spacewalk123

hi guys, so this is the case, my gf BJ me and i cum on my belly, and then she touched it a bit (and i kindda forgot if she did coz it was hard to trace it back) and then she scratched her vagina with a little bit of sperm. she then washed it in the bathroom, she is scared that the water that help wash the sperm can help it swim. she told me that she didnt even go inside it when she scratched her vagina. im scared if she is pregnant. but i strongly believe she is not, i need some advices please. she said she also had stomach cramps and boobs hurt on the clevege nothing else (2 weeks after the incident). she has a weird period that goes after every 3 months. please help guys

thanks, appreciate your opinions

dlish

i think you're in deep shit dude. seriously. she needs to get it checked out.

you produce on average 20M sperm everytime you cum ( 3-4ml) . if she got 1% of that on her finger ( thats 20,000 sperms) and she put in her kuchi-kutchi, assuming that half of them survived, she's got 10,000 of your swimmers attacking her eggs.

she needs to get a test done asap. she can piss on a stick and find out quite easily. but your're both in throuble, especially if she's having weird feelings and stomach cramps. sure tell-tale signs of pregnancy. are you saying she's 3 months pregnant?

how old are you guys anyways? you sound really young. did i mention that you can catch STD's from blowjobs?

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spacewalk123

i think you need to read my story clearly sir she didnt put it inside her vagina, she rubbed it outside. she is not 3 months pregnant , its only been 2 weeks. she has food weird stomach sickness lots of time.. and she only touched a bit of sperm not even a whole fingertip..

Sheepy

so what exactly are you worried about? the chances of her getting pregnant or what to do if she is pregnant? or if your sperm are carnivores?

spacewalk123

the chances of her pregnant.. please help im freaking out, do you think its worth the stress.. btw yes we are still young she is only 16 and so am i

dlish

my wife is pregnant right now and she feels sick from food too. just saying.

if it's possible that even one sperm crawls down, in and up her vagina, theres still a 'chance' of a pregnancy. water does not kill sperm by the way.

as far as sperm numbers go, some men produce up to 40-50 million sperms at a time, so the number could be much higher, as are your chances of pregnancy.

when is your girlfriends period due? is she late?

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spacewalk123

she has a weird period, she has it every after 3 months..

dlish

btw, 1% of 3ml is only 0.03ml. that could be enough to get on a fingertip.

why did she scratch her vagina anyways?

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so you're telling me that she'll find out for sure when she gets her period in 3 months time? that's too late.

whens the last time she got her period? if its any consolation for you, many women who have irregular menstrual cycles find it hard to conceive.

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Sheepy

I think it is unlikely as i read that sperm dies within seconds of being anywhere that is not 'inside'

but even if you want to hear how 'unlikely' it is (which it sounds it is ) i guess there is always that tiny chance...but what is the harm in being cautious?

anyway here is a list i found of common 'early signs of pregnancy'

Breast Tenderness( 1 ah-oh) Nausea, starts to feel constantly tired,Frequent Urination, Sensitivity Around the Waist( +2 ah oh ), Emotional Upheaval, headaches, Backache

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though honestly with that list there would be times i would feel pregnant

and i'm a dude, dude

spacewalk123

thanks guys

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no she is not late, she has been having it since she reached puberty... so when shes about 12 or so she has periods after every 3 months..

she scratched it OUTSIDE the vagina and washed it with a jet wash... coz it was itchy

dlish

maybe she's itching cos she's got something. are you both 'virgins'?

has she seen a doctor about her irregular periods?

when was the last time she had her period?

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The_Jazz

It is entirely possible that she is pregnant. The best way to find out is a pregnancy test. Honestly, if you want to know, that's a much better answer than we are.

If I understand the order of events right - you came on your stomach, she touched the still-wet semen afterwards then touched the outside of her vagina. She then went to the bathroom and used some sort of spray attachment to wash it off. If she wash up rather than down, it's entirely possible that she sprayed semen inside herself. It's also possible that sperm entered her vagina before she got to the bathroom. The chances are remote, but they're not zero.

Sheepy, sperm can live outside the human body for up to 4 hours, although their ability to fertilize an egg dispears after about an hour.

By the way, it looks like you're not using any sort of birth control other than the "pull out" method. That's one that was declared "shitty" by the Romans in like 300 BC.

I'll ask the same question dlish did - how old are you and your girlfriend?

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Thanks, ring. I was afraid of that.

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Look, spacewalk, you're putting us in an awkward position. Our rules state that you need to be 18 to be a member of this site. You're obviously not. But you're here asking a legitimate question (albeit with the sentence structure that made us ask in the first place), and you pretty obviously need help. So I'm doing a couple of things that are unusual for me - I'm discussing this here and I'm cutting you a break. I have my own reasons for each.

I'll let you continue to ask as many questions as you want for the rest of the day - Central Time in the US. We'll help as much as we can, but at the end of the day, I'm going to have to suspend your account until my best guess at your 18th birthday. If, after that point, you have additional questions, there's a "send the staff an email" feature. Ask there, and we'll post it and let the community respond. It's about the best I can do for you. Hopefully we can get most of your questions answered today, though.

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chinese crested

Get a pregnancy test kit, and get some proper advice on contraceptives. I sincerely hope that your worries are for nothing, and that the shock will educate you.
Jazz - you are a sweetie, a very kind and sensible compromise.

Random Hair

Your not Finn Hudson from Glee are you?

I don't think you have to much to worry about. Did she fire the jet wash directly up, or just on the surface? I find it highly unlikely that it would have forced such a small amount of sperm up into her womb.


But the best advice ANYONE can give you is to see your doctor. Your have patient client confidentiality with your doctor, so it shouldn't go any further. At the very least use a test.

As to what to do in the unlikely event she is knocked up?
This will come down to your personal feeling on the subject of planned parenthood.
I don’t know what you financial or family situation is, but at 16; get an abortion. I know some people may not agree with this. But you are way too young to be bringing up a kid.
I’m assuming you’re an American? So you haven’t even left school yet? You are not ready for this, and trying to raise a family on limited funds (no qualifications, no good job, no cash, no chance). Maybe you or her have parents who can support you? But you still have to give up a lot, including a big part of your youth.

dlish

the OP is from Jakarta, Indonesia.

i sure hope his GF's not pregnant. I dont know what the local laws are in Indonesia, but this could get ugly. if it takes a turn for the worse, he could get in serious trouble, if not from the authorities, then from the families.

i hope he worked it out

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kutulu

Although it could happen, there is probably a greater chance that I'd get hit by lightning while I'm finally getting my wife to agree to a threesome than there is of his girlfriend getting pregnant that way.

Anormalguy

Plus one. The chances of her getting pregnant as described are extremely slim.

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