02-22-2011, 01:35 PM | #41 (permalink) |
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I think he's implying that the prosecution of statutory rape would increase.
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02-22-2011, 02:01 PM | #42 (permalink) | ||
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If you call what I have posted "grasping at straws" so be it, and if you disagree with my point of view, simply say that. But your pretense is that there is not a legitimate point of view different than yours. I think I understand the trade-offs and that there is no easy solution that works perfectly in all circumstances. Again, I error on the side of parental, guardian or court involvement.
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02-22-2011, 02:43 PM | #43 (permalink) | |
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Second, and perhaps more importantly, I have no idea how you can claim your null hypothesis is mistrust. That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. Planned Parenthood doesn't seem to have done anything to lose your trust based on your statements here. Why is it they're guilty until proven innocent? |
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02-22-2011, 03:33 PM | #44 (permalink) | ||
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In opposing mandatory parental notification for girls requesting access to prescribed contraceptives, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Academy of Family Physicians, and the National Medical Association do not support mandatory parental notification laws. "...Ultimately, the health risks to adolescents are so impelling that legal barriers in deference to parental involvement should not stand in the way of needed care," the groups said. Quote:
You have yet to provide any source that PPH's system is one of "tolerance (no questions, almost no conditions for service)..." Putting that unsubstantiated allegation aside and addressing a core issue instead, in 1999, the University of Wisconsin surveyed sexually active girls in Wisconsin who received sexual health care at 33 Planned Parenthood clinics. Quote:
ace ..it is not a leap to further conclude that "potentially increasing teen pregnancies and the spread of STDs" will result in higher societal costs down the road.
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02-22-2011, 05:35 PM | #46 (permalink) |
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Speaking as a parent, I would hope that my children were comfortable enough with me to let me know when they needed sex-related health care, however, I do recognize that even if I were the best parent in the world, it is entirely likely that they might feel too uncomfortable, embarrassed or independent to actually do so. This is why I support the right of the qualified, medical professionals who work at organizations like Planned Parenthood to provide their services without my parental consent.
I know that as a teenager I made use of the local free STD clinic when I needed to verify a "clean bill of health" for my own peace of mind and the peace of mind of a new lady friend. I likely wouldn't have gone had I needed permission from my parents (though the desire to get laid just might have overpowered the desire to keep my getting laid a secret from my parents). |
02-22-2011, 06:57 PM | #47 (permalink) |
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Just catching up on this thread, so let me get this straight:
a) GOP wants to get rid of Planned Parenthood, which distributes free birth control and helps the poor deal with unplanned pregnancies b) GOP wants to make abortion illegal c) GOP wants to get rid of (or massively cut) welfare and unemployment benefits In other words, all out war on the lower classes? Is their utopian world view one where we have thousands and thousands of new babies born into poverty while also making it harder and harder for the impoverished to survive?
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02-22-2011, 07:07 PM | #48 (permalink) |
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Derwood, they could just join the military to get health care and benefits.
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02-22-2011, 09:26 PM | #51 (permalink) |
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I entirely concur. I can't imagine what else they would be moving towards with the changes they keep pushing for.
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b) Some see it as a form of murder. c) The welfare state has created a permanent underclass that has perpetuated a cycle dependence. Some see the GOP approach as helpful to the lower classes. We can have a system that has compassion for the poor without big disincentives for responsible behavior. ---------- Post added at 04:19 PM ---------- Previous post was at 04:17 PM ---------- I know a number of people with conservatives that have been or are poor. Including being aligned with a, b and c. Why would that be true?
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02-23-2011, 09:05 AM | #53 (permalink) | |
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Personally, I'd be more afraid that my son was going to accidentally knock someone up, or that if he did knock someone up, that he'd lack access to resources because he wasn't comfortable coming to me. |
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What if the child is given latex condemns and they have an allergy to latex. Is PP going to know? The symptoms can be very confusing to a child, would they diagnose the allergy properly? Quote:
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02-23-2011, 10:09 AM | #55 (permalink) |
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So you're saying that a teenager won't know that condoms are made of latex and/or that the providers of those condoms won't think to ask that teenager if he has a widely known-about condition which would render use of those condoms problematic?
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02-23-2011, 10:14 AM | #56 (permalink) |
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Did I miss the story that claimed Planned Parenthood is giving bad medical care to teenagers?
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If PP makes an error should a parent like me be able to sue them out of business and pursue criminal prosecution - because this whole issue is just in Ace's imagination and would never happen anyway? Is that it?
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02-23-2011, 11:19 AM | #58 (permalink) |
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It's like Reagan all over again.
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02-23-2011, 11:50 AM | #60 (permalink) | ||
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Again, just as an example to illustrate a point, I am not in the medical field - school officials jumped all over the Ritalin bandwagon without any regard for the individual needs of the child. Only strong parents willing to take the bull by the horns and fight for their child were able to overcome this "just give the kid Ritalin" routine. I do not want some overworked bureaucratic type person be they work for PP or any other government supported organization controlling my son's medical care without my involvement. For kids who have parents that don't care at least have a court appointed person reviewing the situation. Quote:
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02-23-2011, 11:58 AM | #62 (permalink) | |
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02-23-2011, 12:14 PM | #63 (permalink) | ||
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I gave my opinion, ignore it. I got the message that some consider my view on this subject a joke. Understand that I am a parent, I am posting here, but perhaps more than you know share my concerns and you will never hear from them. But, if you listen, perhaps the concerns could be addressed and PP and everyone else going go on with a satisfactory solution. But, the assumption that it is just a joke is going to lead to no PP public funding, yes it is that serious to some of us.
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02-23-2011, 12:24 PM | #64 (permalink) |
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Again, so Planned Parenthood's actual history as a credible provider of medical services is irrelevant?
I'm not trying to make your position into a joke. You don't need me to make your position a joke. You're trying to use fictional 'what if' scenarios to cast doubt on an organization that hasn't done anything to deserve it.
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02-23-2011, 12:26 PM | #65 (permalink) |
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I think we can agree that an abortion does carry medical risks - it is a procedure which can lead to complications. Under "normal" medical procedures, a parent must sign all sorts of consent forms before even a small operation on a minor. I think we can agree that both of these statements are fact. So, I do share some of Ace's concerns, as a parent, that someone gets to cut on my kid without my knowledge or consent - but only if it's her cooter. Anything else, and I have to sign 400 documents. I don't know, something just seems wrong about that. I get the whole "daddy's little girl can't tell daddy that she's a hussy and got knocked up because daddy will take back her 325i" part of it....or worse, daddy kills daddy's little girl and her boyfriend for breaking the laws of baby jesus. Sometimes, it is indeed better that daddy minds his own self-righteous business. Again, I'm just talking about the fact that, at it's roots, it's still a medical procedure which carries risks and, perhaps, requires guardian consent. I know I'd want to kill the fucker that accidentally killed my daughter in a medical procedure I knew nothing about - just on the principle of the issue. I'm really torn about that part. What do you guys think about that part of it?
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02-23-2011, 12:39 PM | #66 (permalink) |
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Except that ace is talking about his son, who is hypothetically allergic to latex. Ace seems to think that the administrators at PP are in charge of doling out medical care, and that because they aren't doctors, but bureaucrats, they don't know that their patients sometimes have medical conditions that aren't related to their junk. This is fucking nuts.
I understand your concerns, which I maintain are distinct from Ace's as he's presented them. I think that all medical procedures have an element of risk. With particular regards to abortion, I expect that the risks of having one outside of a clinic are much higher than the risks of having one inside a clinic, and that the risks of having one inside a clinic are probably on par with the risks associated with removing wisdom teeth. I am fine with my daughter taking on these risks without my consent, though I recognize that any situation that results in my daughter having an abortion is one I would like to avoid. |
02-23-2011, 12:46 PM | #67 (permalink) |
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Yeah, I agree that it is generally better to have them (abortions) at PP than the proverbial back-alley.
I know it is an entirely emotional response. It's a much...much...milder version of the emotional response which motivates someone to propose a law enabling them to shoot their daughter's prospective abortion doctor!
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Parental notification for abortions? Most states (35?) require parental notification or consent. Parental notification for contraception or STD testing and treatment? Which takes me back to the study I posted earlier....that if parental notification was required, most would refrain from treatment and continue having unprotected sex..
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Propose one rather than just bitching and making unsubstantiated claims about PP's practices that need fixing.
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Any good manager is always reviewing and trying to improve practices and services. Outside of that general point:
What do they do with evidence of illegal behavior? Who are they accountable to? How do they measure their effectiveness? How are complaints handled? I can imagine (again say what you will, but i look at incentives) a 16 year-old girl unwilling to talk to her parents/doctor/or any responsible adult having a problem at PP - what is she going to do? PP has every incentive to cover stuff up if it goes wrong - with that kind of incentive bad situations never ends well. Is this is a joke to you something not to be concerned about? Quote:
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For what is worth, I live in a conservative "family" oriented area, I have a teenager and I interact with lots of parents many are conservative and some both conservative and religious - very few don't support the use of contraception by their sons and daughters. None want their teens engaging in sex but in 2011 - I bet on a national level very few parents hold the views that you suggest in your posts. Often surveys that does not support an ideology either does not get done or gets no publicity. That is why I often suggest that you get out of DC and interact with people outside the belt-way.
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I see more of the same questions based on pre-conceived (no pun intended) unsubstantiated assumptions or allegations of "questionable" practices.
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02-23-2011, 03:32 PM | #76 (permalink) | |
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All you had to do was ask, no need for drama. It is what some call civil discourse.
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02-23-2011, 03:34 PM | #77 (permalink) | |
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I know you don't, because those were questions - not solutions.
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02-23-2011, 03:44 PM | #79 (permalink) |
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ace, I tried taking you seriously, but its like banging my head against the wall.
' You ignore studies I post or deflect them with more questions, you offer unsubstantiated claims about PP practices, you ignore facts about PP.... And you conclude with some childish remark....just another deflection.
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