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View Poll Results: Is camming dirrty with other girls then your GF cheating ??
Yes, its cheating, Dude, you are an asshole. 40 72.73%
Not sure about it, but wouldn't do it myself 3 5.45%
The thought crossed my mind. So you are not all bad. 5 9.09%
Not really, No. What you are doing is Okay. 7 12.73%
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Old 07-28-2003, 01:35 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Camming with other girls then your GF

How many of you dudes feel like you are cheating on your GF when camming abit dirrty with other girls then your GF.
Is it ok? .. Or is it breaking the band you make when making a commitment?

Would like to see some answers here
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Old 07-28-2003, 01:41 AM   #2 (permalink)
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What the fuck is camming?
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Old 07-28-2003, 01:58 AM   #3 (permalink)
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That would be chatting/Doing 'other stuff' with a webcam.
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Old 07-28-2003, 02:01 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Oh.

Yes, cheating.
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Old 07-28-2003, 02:07 AM   #5 (permalink)
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It's cheating, unless your SO is cool with it. Sorry.
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Old 07-28-2003, 02:13 AM   #6 (permalink)
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i think we're seeing this again... anything you'd do behind your s.o.'s back and wouldn't tell them about constitutes as cheating. c'mon... did you really need to ask this?
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Old 07-28-2003, 02:50 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I wholeheartedly agree with each of the above statements. Drop it dude.
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Old 07-28-2003, 04:42 AM   #8 (permalink)
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I don't think it is per se. Of course that doesn't mean you wouldn't get your ass kicked/dumped if she finds out.
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Old 07-28-2003, 04:52 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Glad to be number 8 in the unanimous agreement.
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Old 07-28-2003, 05:04 AM   #10 (permalink)
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number 9ine.

and ditto what phred said.
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Old 07-28-2003, 06:54 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Thanks phred.. my thoughts exactly. This cheating issue is turning into the penis-size threads.
 
Old 07-28-2003, 09:53 AM   #12 (permalink)
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i think we're seeing this again... anything you'd do behind your s.o.'s back and wouldn't tell them about constitutes as cheating. c'mon... did you really need to ask this?
isn't that a bit vague? i mean, i could rob a store without telling my GF and that doesn't make me a cheater. it just makes me a theivin' bastard.
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Old 07-28-2003, 10:09 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Mael, that's not exactly the issue here. The question is not about breaking the law, that's pretty obvious.


And I'm gonna go with the general consensus here. Actually, if you're seriously doubting whether it's cheating or not, chances are you already know it is, you're just looking for arguments to validate your behaviour and looking for ways to continue without feeling guilty
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Old 07-28-2003, 10:15 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I don't think you can do anything with another girl (or guy) online that you wouldn't be allowed to do if you were with them in the same room (I.e. no stripping, watching each other masturbate, etc.).
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Old 07-28-2003, 10:21 AM   #15 (permalink)
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It would be like the two of you standing in a room with a glass window between you, and then doing whatever it is you're doing right in front of each other. The distance between you is irrelevant. The glass would be just as much as a barrier as a 1000 miles and the act would be just as wrong.

How would your SO feel if you were watching some other woman getting herself off to the sight of you, in the same room? Don't do it. its disrespectful, plain and simple.
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Old 07-28-2003, 12:34 PM   #16 (permalink)
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do not masturbate your stiff member on the camera! this happened to me with a sexy girl and she saved the jpeg pictures for her friends to see!

now my stiff member is famous with her friends, but not for sexy. for laughing! it is not funny to me!
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Old 07-28-2003, 12:42 PM   #17 (permalink)
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when I read the header for this post, I imagined it being asked by a british guy (try it yourself ). dont know why, but I had no idea what you were talking about. chalk it up to me being a retard.
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Old 07-28-2003, 01:41 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Mael, that's not exactly the issue here. The question is not about breaking the law, that's pretty obvious.
i realize that, it was just the first example i came up with. i agree that "camming" with someone other than your SO would be a violation of trust (although i don't know if i would go as far as calling it cheating), but to say that "anything you do that you wouldn't want to tell your girl about is cheating" is overly vague and doesn't take into account other factors.

cheating = wrong
lying to girlfriend = wrong
lying != cheating. (it can, but that's if your cheating and lying about cheating).

how about this... you like to have a monthly poker game with friends from work. your SO is completely against any type of gambling, SO thinks its immoral or something. when you play, does telling her you're having a guys night out constitute cheating? even if you directly say "i'm not gambling?" no, it doesn't. it may be lying, or omitting facts, but you're not cheating.
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Old 07-28-2003, 03:01 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Voted: Yes, its cheating, Dude, you are an asshole.
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Old 07-28-2003, 03:13 PM   #20 (permalink)
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I am going to go with cheating UNLESS your girlfriend knows.
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Old 07-28-2003, 03:18 PM   #21 (permalink)
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i am going to go with cheating as well since you are partaking in a sexually related activity with someone other than your SO
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Old 07-28-2003, 10:40 PM   #22 (permalink)
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That really doesn't bother me ..
I always to the same thing for backup ..
I have loads of screenshots. Of all the girls ..
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Old 07-28-2003, 11:55 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Unless your girl is OK with it, it's cheating.

If you haven't asked 'cause you think she'd say no, it's cheating.
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Old 07-29-2003, 01:39 AM   #24 (permalink)
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I know its wrong .. No question ..
But when sitting there its like the smaller head takes over, and i feel desire for watching something i can control ..

But thanks all, this is actually just what i needed to stop it ..
I've been thinking about it for some time ..

Thanks all, this cam fun has come to an end
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Old 07-29-2003, 02:15 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Ive got my supply of cam chicks if ever i wanna have some fun, luckily for me I dont have a gf right now, but if I had one I wouldnt do any of the stuff I do on cam right now
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Old 07-29-2003, 02:36 AM   #26 (permalink)
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This is another one of those threads that's done over and over again.

Question: "Is _(Fill in the blank)_ considered cheating?"
Answer: Ask your significant other. We can't correctly answer for him/her.
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Old 07-29-2003, 06:06 AM   #27 (permalink)
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It's definately cheating if you're communicating with her. It's not as bad if she's on a website and you're just watching.
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Old 07-29-2003, 06:49 AM   #28 (permalink)
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I think if you are just watching the cam, just like you would passively look at a photo on the internet or a movie, then it is just wacking off to porn on the internet. Whether that is cheating is really up to you S.O. Some women would consider that cheating, any that I have been with wouldn't - or I wouldn't have been with them.

If you are beaming her a cam of yourself and you are communicating back to her and interacting then that seems much more akin to "cheating". It would be safe to assume that that would be cheating unless your S.O. says it isn't. Anything that your S.O. knows about and approves isn't cheating - unless she says it is. With some couples, having sex with another person isn't cheating but it is known beforehand.
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