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well define boring? Not sure what kind of excitement you're looking for :P
King, I don't get why it's not happening for you, you're a really nice guy and you're a cutie too, I'm 28 and I could definitely hook you up with women your age here who you'd have fun with! But yeah, you're not here so...
I don't get why the grooming would be an issue, I like guys who take care of themselves and smell good. I find that a turn on in fact. Most girls in my age range I know don't like scruffy men.
I think this girl is pretty immature, and you just need to find someone who likes PDA's I guess. When I like a guy I love PDA's, within reason. The "clingy" remark stings, I'm sure. I think the younger generations are actually quite strange that way, very independent, using people like they're a bag of sweets you go through. I don't like it. Any demonstration of affection is taken as a claim on them. There's a coldness there that is ugly.
The fact that you like younger girls seems like part of the problem really, though there are younger girls who have it together. I've had it pretty together since I was 17 I think. Choosing the wrong girls maybe?
Out here in Portugal I think the girls mature earlier than the guys, not the opposite like you said. Most of the guys here are the bums, and we girls have jobs and responsibilities etc. I'm sure not willing to be anyone's sugar momma though. I like Men, not boys.
Advice? Work on your judgement skills so you don't choose the wrong kind of girl. Give that seemingly boring girl a chance...maybe you'll be surprised by what she can give you.
Hope you meet someone cool who knows what they want soon.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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