Actually, I kinda thought your story was pretty short.

16, he was 21... and didn't know i was a virgin.. needless to say i've realized (a few years too late) that i was taken advantage of...

I was 15... with a 16 year old...

seems so long ago, when it really wasnt all that long at all

We were both 17. I had an imperforate hymen which basically meant I was a super virgin. I couldn't even wear tampons. The Dr that I went to see about it said I would have to have my hymen surgically removed because to break it the old fashion way would be too painful, the opening was the size of a pin hole. Can you imagine the smile on my father's face when he found out his 16 yo daughter couldn't have sex without surgery?

Enter Dr. Primal (who would be my husband some years down the road). They were right, it really hurt. Took 1 year to work up to breaking it.

A good time was NOT had by all.
(sorry was that TMI?)

redgirl..

my...3rd was like that, it took FOREVER to work up to normal sex...i'm talking patience, time, and a lot of pain and a little blood...

but after a month, she was up for anything :)

17 summer just before i started college_it was in my room on a lazy afternoon_it was one of hte best days of my life_we were nervous it was the first tmie for both of us_things were so much more simple back then_the good old days

Saying Farewell?!?! In the long scope of things to come down
the road, my virginity hasn't even gone to middle school yet.

"Frustration" and "losing virginity" go hand in hand for me.

Much to my chagrin, I didn't lose it until I had finished grad school. I think I was about 24. I was not clueless, not unattractive, had been to a college my classmates were calling "camp hormone" (because of all the fucking going on). I was just wonderging why women kept rejecting me. I'm still wondering ... I guess I tried too hard or something. I don't look back on it as a decent experience -- the memories of how difficult it was (mid-1980s) to get someone to cooperate were, well, frustrating. Still are.

Since that occasion, I've deflowered a few women as well. I'd have to say, sex with a (female) virgin (as a male) isn't all it's cracked up to be. Mostly they lie there wondering if they're allowed to move, and even after four or five sessions they still didn't "loosen up" until they've had A DIFFERENT MALE PARTNER. The whole "am I doing it right" and "I don't know what feels good to me" things just got in the way. Maybe I'm picking the wrong women?

And I've dated a thirtysomething divorcee who hadn't had sex with anyone except her husband until me (hence, was a virgin at marriage) who says, categorically, her lack of sexual experience was one of the main motivating factors in driving her into a marriage that was a mistake, and driving her to stay in it despite the feeling of it being a mistake, because she didn't have any sensation (sexual or otherwise related to intimacy) to compare to.

I guess I'm making a call for greater sexual liberation among our young women. It sure would have made MY life a lot better ... :)

Hmm.. this kinda makes sense I think. At least for me. I've "lossened up" after my first partner.

19 with a 30 year old.
Older women are much more interesting in bed.

older women are beautiful lovers, I've been around some, and i've come to know

props to who can name the song/artist :)

seriously, though, no offense out there, but female virgins aren't all tehy are cracked up to be.

"Why am i bleeding, am i doing it right, can you feel me, how will i know when i'm about to cum, why does ti feel like i have to pee, OH MY GODDDDDDDDDDD WHAT WAS THAT AND WHY IS MY BED SOAKED (ok, i liked that one), Wow, that hurts, Can i miove now, what do you mean you want my ass in the air???? i'm so embarassed, my parents are going to kill me, i'm going to get caught, i'm going to get pregnant, Why would you want to come on my tits, where can i put my feet, does this feel good."

I swear, peopel should get 1 free fuck when yuo're like 16 so you can enjoy your sex life after that. Sheesh...

I was 15 she was 15 and it was a whole lota lovin' fun.

Old enough to still have it fresh in my memory. But I'm working on erasing it.

I was 18, she was 17. We were both virgins. We had known each other for about a week and a half . . . we moved pretty quickly.

By "known each other for about a week and a half," I mean we met, and in under two weeks there it went. The first time was . . . embarassing, to say the least. It got better, though.

18. what a great summer.

I was 13 and she was 16. I had no idea what I was doing. Luckily she did.

I was 17 he was 20..hmm I think that was illegal.

im 18, it hasnt happened yet, but I've been very close. my girlfriend says it hurts, so after a few tries, we stop and do something else. If I lose it to anyone, i want it to be her, but im not really in a rush to have it happen like i once was, i dont mind taking my time with her. she's truly something special

I was 17 and she was 16. We were both virgins so it was kind of awkward and certainly painful on her part. It was a warm summer day...being nude with the girl you love for the first time you love - sweating all over each other and loving every moment of it...there are few moments in my short life that mean more to me.

I wasn't a total virgin and definetly wasn't new to sex so I knew what to do but she it hurt like hell for her and it was still a bit weird until we had done it for quite some time.

We're still together and I'm hoping we get married.

16, so was she. It was a joke, on the cement in a park shelter. I was scared shitless, kept looking around for people. Didn't even know how to kiss. She even stopped during making out to eat a Reeses PB cup and smoke, because she was drunk and probably bored. She was the biggest slut, and practically took it from me. That was 1987. I think it lasted 30 seconds, and I was too naive to even feel bad about that! I remember saying I'm done, are you? Like a girl comes that quickly! I had SO much to learn, it's kind of embarrassing. My next gf taught alot, though.
Glad those days are long gone! (also glad she is gone)

Heh, thats one of the best first fuck stories I've ever heard.

I was 13 and it was with my sisters best friend in my bed she was 17 man what a day

:lol: It was even worse than my description. But the next day I felt like I had won the super bowl...(had friends teasing me about being a virgin!)

eek... I was 14 and she was 17. I'm not even going to tell the story it's so bad... just... ugh.

*shudders*

virgin, 19, in uni, by choice. While i dont regret it, it does make you feel kind of small when you have a group of jocks talking about their latest conquest while your looking at java code :(

Well, half of those guys are full of shit anyway... Don't believe what they're saying. I knew plenty of guys in college (and still) who talk a big game but in reality they're just full of it.

I want to say we were both 17, but there is a 5 month diff between our B'days and I can't remember when it was. It very likely could have been right before she turned 17....dont remember. She was my HS sweet heart, we dated for almost 7 yrs.

That's a nice story. Good for you. But how were you not totally a Virgin? I can't for the life of me seem to understand that?

21 yrs. and counting... Not in a huge hurry, just want to make sure it's right.

at my 21st birthday :)
............awesomeness :)

I was 15, she was 14. Her folk's place, after school one day. Pretty risky, actually. There was no lock on the door, and her brother was home. Oh yeah, and no condom, so I had to pull out. That sucked ass. Later that week she gave me head in the back of her parents car on the way home from a ball game. Super-rad.

I was 21, she was 20. She thought I didn't love her if I didn't. I was like her 5th or 6th at that point and I found out later that I was likely not the only one that month. :( Believe it or not, we still talk and are friends. I have a weird life.

I was fifteen when it was taken.

Dude, I'm in the exact same boat. Don't feel too bad. I'm saving it up until I know I'm gonna marry the girl. Best wedding gift ever.

24 and she was 23. She'd done it before, and had a daughter, so I bagged me a MILF on my first run! Kinda cool I guess. We're still pretty good friends too.

That's it.

13

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Oral sex---> 15 yrs. old with my boyfriend on a camping trip. We were in a tent and his best friend Geoff was sleeping (at least I hope he was) right next to us. My bf's mom was in a tent about 10ft. away...it was risky and fun.

Sex (the real deed)---> Day after my 21st birthday in April 2001. My same boyfriend and I lost ours together in a shady motel room in South Shore Lake Tahoe. We lost our virginities together. It took six years to get him to have sex with me because he was catholic and thought he would go to hell or something if he had pre-marital sex...I must have really been in love with him to hold out for so long. We're no longer together now.

I was 16 and she was 24 or 25 and married with a young daughter. We worked at a fast food joint together, I had worked for her on easter so she owed me a favor as she liked to put it. We flirted she would always ask me what I wanted as a favor in return, being so young and imaginative I fantasized about what this favor could be thinking of course it will never happen. One day she asked me to meet her after work at a local grocery store we talked for hours and she proceded to sorta seduce me and give me head "a taste of what was coming" as she would say. She would bring me to the edge and stop. It was very frustrating for me.

It took a few weeks but I finally was able to convince her to take my virginity in a close by apartment parking lot in my car she began by riding me it was pretty amazing considering the situation.. before I could finish she thought she saw someone coming over so we stopped..that was it.. She got weird on me and would talk about love and her leaving her husband and I was to immature and young to handle that so I quit work and never saw her again.

I'm 20 and still truckin.

I was 21 and she was 23.