UKking

ANR stands for Adult Nursing Relationship.

From what I gather, some women are milkmaids and in the UK, they are doing a booming business.

The ages of the men who are seeking an ANR range from the early 20's to the senior citizens.

Some men nurse 4-6 times a day and I've read that once the milk comes in you can adjust the supply to the demand.

Breast pumps and maternity wear for women who aren't pregnant. Who knew?!


Here's some links, [NSFW] just to be on the safe side.

blahblah454

So, women sell there breast milk to anyone? I was thinking sucking on your pregnant SO's breasts.... hmmm, this is a little different. I don't think I would ever get breast milk from a stranger. Now if my wife was pregnant I might try it out just to see what its like.

Lucifer

I don't know about this. I've had girlfriends make jokes about starting to lactate after they discover how much I enjoy their breasts, but none of them have actually started to produce any milk.

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Punk.of.Ages

I've always been interested in finding out what boob milk tastes like.

Lately, I've been wondering if that would be a more natural milk for us to drink than cows anyway.

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Lucifer

well, I don't know about that, but I do know that Humans are the only mammalian species to drink milk as adults!

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Jinn

I'm into some crazy shit but never would I consider this...

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robot_parade

Well, since no one else has shared...

I've tasted my wife's breastmilk - mostly accidentally, in the, er, heat of the moment, while she was nursing the kids.

It's warm, obviously, very sweet, thick, cloying, and with a somewhat different flavor than cow's milk. Warm up some half-and-half in the microwave, add some sugar, (and suck it out of a boob, if possible), and you'll probably get pretty close.

Not really my cup of...er...milk, but hey, to each his (or her) own.

Edit: Hrm, the above sounds like I tore the infant child off the boob mid-meal. To be clear, this was while we had a breastfeeding infant, not at the same time as the infant. :-)

Willravel

I've not made a relationship of it, but I've certainly tried it a bit in a situation not unlike the one robot_parade described.

Shaindra

BTDT. OK, never nursed off another person, but there was a period of about six years straight that I was lactating. My ex, who got squeamish just handling the milk in the beginning was going for it straight from the tap at the end.

I don't think I'd be comfortable with just anyone nursing from me, as that relationship is pretty intimate. But a trusted partner? Sure.

And for the record, the taste of milk changes with the age of the child and what the mother has eaten. Mine has tasted like garlic and asparagus, among other things. Newborn milk is sweeter. Toddler milk is saltier.

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lexbaby

Got used to it when my wife was nursing (4 kids so I've had my chances). I wouldn't call it a turn on, but the sweetness was a nice bonus when my mouth got to that area.

I actually miss it from time to time. But NEVER to the point that we'd put another bun in the oven.

fresnelly

I can't quite remember the story and I only learned about it because it was the subject of a painting, but I believe there's a Catholic Saint who miraculously survives imprisonment without food. He survived of course, because his daughter secretly nursed him when she visited.

A shot of breast milk for anyone who can fill in the story or name the painting!

EDIT:

Found it. The painting I saw was Peter Paul Ruebens' Cimon and Pero from a tour of the Hermitage's collection. Here's some info on the story from a Breastfeeding in Art website. No, really!

http://www.art-breastfeeding.com/rel2/cimon.htm

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Mister Coaster

When my wife was nursing our first, I was reluctant to go for her boobs because I knew she was lactating. Eventually, I couldn't stay away from the boobies any longer, and gave it a shot. I liked it, and it was a fairly big turn on... for both of us.

Now that she's about ready to pop out our 2nd, I'm looking forward to getting a taste again. It's not my #1 turn on, but it will be fun while it lasts.

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girldetective

This is an interesting post. I was just talking to someone about wet nurses, but I was thinking for infants. It has not escaped me though that I would like it with a man. The first few times I nursed my children I was not prepared for the sexual feeling. It was very good and rumbly. That feeling seemed to sort of evaporate after a short time and I felt a calm and sense of well being within myself for the rest of the time I nursed and I believe that feeling helped in mothering and transferred to my child. It was unique to nursing and I sometimes miss it.

I suppose I heard of or would have guessed that there are occasional men who like to nurse, but I don't know I would have guessed a "booming business." I wonder if there are health benefits/detriments?

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SSJTWIZTA

Wow, i thought this was going to be about squirting your man down in the moment of passion, not on distribution.

like some of you, ive always been curious about the taste. I know i would let my significant other hose me down with those glorious milkbags if she ever got pregnant (God Forbid!), but i would never buy it.

hmm, to each their own i guess.

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little_tippler

I wouldn't let a grown man have my breast milk. Big turn off for me. Can't really tell you why, but it is. Also the whole idea of breastfeeding puts me off somewhat, though I'd do it for my baby. But that is all.

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Bees

My ex and I have four kids together. After each pregnancy she was happy to give me one or two drinks of her bountiful nectar. Once we drank together; me sucking the sweet milk from the nipple of one breast while she lifted and squeezed the other and squirted into her open mouth. Now that was a huge turn on for me and also for her.

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Ustwo

My wife is currently nursing.

About the only interest I have in it, is that nursing kills her sex drive (and does in most women, for obvious evolutionary reasons).

The concept of if a grown man nursing being a sexual turn on seems just bizarre.

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Shaindra

I nursed well past societal norms (3.5 yrs with one and 2 yrs with the other). During the first 6 months post-partum, this is definitely the case. But once I got my period back, libido rebounded (as much as time and energy allowed.)

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abaya

I have a feeling that when I have a baby and start nursing, I am going to be turned on all the freaking time, beyond my control. I find it so hot when my husband sucks on my tits in a gentle way... don't know how I'm going to be able to tone down my body's natural reaction to that, when nursing.

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fresnelly

My wife is currently breast feeding and often "lets down" during sex. There's no special turn on for me in it but the wetness is kind of fun.

Abaya, my wife is also very sensitive that way and she had the same fear before our first. Once in practice, she found it such a different experience that there weren't any conflicting or awkward feelings.

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Plan9

Oh, I find the idea childish and repulsive.

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Baraka_Guru

I don't know about this. To me it looks like taking resources away from someone who actually needs it. I don't see a sexual benefit, though boobs are boobs.

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I have a feeling that the logical conclusion to this thread is whether each of us likes the idea of human yogurt, cheese, and table cream.

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Ustwo

Your endocrine system will be having a word or two with you when the time comes, if you are like most women, this won't be an issue.

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Miss Mango

Hmm... humans generally like cow milk, but not cow jizz.

Some of us like human jizz, but not human milk.

Where do we draw the line!?

Maybe human yogurt, cheese and table cream is marketable to these folks? I dare say, youve uncovered a new industry...

Lucifer

ewwww!

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eribrav

And how do humans generally know this?

Baraka_Guru

I present to you cheese produced not by young Danish milkmaids but from them:

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mixedmedia

Actually, this is not uncommon at all.

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatom...m_breastfe.htm

I experienced these feelings while breastfeeding my children, but it never progressed to orgasm or sexual aggressiveness. I felt it while nursing and then promptly forgot about it.

That said, I have absolutely no interest in breastfeeding a man and, in fact, find it to be a bit of a turn-off. Infantilism in any form just ain't my thing.

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Tully Mars

It almost sounds like you think men act infantile often enough, no need to bring that into the bedroom.

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mixedmedia

Well, I will admit to a fairly reactionary stance toward men who won't grow up...I have issues.

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Tully Mars

Well, there's lots of different definitions of "growing up," several of which I refuse to engage in.

I guess most of us have "issues" to some degree. I find those who don't, or at least claim they don't, are usually extremely boring people.

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mixedmedia

Agreed.

But in this context I am referring mostly to childish behavior. And I would definitely equate a man's desire to drink my breastmilk with childish behavior - a desire to regress. Plus it exhibits a 'mother' fetish that would make me extremely uncomfortable, as well.

All that said, this is only my response to the subject and I could be completely off the mark in my interpretation of it. After all, I have my own weird compulsions that could easily be interpreted negatively by others.

heh

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KellyC

I must be a freak because I find it hot as hell to suck on my SO's tits until she lactates, and drink the milk from the source, too.

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Ustwo

I didn't know you were recently a parent, congratulations.

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Daniel_

Repeated stimulation can lead to lactation without pregnancy in some cases, apparently.

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KellyC

...that's if I were to have an SO and she lactates....

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World's King

I'm lactose intolerant.



So... yeah... Unless I can date a soy bean...

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Kaimi

It does, if it is frequent enough. Without actually trying, my normal sexual behavior has induced mild lactation. The frequent use of nipple clamps, pinching nipples during arousal(habit of mine) and of course some suckling has induced lactation.

BearNaked

Our baby just turned 18 the other day, but I can still remember back to the days of lactating breasts quite well. While not a huge turn on for me (well, any more than the boobs already were) I did enjoy the taste, and if I was to play with them, tasting the milk was not avoidable, so I might as well enjoy it, right?