I was 15, she was 16. In the parking lot of a local park in the backseat of a convertible '68 Camaro - very cramped. Didn't have a clue.

I was 16, and she was 18... ahh yeah, how you like me now, stepping up with the older women? Sorry, got stupid for a second. Anyway, nothing too exciting. HEr parents house and in her bedroom. I think I had a clue what I was doing, but I really can't remember it at all. It's hard to remember 45 seconds of you life 12 years ago ;)

almost 21 and still have it
didn't find the right girl yet/didn't have luck with the ones I wanted ^^

she 15 i was 17

still with her 1 year, 3 months, 15 days later

Seems to me like a lot of you managed to do what I couldn't quite: have sex with a girl during your teens.
I waited without really intending to until I was 22 and was almost forced into it by a rather aggressive, recently divorced high school teacher from a long way away. She was 4 years older.
Now, I imagine most people reading here will skip over most of the content of the thread since it is rather samey..... but how about a new question?
I was reading the other day a theory linking Freud's Oedipus Complex with the supposedly 'common' experience of males losing their virginity or having a first major sexual attachment to an older woman.
How common is this 'older woman' thing? I could look back over all the posts so far and count, but I don't think that would give me the answer.
If it's common and normal for guys to get involved with older girls/women, why is that? And what brings them back to younger girls afterwards?
And is it any different from what girls tend to do by going for older guys?

Too many questions?

18, high school, pretty standard. Except maybe I married her, not because anything went wrong mind you, but because she was and is a fabulous person.

wow some of you lost it at a very young age

15, she was 19

14, so was she. My parents were house sitting a neighbors house, so we got the keys.

22, to my new wife. She was against sex before marrige and I respected that and loved her enough to give that to her. Longest 6 years of my life, even though we did some stuff though.

That's exactly what I was thinking lol. At 15? That's freshman year? Heh...

I was 18 and in love...

16, in the backseat of my car, parked in an out of the way lot at a local community college. Wished I had waited so that my current girlfriend would have been my first.

I was 15, he was 17. Fun times.

Nine. Literally.

I was 18, I believe she was 19. It was the 4th of july & I had nothing better to do b4 the fireworks show.

I was 21 and she was 28....hot damn is all I can say....nothing like an older woman...of course now I am 23 and my g/f is 27 and its the best choice I ever made....

I was 18, she was 17 - in my bed

I was 15, and the girl I was dating was 17. It was really quite a disaster as she was insane, but what can ya do?!

18, he was 29, in my parents' basement while they were out of town. And the subsequent two years we dated were phenominal because of him... I'll never regret it.

16..she was 14 and a pro

18, and my mum and dad came in the house just as the soldiers left the trenches :crazy: job done

22, with the woman i eventually married.......................and divorced.

I was 16 and in Asia visiting a friend who went to school here and stay the summers there. Being the white guy in the area he thought it would be best to take me around to all the hot spots. After a day of eating at street vendors we decided to go to a hostess bar and get shit faced and sing songs with the ladies who worked there.

Well like 30min into the party I started to feel the street vendor fried squid start disagreeing with the quail I ate. So I went to the bathroom to relive myself. I came out like 10 min later feeling better in the stomach but had a major headache. The language barrier was so bad that they didnt understand what I meant. So I was grabbing my head showing that I needed some Tylelol or something.

One of the girls who spoke broken english to put it lightly took me into the private bathroom of the bar to what I thought would be a neck massage. Well needless to say it wasnt. She said, "I helping your head better ok. I know special thing to helping."

You can guess where it went from there. We ended up doing it in the private bathroom. Luckily it had a condom machine. :P

I was 18 she was 18, we had been together for about 3 months and have been together now for 2 and half years. We did it in the basement of her parents place on the floor, oh what a night :).

18 and sadly I'm still in love with her. Damn those attachments

I was 18, she was 17. We did it doggie style in my room while my dad was downstairs.

We were both 20 and both virgins, together about 9 months. Waited until we were both sure and it was amazing...

I was 16 she was 17 in my bed. Don't remember where my parents were, but i do remember that we did it twice. Thought I knew what I was doing the second time ;)

30. I got tired of waiting for the "perfect" woman so I took a 21 yr old home from a party and had a blast :)

My wife thinks its funny that she is only the 2nd woman I have ever been with.

I was 16. We had been friends since third grade. We did it on a love seat and it was very uncomfortable and awkward. Not a good memory, really. I prefer to remember the first time my wife and I had sex.

I was 15 and so was my GF, we did it in her bedroom with her parent right across the hall....I like taking risks.

Then 2 years later she got pregnant...I think she liked sex just a little to much:D

I was 13 and so was she. Thank god for catholic schools teaching sex ed in 5th grade so I knew to pull out.

I was 21, so was she...
I remember feeling a little embarassed that I hadn't had sex as a teenager, but once when I was about 16 some friends walked in on my girlfriend and me with our pants down, so they told everyone at school that we'd been having sex. I guess it was nice to have the reputation without actually having done it <grin>.
Now that I'm older I realize that waiting until I was 21 wasn't a big deal, of course...it just seemed like it back then.

21...I was holding off for the perfect girl (she wasn't it) but alas booze soon makles short work of that. Sorta wish I held off for my current partner, who is the love of my life and hopefully will be me wife one of these days :)

i was eighteen and i don't regret it. I think that it matters more for women because guys can just pass it off as nothing.

Sex ed in 5th grade...holy shit :eek:

I didn't learn sex ed untill grade 8...

I was 22, she was 21, we had dated since she was 16, and it was our wedding night!

That is the best way... no doubt.

I was 12 when I said farewell to it, but it stuck around like an unliked in-law.

I'm 19 and still waiting :(