jewels

Just so ya know...

It's a supply-demand thing. Nothing's taken from the baby; the extra utilization would create a greater supply.

That being said, I've nursed all three of mine for a minimum of a year apiece. I agree that the first time felt stimulating, but that disappears as milk production increases and the experience itself causes the bond with that baby to grow.

Despite the fact that you're not supposed to menstruate while lactating, I did each of the three times (lucky me, right? ). Needless to say, there was some breastmilk tasted. My nipples are still my nipples and I had no problem being a mom and a lover at the same time. Since nipple stimulation is important for me, I didn't see the act of him suckling at my breast as juvenile in any way.

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mixedmedia

Just for the record, I was referring to men with this desire as a sort of fetish, rather than consequential breast milk drinkers, lol.

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Tully Mars

For the record I have interest in being breastfed or any other infantile interests.

Doesn't mean I don't have an interest in breasts or have a problem with someone else if that's what works for them.

I went on a fishing trip to Alaska one time with a bunch of my brothers friends. One of them ended up going home with a "dancer." The next morning, I think it was morning?, he talked fondly about sitting on her lap and calling her mommy while she took a piss. Mmmm, ok buddy. Whatever rocks your world.

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abaya

Well, I think that's what most of us are talking about here... not dudes who are obsessed with milk-drinking (which is what the OP is about), but just the incidental but very common combination of nursing + boob/nipple play. At least, that's the case for me. I didn't even consider it in the context of a fetish (and I know about a lot of fetishes!) until reading this thread.

I think it's clear that someone enjoying an act that happens to turns her/him on, is different from a person actively seeking out an act in order TO be turned on. The former is... I don't know what it's called, I guess the "normal curve" of sexual behavior, perhaps. The second is a fetish. Nothing wrong with either, just wanted to make the distinction on this thread.

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mixedmedia

You're right. There's nothing wrong with either. I want to make that clear...that I've only been talking about my own turn-offs/hang-ups, not making moral judgments.

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Martian

Isn't there a similar plot point in The Grapes of Wrath?

I've never had any specific desire to taste breast milk. On the other hand, with all the fluids that are already involved in sex, I don't reckon one more is a big deal. And if it's your thing and you can find a willing partner, I reckon that's more power to ya.

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jewels

Thank you for clarifying, mm. I thought that was what you meant but worded my post as I did just to be sure it was clear that it hadn't been a fetish for us.

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fresnelly

Performance artist Jess Dobkins got a lot of press for her Breast Milk Bar presentation here in Toronto a couple of years ago.

Probably not safe for work: http://www.jessdobkin.com/pages/feat.html

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Charlatan

I remember that performance... there was a lot of press around it.

Like many here, when my wife was nursing there was frequently a lot of leakage (heck, sometimes it was sprayage) as we were getting busy. A couple of times in the heat of the moment I would find myself getting a drink. In the moment it was kind of hot, but I can't say that it was something I actively sought (or seek) out.

The biggest thing I miss from those days is the size of her breasts rather than the contents (though I am sure the two are related )

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World's King

Okay...


My girlfriend has a three year old. So this is odd to me.

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Infinite_Loser

I'm so there

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Shaindra

It can, but the kind of stimulation you're talking about is well above and beyond what the average man might supply even nightly. You're talking about pumping around the clock every 4 hours for 15-30 minutes a shot. Most women who induce lactation without pregnancy also take drugs to help the process along.

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JamesB

While I mostly agree with Shaindra's post regargind induction of lactation, there are always exceptions to the 'rule'.

There are many precription drugs such as Risperidone (anti-psychotic) and Domperidone which are so-called galactalogues which can actually cause lactation de-novo. Interestingly enough, there are a number of anti-psychotic drugs that all have small occurrences of galactorrhea as a side-effect. Most likely as a result of the drug's secondary metabolite being a galactalogue.

As a side note, an episode of "House" (somewhat) recently featured the use of Risperidone on a patient to stimulate lactation in breast tissue which was in her knee. While the TV depiction was somewhat accurate (ie. swollen tissue) the needle-in-the-knee to extract milk thing bothered me. Yes, I -am- a med. snob when it comes to this show

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Leto

ditto. Same age for our kid too. It was a sweet taste if i recall correctly. But not something that I would care to search out now and especially pay for!

vancityboi

hmm i wouldnt be surprised if some people liked being "babied" more than "normal"

Like there would be baby talk...baby names..but to actually go THAT far and actually breastfeed or put your man/s.o in a diaper..to me that is just wierd but some people might get a kick out of it.

I think i saw something similar to this..saw it on an episode of CSI where the rich guy loves to be "babied"

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