When I broke up with my ex last spring I had this problem as well...kind of. Apparently during that relationship I had grown out of or forgotten how to play "the dating game". And it is a game, no matter how much people deny it, that's just the way it is. My friend told me to read The Game by Neil Strauss saying that it's pretty accurate but I never did. Don't try so hard, and don't judge so much and you'd be surprised who you'll meet. Once you're seeing someone it's just a matter of having that "are we dating?" conversation.
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