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UKking 03-07-2008 12:34 PM

What are your thoughts on ANR? (Breastfeeding your man)
 
ANR stands for Adult Nursing Relationship.

From what I gather, some women are milkmaids and in the UK, they are doing a booming business.

The ages of the men who are seeking an ANR range from the early 20's to the senior citizens.

Some men nurse 4-6 times a day and I've read that once the milk comes in you can adjust the supply to the demand.

Breast pumps and maternity wear for women who aren't pregnant. Who knew?!


Here's some links, [NSFW] just to be on the safe side.

blahblah454 03-07-2008 01:55 PM

So, women sell there breast milk to anyone? I was thinking sucking on your pregnant SO's breasts.... hmmm, this is a little different. I don't think I would ever get breast milk from a stranger. Now if my wife was pregnant I might try it out just to see what its like.

Lucifer 03-07-2008 02:00 PM

I don't know about this. I've had girlfriends make jokes about starting to lactate after they discover how much I enjoy their breasts, but none of them have actually started to produce any milk.

Punk.of.Ages 03-07-2008 02:44 PM

I've always been interested in finding out what boob milk tastes like.

Lately, I've been wondering if that would be a more natural milk for us to drink than cows anyway.

Lucifer 03-07-2008 02:52 PM

well, I don't know about that, but I do know that Humans are the only mammalian species to drink milk as adults!

Jinn 03-07-2008 02:55 PM

I'm into some crazy shit but never would I consider this...:orly:

robot_parade 03-07-2008 03:00 PM

Well, since no one else has shared...

I've tasted my wife's breastmilk - mostly accidentally, in the, er, heat of the moment, while she was nursing the kids.

It's warm, obviously, very sweet, thick, cloying, and with a somewhat different flavor than cow's milk. Warm up some half-and-half in the microwave, add some sugar, (and suck it out of a boob, if possible), and you'll probably get pretty close.

Not really my cup of...er...milk, but hey, to each his (or her) own.

Edit: Hrm, the above sounds like I tore the infant child off the boob mid-meal. To be clear, this was while we had a breastfeeding infant, not at the same time as the infant. :-)

Willravel 03-07-2008 03:41 PM

I've not made a relationship of it, but I've certainly tried it a bit in a situation not unlike the one robot_parade described.

Shaindra 03-07-2008 05:00 PM

BTDT. OK, never nursed off another person, but there was a period of about six years straight that I was lactating. My ex, who got squeamish just handling the milk in the beginning was going for it straight from the tap at the end.

I don't think I'd be comfortable with just anyone nursing from me, as that relationship is pretty intimate. But a trusted partner? Sure.

And for the record, the taste of milk changes with the age of the child and what the mother has eaten. Mine has tasted like garlic and asparagus, among other things. Newborn milk is sweeter. Toddler milk is saltier.

lexbaby 03-07-2008 06:16 PM

Got used to it when my wife was nursing (4 kids so I've had my chances). I wouldn't call it a turn on, but the sweetness was a nice bonus when my mouth got to that area.

I actually miss it from time to time. But NEVER to the point that we'd put another bun in the oven. :thumbsup:

fresnelly 03-07-2008 06:49 PM

I can't quite remember the story and I only learned about it because it was the subject of a painting, but I believe there's a Catholic Saint who miraculously survives imprisonment without food. He survived of course, because his daughter secretly nursed him when she visited.

A shot of breast milk for anyone who can fill in the story or name the painting!

EDIT:

Found it. The painting I saw was Peter Paul Ruebens' Cimon and Pero from a tour of the Hermitage's collection. Here's some info on the story from a Breastfeeding in Art website. No, really!

http://www.art-breastfeeding.com/rel2/cimon.htm

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a1...monandPero.jpg

Mister Coaster 03-07-2008 08:54 PM

When my wife was nursing our first, I was reluctant to go for her boobs because I knew she was lactating. Eventually, I couldn't stay away from the boobies any longer, and gave it a shot. I liked it, and it was a fairly big turn on... for both of us.

Now that she's about ready to pop out our 2nd, I'm looking forward to getting a taste again. It's not my #1 turn on, but it will be fun while it lasts.

girldetective 03-08-2008 12:52 AM

This is an interesting post. I was just talking to someone about wet nurses, but I was thinking for infants. It has not escaped me though that I would like it with a man. The first few times I nursed my children I was not prepared for the sexual feeling. It was very good and rumbly. That feeling seemed to sort of evaporate after a short time and I felt a calm and sense of well being within myself for the rest of the time I nursed and I believe that feeling helped in mothering and transferred to my child. It was unique to nursing and I sometimes miss it.

I suppose I heard of or would have guessed that there are occasional men who like to nurse, but I don't know I would have guessed a "booming business." I wonder if there are health benefits/detriments?

SSJTWIZTA 03-08-2008 01:17 AM

Wow, i thought this was going to be about squirting your man down in the moment of passion, not on distribution.

like some of you, ive always been curious about the taste. I know i would let my significant other hose me down with those glorious milkbags if she ever got pregnant (God Forbid!), but i would never buy it.

hmm, to each their own i guess.

little_tippler 03-08-2008 03:31 AM

I wouldn't let a grown man have my breast milk. Big turn off for me. Can't really tell you why, but it is. Also the whole idea of breastfeeding puts me off somewhat, though I'd do it for my baby. But that is all.

Bees 03-08-2008 06:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SSJTWIZTA
Wow, i thought this was going to be about squirting your man down in the moment of passion, not on distribution.

My ex and I have four kids together. After each pregnancy she was happy to give me one or two drinks of her bountiful nectar. Once we drank together; me sucking the sweet milk from the nipple of one breast while she lifted and squeezed the other and squirted into her open mouth. Now that was a huge turn on for me and also for her.

Ustwo 03-08-2008 11:37 AM

My wife is currently nursing.

About the only interest I have in it, is that nursing kills her sex drive (and does in most women, for obvious evolutionary reasons).

The concept of if a grown man nursing being a sexual turn on seems just bizarre.

Shaindra 03-08-2008 11:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ustwo
My wife is currently nursing.

About the only interest I have in it, is that nursing kills her sex drive (and does in most women, for obvious evolutionary reasons).

The concept of if a grown man nursing being a sexual turn on seems just bizarre.

I nursed well past societal norms (3.5 yrs with one and 2 yrs with the other). During the first 6 months post-partum, this is definitely the case. But once I got my period back, libido rebounded (as much as time and energy allowed.)

abaya 03-08-2008 04:22 PM

I have a feeling that when I have a baby and start nursing, I am going to be turned on all the freaking time, beyond my control. I find it so hot when my husband sucks on my tits in a gentle way... don't know how I'm going to be able to tone down my body's natural reaction to that, when nursing.

Willravel 03-08-2008 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by abaya
I have a feeling that when I have a baby and start nursing, I am going to be turned on all the freaking time, beyond my control. I find it so hot when my husband sucks on my tits in a gentle way... don't know how I'm going to be able to tone down my body's natural reaction to that, when nursing.

http://smilies.vidahost.com/cwm/cwm/eek2.gif

fresnelly 03-08-2008 04:49 PM

My wife is currently breast feeding and often "lets down" during sex. There's no special turn on for me in it but the wetness is kind of fun.

Abaya, my wife is also very sensitive that way and she had the same fear before our first. Once in practice, she found it such a different experience that there weren't any conflicting or awkward feelings.

Plan9 03-08-2008 06:26 PM

Oh, I find the idea childish and repulsive.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crompsin's inner monologue
WARM MILK! WANT! BOOBIES IN MY FACE! COVET!


Baraka_Guru 03-08-2008 08:30 PM

I don't know about this. To me it looks like taking resources away from someone who actually needs it. I don't see a sexual benefit, though boobs are boobs.

* * * * *


I have a feeling that the logical conclusion to this thread is whether each of us likes the idea of human yogurt, cheese, and table cream. :p

Ustwo 03-08-2008 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by abaya
I have a feeling that when I have a baby and start nursing, I am going to be turned on all the freaking time, beyond my control. I find it so hot when my husband sucks on my tits in a gentle way... don't know how I'm going to be able to tone down my body's natural reaction to that, when nursing.

Your endocrine system will be having a word or two with you when the time comes, if you are like most women, this won't be an issue.

Miss Mango 03-08-2008 11:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru


I have a feeling that the logical conclusion to this thread is whether each of us likes the idea of human yogurt, cheese, and table cream. :p

Hmm... humans generally like cow milk, but not cow jizz.

Some of us like human jizz, but not human milk.

Where do we draw the line!?

Maybe human yogurt, cheese and table cream is marketable to these folks? I dare say, youve uncovered a new industry...

Lucifer 03-09-2008 03:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Mango

Maybe human yogurt, cheese and table cream is marketable to these folks? I dare say, youve uncovered a new industry...


ewwww!

eribrav 03-09-2008 03:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Mango
Hmm... humans generally like cow milk, but not cow jizz.
..

And how do humans generally know this?:oogle:

Baraka_Guru 03-09-2008 06:40 AM

The new gold?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Mango
Where do we draw the line!?

Maybe human yogurt, cheese and table cream is marketable to these folks? I dare say, youve uncovered a new industry...

I present to you cheese produced not by young Danish milkmaids but from them:
http://maona.net/img/food/danish_blue_cheese.jpg

mixedmedia 03-09-2008 07:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by abaya
I have a feeling that when I have a baby and start nursing, I am going to be turned on all the freaking time, beyond my control. I find it so hot when my husband sucks on my tits in a gentle way... don't know how I'm going to be able to tone down my body's natural reaction to that, when nursing.

Actually, this is not uncommon at all.

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatom...m_breastfe.htm

Quote:

Possibly because childbirth has historically not been under the control of the medical profession, there are many important experiences of childbirth and postpartum that haven’t made their way into the medical literature.

Many women who breastfeed have the experience of feeling aroused, and even having an orgasm, while breastfeeding. But because this is something researchers haven’t studied, and it isn’t a regular part of the education of mothers-to-be, many women experience this and then feel silent shame or guilt, as if there is something wrong with them. But there is a very clear reason for the experience and women neither need to feel shame or embarrassment about it which is caused mostly by a lack of information.

Oxytocin is a hormone that stimulates ejection of milk from the nipples, and its release is triggered by breast stimulation.

But oxytocin is implicated in many other physiological processes. It is involved in contractions of the uterus (both during childbirth and during orgasm), as well as being associated with the feeling of relaxation and satiation following orgasm.

It is thought that this is the reason that breastfeeding may produce feelings of sexual arousal and orgasm. And the experience is far from rare.

In a 2000 study of breastfeeding women, 40.5% of the participants reported feeling sexually aroused at some point during infant suckling. 16.7% reported being aroused frequently during breastfeeding.

Source:
Avery, M.D., Duckett, L., Frantzich, C.R. “The Experience of Sexuality During Breastfeeding Among Primiparous Women.” Journal of Midwifery and Women’s Health Vol. 45(3), 2000: 227-236.
I experienced these feelings while breastfeeding my children, but it never progressed to orgasm or sexual aggressiveness. I felt it while nursing and then promptly forgot about it.

That said, I have absolutely no interest in breastfeeding a man and, in fact, find it to be a bit of a turn-off. Infantilism in any form just ain't my thing.

Tully Mars 03-09-2008 08:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mixedmedia
That said, I have absolutely no interest in breastfeeding a man and, in fact, find it to be a bit of a turn-off. Infantilism in any form just ain't my thing.

It almost sounds like you think men act infantile often enough, no need to bring that into the bedroom.

mixedmedia 03-09-2008 08:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tully Mars
It almost sounds like you think men act infantile often enough, no need to bring that into the bedroom.

Well, I will admit to a fairly reactionary stance toward men who won't grow up...I have issues. :)

Tully Mars 03-09-2008 08:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mixedmedia
Well, I will admit to a fairly reactionary stance toward men who won't grow up...I have issues. :)

Well, there's lots of different definitions of "growing up," several of which I refuse to engage in.

I guess most of us have "issues" to some degree. I find those who don't, or at least claim they don't, are usually extremely boring people.

mixedmedia 03-09-2008 09:25 AM

Agreed.

But in this context I am referring mostly to childish behavior. And I would definitely equate a man's desire to drink my breastmilk with childish behavior - a desire to regress. Plus it exhibits a 'mother' fetish that would make me extremely uncomfortable, as well.

All that said, this is only my response to the subject and I could be completely off the mark in my interpretation of it. After all, I have my own weird compulsions that could easily be interpreted negatively by others.

heh :)

KellyC 03-09-2008 11:59 AM

I must be a freak because I find it hot as hell to suck on my SO's tits until she lactates, and drink the milk from the source, too.

Ustwo 03-09-2008 01:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KellyC
I must be a freak because I find it hot as hell to suck on my SO's tits until she lactates, and drink the milk from the source, too.

I didn't know you were recently a parent, congratulations.

Daniel_ 03-09-2008 01:54 PM

Repeated stimulation can lead to lactation without pregnancy in some cases, apparently.

KellyC 03-09-2008 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ustwo
I didn't know you were recently a parent, congratulations.

...that's if I were to have an SO and she lactates....

World's King 03-10-2008 08:36 AM

I'm lactose intolerant.



So... yeah... Unless I can date a soy bean...

Kaimi 03-10-2008 03:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel_
Repeated stimulation can lead to lactation without pregnancy in some cases, apparently.

It does, if it is frequent enough. Without actually trying, my normal sexual behavior has induced mild lactation. The frequent use of nipple clamps, pinching nipples during arousal(habit of mine) and of course some suckling has induced lactation.

BearNaked 03-11-2008 04:32 AM

Our baby just turned 18 the other day, but I can still remember back to the days of lactating breasts quite well. While not a huge turn on for me (well, any more than the boobs already were) I did enjoy the taste, and if I was to play with them, tasting the milk was not avoidable, so I might as well enjoy it, right? :D


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