Speaking as a parent, I would hope that my children were comfortable enough with me to let me know when they needed sex-related health care, however, I do recognize that even if I were the best parent in the world, it is entirely likely that they might feel too uncomfortable, embarrassed or independent to actually do so. This is why I support the right of the qualified, medical professionals who work at organizations like Planned Parenthood to provide their services without my parental consent.
I know that as a teenager I made use of the local free STD clinic when I needed to verify a "clean bill of health" for my own peace of mind and the peace of mind of a new lady friend. I likely wouldn't have gone had I needed permission from my parents (though the desire to get laid just might have overpowered the desire to keep my getting laid a secret from my parents).
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