoris and G spot. This will help to override the feeling she is about to pee, and allow her to let it pass.
Be aware that the female is not only capable of multiple orgasms, but also multiple ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from 3 to 5 ejaculations before depleting her supply of cum. Once she has ejaculated one or more times, you can continue with intercourse. Entering from behind will stimulate the G-spot more easily than missionary style, and often additional ejaculations will occur during intercourse. Even if they don't, she will be highly excited, and very sensitive. The final result will most likely be the most intense and pleasurable sex she has ever had.
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For the people like Biffy who appaerntly dont do research of their own, or follow links, this article sums up all you'll need to know about Female Ejaculation. Its also interesting reading in general.


Female Ejaculation History

If you were to refer to literature over the last 50 years you would be lead to believe that females have only been able to ejaculate since about 1980. Of course this is absurd, and just shows how "the experts" can be wrong for decades on just about anything. Many knew the experts were wrong, but had little success in convincing anyone. Needless to say this lead to many problems, needless surgery (to fix the poor women who would ejaculate), expensive counseling (got to find out what happened when they were children to cause this "problem"), and in some cases divorce. "The G Spot" by Alice Kahn Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry, has dozens of letters from women who went though various personal tragedies because they would ejaculate during lovemaking. Doctors, gynecologists, and psychiatrists invariably told them they were peeing and needed either surgery or psychotherapy.

Newsweek published an article entitled "Just How the Sexes Differ" in May of 1981. One of the major difference was listed was that men ejaculate, but women do not. However, Aristotle wrote about female ejaculation, and Galen knew about it in the second century. The female prostate, which generates the fluid which is ejaculated, was described in some detail by De Graaf in his "New Treatise Concerning the Generative Organs of Women". (1) "... During the sexual act it discharges to lubricate the tract so copiously that it even flows outside the pudenda. This is the matter which may have been taken to be actual female semen." He describes the fluid as "rushing out" with "impetus" and "in one gush." (2)

The medical community was finally awakened in 1980 when Perry and Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the SSSS (Society for the Scientific Study of Sex). Martin Weisberg, M.D., a gynecologist at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia responded, "Bull ... I spend half my waking hours examining, cutting apart, putting together, removing, or rearranging female reproductive organs. There is no female prostrate, and women don't ejaculate."

Yet after seeing the film and witnessing the event in person he changed his tune: "The vulva and vagina were normal with no abnormal masses or spots. The urethra was normal. Everything was normal. She then had her partner stimulate her by inserting two fingers into the vagina and stroking along the urethra lengthwise. To our amazement, the area began to swell. It eventually became a firm one by two cm oval area distinctly different from the rest of the vagina. In a few moments the subject seemed to perform a Valsalva maneuver (bearing down as if starting to defecate) and seconds later several cc's of milky fluid shot out the urethra. The material analysis described in the paper (Perry & Whipple's) is correct; its composition was closest to prostate fluid".
Fluid Characteristics
The ejaculate is very much like prostrate fluid. It is usually clear or milky and as thin as water. It does not have the look, smell or taste of urine. It is almost odorless. The taste varies, depending on the time of the month and diet, and possibly other factors, such as amount of stimulation received prior to ejaculating or time since the last ejaculation. It can vary from an almost honey sweet, sour, bitter, or a combination of these tastes.
Even though it is ejaculated from the urethra, it is most definitely not urine. It is absolutely impossible to pee during an orgasm unless there is a weak pubococcygeus muscle. This is very important, and it is important for the female and her partner to both understand this. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts when terminating a stream of urine, and is the muscle which contracts during orgasm. This contraction helps prevent retrograde ejaculation (ejaculation back into the bladder), and of course prevents the bladder from draining during orgasm.

Problems Women have Ejaculating
I think there are two major problems women face that prevents them from the immensely enjoyable experience of ejaculation. They are the female's mental attitude, and their partner’s inability or unwillingness to spend the time and effort during lovemaking and to learn the necessary techniques. We will address both of these problems and the solutions here.
The ejaculation is done through the urethra. This is the same tube that is used for urination. It is located outside the vagina, between it and the clitoris. The fluid is water like, and non- lubricating. In no way does ejaculation improve the chances of conceiving, it offers no lubrication, and is dumped outside of the vagina. The only conceivable purpose of female ejaculation is for pleasure. And the pleasure is intense, in many cases far surpassing the best orgasms. Often ejaculation takes place during both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm (yes there are two type of orgasms, clitoral and vaginal, but often orgasm is a combination of the two), giving the female extreme pleasure, sort of a triple whammy. Sometimes after ejaculation the female will virtually pass out from the intense feelings.
It can be argued that since the only reason that females can and do ejaculate is for pleasure, and then there should be no reason for them to not do so, and as often as they please. It is one of the safer sex acts, since in most cases it can be triggered with fingers alone. Ejaculating from intercourse is more difficult, especially when performed from the missionary position, but still possible.

Preparation Recommendations for the Woman's Partner
Wash hands well. Trim fingernails. Make sure that the thumb and first two finger nails do not extend past the fingertips. Trimming them as far back as possible would be best. Make sure that there is no dirt or crud under the fingernails.
Place a towel on the bed. A surprising amount of fluid can be released during female ejaculation. Compared to a male it can be like a water cannon instead of a water pistol.
Have some K&Y Jelly handy. At some point additional lubrication may be necessary, even if she is having heavy orgasms and climaxes.
Set aside enough time. The first successful ejaculation may take from 10 minutes to over an hour.
It may be wise to exercise your hands, fingers, and arm for several days prior to this exercise. The motions necessary can become quite tiring after a while if you are not in good physical shape.
Before beginning the first time, discuss it. Let her know that you are striving to give her an ejaculation. That female ejaculation is perfectly normal, and a wonderful experience for both of you. Convince her that there is nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. Explain that just prior to ejaculation, she most likely will feel like she is about to pee. This is a difficult point for many women, as they will immediately draw back. Convince her that it is normally impossible to pee during an orgasm, and that the feeling is simply the first sign she is about to ejaculate.

Since the movement of the fluid through the urethra will initially feel exactly like when she starts to pee, this is very important. The reflex to stop peeing will immediately abort the ejaculation, so she needs to be told to relax, and allow the fluid to pass. In other words when she feels like she is about to pee, she should go ahead and pee. Only it really won't be pee, it will be an ejaculation, and within a couple of seconds it will be very obvious to her that this is something quite different. Once she knows the feeling, she will be able to push it out once it starts, with astounding results. It is best for the partner to be sitting between her legs at this time; else she may overshoot the towel or even wet the far wall.

Once she has ejaculated, rejoice with her. Don't make fun, or a joke. If you do it may be the last time she will be able to ejaculate, at least in your presence. Unlike a man, this is not the end. You can continue, and she may well have multiple orgasms and ejaculations with further stimulation.
Technique
Start slow. Use typical foreplay. You may want to start with her on her back. Stimulate the clitoris. This can be done with a moist finger, or with your tongue. Performing cunnilingus while rubbing her breasts with your hands can be quite stimulating for her. At any rate, continue clitoral stimulation until she is lubricated. At this point slide two fingers into her vagina. Allow them to move along the front wall of the vagina. You should encounter an area about 2 inches in, which should be somewhat enlarged. This is the G spot. It lies directly along the urethra, and is located almost directly behind the clitoris. Slowly stroke this area. It should start becoming more enlarged.
Ejaculation is almost always triggered by stimulating the G spot. Clitoral stimulation can often assist in helping her reach an ejaculation, and also can make it more intense. But stimulating the G spot is usually necessary at least initially. Once she starts ejaculating easily, she may find that clitoral stimulation alone is sufficient.
Stroking can be done a number of ways. The two fingers can rub the area as a unit, or they can take opposite strides, similar to walking. A third method involved sliding the two finders out a fraction of an inch, and pushing them back in, similar to the in- out motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes. Initially pace the stimulation somewhat slow. Alternate with clitoral stimulation either with the thumb, other hand, or mouth/tongue. Also try simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. Watch her reactions.
Simultaneous may be too intense for some but necessary for ejaculation for others. Take your cues from her. When she starts bearing down, and you feel the vagina contract, begin pumping rapidly. When she is in the middle of an orgasm, stimulate the clitoris at the same time, and pump the G spot gently, but very rapidly. Talk to her. Say, "your getting it, go for it, don't worry, relax and let it come" or other similar words. She may need reassurance that if she drenches you, you will not be upset. Tell her how erotic you find it for her to ejaculate. Make her comfortable with both you, and the idea of ejaculation.
This actually is not the best position. If she does not succeed after a short time, have her roll over on her stomach, and get up on her knees. You will find stimulating the G spot much easier in this position, and she will most likely respond much better. With the two fingers turned down, slide your two fingers back into her vagina. Find the G spot and continue stimulating the G spot. You may use the other hand to stimulate the clitoris. If after a couple of orgasms, using rapid pumping on the G spot during orgasm, she still has not ejaculated, then turn the hand around, putting the thumb into the vagina.
The thumb will likely not reach the G spot, but don't worry; it should come up to meet the thumb during orgasm. Take the two fingers and lay them down on the clit. Allow the entire curve between the thumb and forefinger to lie along her from the vagina to her clitoris, and begin pumping with the thumb, and rubbing the clit at the same time. When she starts an orgasm, start pumping the entire hand rapidly. At this point she will most likely ejaculate. The trick is to massage the area where the urethra comes out, while stimulating the clitoris and G spot. This will help to override the feeling she is about to pee, and allow her to let it pass.
Be aware that the female is not only capable of multiple orgasms, but also multiple ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from 3 to 5 ejaculations before depleting her supply of cum. Once she has ejaculated one or more times, you can continue with intercourse. Entering from behind will stimulate the G-spot more easily than missionary style, and often additional ejaculations will occur during intercourse. Even if they don't, she will be highly excited, and very sensitive. The final result will most likely be the most intense and pleasurable sex she has ever had.
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Old 02-06-2004, 09:31 AM   #108 (permalink)
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I'm getting turned on just reading these, but I wish I could get my fiance to squirt, it would be such a turn on.
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Old 02-08-2004, 06:53 PM   #109 (permalink)
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I don't know about a "gusher" per se, but I had a girlfriend a long time ago who would get exceptionally wet during oral sex and intercourse, to the point where it would soak through the two layers of towels we had to put down beforehand all the way to the mattress. She would not really squirt, but you could see and feel it oozing out of her. It was total turn-on. Even after she stood up afterwards, it would just drip down her legs. She would have very pronounced and lengthy orgasms, too. Very wonderful lover, and very fun in bed, aside from being a total knockout and a total sweetheart.
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Old 02-09-2004, 11:30 AM   #110 (permalink)
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wish i could get my fiance to squirt
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Old 03-25-2004, 06:15 PM   #111 (permalink)
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I made my exwife squirt the first time in her life. She loved it and couldnt stop. She was addicted the instaqnt she experienced it.
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Old 03-25-2004, 06:20 PM   #112 (permalink)
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by the way my techique is to have her on her back relaxed and comfortable. The tip of my head is resting in her vagina. I only thrust about and inch. Its nota fast movement but rather a massage with my penis. Im not leaning over her but sitting back on my feet. (you have to be limber to hit the right angle. I take her lips with my thumbs and gently massage them together with her clit between them. You will feel her vagina tighten up. Dont lose your rythm at this point. Its only a matter of seconds before it creeps up on her and the flood gates open.
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Old 03-25-2004, 06:21 PM   #113 (permalink)
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I forgot once you get past the "initial" squirt she will come over and over. You should try giving her oral sex and view the rushing flow that produces.
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Old 03-25-2004, 09:54 PM   #114 (permalink)
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I leave puddles on my man lol i get the sheets wet i have to clean them like every friday or use a towel, I squirt more often when i masterbate though. It normaly ends up dripping down my vagina on to my but. I can feel it when it happens i feel it wrapping around my mans penis when i get some its the coolest feeling.
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Old 03-25-2004, 10:14 PM   #115 (permalink)
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Quote:
Originally posted by motdakasha
I used to be a squirter.
used to be?

if you're a good girl this year, maybe i'll give you a special hannukah present!

/sorry, couldn't resist.
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Old 03-25-2004, 11:00 PM   #116 (permalink)
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There are a lot of reactions to female ejaculate like, "OMG it is sweet!!" I'm curious how many of you would feel the same way about semen...Especially with quotes like -Anders' "she just came all over my face, it was so incredibly hot"

just a thought
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Old 03-26-2004, 04:36 AM   #117 (permalink)
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It's pretty much only happened for me with me lying on my stomach with my legs together and the man on top behind me. OR with my on my back with my legs together and the man on top. For me the difference is that I get both clitoral and G-spot stim at the same time.
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Deep and forceful penetration to the GSpot works everytime.

My thoughts. Some girls pee, some girls cum (alot).
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Old 03-26-2004, 05:56 PM   #119 (permalink)
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Took us 18 years together before it happened to her. Like a hydrant
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Old 03-26-2004, 06:03 PM   #120 (permalink)
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From what i've read, it seems that ladies tend to get more out of their G-Spots as they, ahem, 'gain experience' (*cough*get older*cough*), it could be that many of the non-squirty types become raging torrents as the years progress...

I feel more research is necessary myself.

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Who'd like to fund/participate?
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