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Leaning against the -Sun-
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well define boring? Not sure what kind of excitement you're looking for :P
King, I don't get why it's not happening for you, you're a really nice guy and you're a cutie too, I'm 28 and I could definitely hook you up with women your age here who you'd have fun with! But yeah, you're not here so... I don't get why the grooming would be an issue, I like guys who take care of themselves and smell good. I find that a turn on in fact. Most girls in my age range I know don't like scruffy men. I think this girl is pretty immature, and you just need to find someone who likes PDA's I guess. When I like a guy I love PDA's, within reason. The "clingy" remark stings, I'm sure. I think the younger generations are actually quite strange that way, very independent, using people like they're a bag of sweets you go through. I don't like it. Any demonstration of affection is taken as a claim on them. There's a coldness there that is ugly. The fact that you like younger girls seems like part of the problem really, though there are younger girls who have it together. I've had it pretty together since I was 17 I think. Choosing the wrong girls maybe? Out here in Portugal I think the girls mature earlier than the guys, not the opposite like you said. Most of the guys here are the bums, and we girls have jobs and responsibilities etc. I'm sure not willing to be anyone's sugar momma though. I like Men, not boys. Advice? Work on your judgement skills so you don't choose the wrong kind of girl. Give that seemingly boring girl a chance...maybe you'll be surprised by what she can give you. Hope you meet someone cool who knows what they want soon.
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Location: Dallas / Fort Worth
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#44 (permalink) |
The Worst Influence
Location: Arizona
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When I broke up with my ex last spring I had this problem as well...kind of. Apparently during that relationship I had grown out of or forgotten how to play "the dating game". And it is a game, no matter how much people deny it, that's just the way it is. My friend told me to read The Game by Neil Strauss saying that it's pretty accurate but I never did. Don't try so hard, and don't judge so much and you'd be surprised who you'll meet. Once you're seeing someone it's just a matter of having that "are we dating?" conversation.
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You know honestly I don't know if it is the game that has changed or just the world. I can speak of a similar experience. I recently met this girl and became very interested with her. She liked the same things, movies, music, etc. Well I talked to her off and on for a week and could never get her to really go out. She calls me today and asks my intentions with her. Like she couldn't tell, "Yes, I want to date you". It's written all over my face and the body language and responses I'm receiving show it all over hers. Then I get, "I'm kind of in a relationship". Seriously, what the fuck?
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Location: reykjavík, iceland
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#47 (permalink) |
Tilted Cat Head
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Location: Manhattan, NY
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yeah magnets....I had a teacher who used to say, "Sometimes crystal clear is not clear enough."
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Location: South Florida
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I think some girls are just have an immature phase like this. I dated a a girl that was prob similar to WK's; she ended up dating a lot of unbathed scuzzy guys later (and prob before). She talked about wanting someone different, not one of the "those guys." Then we end up hooking up on the first date, and when I actually attempt to bring the relationship to a somewhat more emotional level in response to the spike in the physical level or in other words not being one of "those guys," she pushed away because honestly she was really one of "those girls."
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