i was 16, she was 17, in the back of a dodge caravan under a deserted underpass after the junior prom... it was incredibly akward and entirely unremarkable.. i didn't really come into my own as a "don juan" until a few years ago... all a part of the learning curve, i suppose.

I haven't said farewell to it.... yet.

Still waiting.

lost it at 28 im now 29, i could have done it earlier but i was too busy playing videogames

18 and waiting...

Not really for marriage or anything like that... I'm not really looking for the right girl either... I guess I'm just waiting...

College had better be bad ass. :D

I was 16 she was 18, it was rubbish - stayed with her for 3 years- broke up...next partner was badass in bed - damn i mis that second lass!

We were both 18.. No one was home so we did it on his bed. The most I can remember about it , is he was a nervous wreck and the Skid Row song playing in the background cause that was his favorite band.

Not yet. Working on it, though (I'm 18).

hmm. almost lost it when i was fourteen to another virgin simply because we were both curious and lonely. got tangled with the boy's ex-girlfriend over the boy's virginity. we fought for a little bit, then started talking civilly and decided neither of us were ready at the same time. i can only imagine how much this boy was brought down when we told him, haha.

i eventually lost my virginity a year and a couple of months later, at fifteen, after me and my boyfriend had been together four-five months. we'd just spent an in-service day at school [he was graduating and needed to finish a lot of work, i just needed to do a lot of work], and we'd gone back to his apartment while his parents were on a fishing trip. we'd ordered a pizza, but we spaced it and started having sex [i'd been ready to for about a month at the time, he'd been wanting to the whole time]. eventually there was a knock at the door and the pizza came and i lay awkwardly on the couch silently praying that the arm of the couch would hide me. then we continued like nothing had happened :)

Im 21 and havent lost it yet, do i pity myself? Hell no..:crazy:

I was 18 and she was 24 and a sargent in the air force.

Wow, that sounds almost exactly like my story. I was 19, she was 18 (not her first time though-- we dated for 9 months) and it's been 13 months since I got myself some poonani. The date of the deed was September 11, 2001 and I guess to escape the reality of the Towers coming down, I went down on her...;)

i'm 18 and my virginity JUST WON'T FUCKING LET GO.

16. I certainly didn't think it was going to be painful for the guy. Dear Lord it was...

19 in my dorm room on Labor Day, soph year of college had just started.

The thing I miss the most about being young is being able to go all night...

21

We were both drunk & sleep deprived.
I had the "privlege" if you can call it that, of being number 150 for her. Yeah, I'm so proud.

i was 15

I was 18 and she was 16, it was during the summer while she came to visit me in california... Good stuff.

Still got it and 20 years old.

I was 16, she was 17. Bed was too squeaky with my sleeping mother in the room above us so we did it on the floor. At the time it was great, of course, but now that I know just how insane our relationship would turn out (6 years of craziness) I would have waited for the woman to whom I am now married.

I spent the afternoon of my 17th birthday outside of Planned Parenthood while she was inside getting a pregnancy test. I was waiting in stressed agony. Not pregnant, thankfully. Of course I had to be stupid and continued to have sex with this girl who kept forgetting her birth control, with no protection, it is a happy miracle she never got pregnant.

Now I'm married, with a beautiful 6 month daughter. I was very happy wen I found out my wife was pregnant. Maybe that should be a good way of deciding if you should have sex with a person or not: would you like to have children with them?

Eight years old, involuntarily.

That is awesome. Congrats! :)

I was 17, so was she. Typical high school sweetheart scenario, we broke up after 2 and a half years together. I have no regrets, other than the one I ended up with afterwards gave her virginity to me, we got engaged, and she recently left me for one of my friends, but that my friends, is a different story all together.

I was 17, was messing around with my long time friend in my room one morning.. tickling turned into kissing, and so on...

if I could, I would take it all back... ya know.. to be a virgin still. Then I wouldn't know what I'm missing right now.

I was 14, ans so was she... it was the strangest fucking thing. Some girl one day commented on my shirt while I was in a mall, and we ended up striking up a conversation... and it was a REALLY long conversation... eventually we started walking and talking with each other, and before you know it, she was leading me off into the bathroom, we stumled into a stall, and I think you can imagine the rest from there... pretty awkward, because if we made too much noise, we'd be fucked (no pun intended). I tried to call her again after that, but never once did I get an answer... all I'll ever really know is that her name was Erica.

20 and counting.

Not sure how much of an issue it is, honestly. I've only had a single relationship (if you could call it that), so it's more or less a question of circumstance.

*shrug*

Better to be happy and single than miserable and committed.

15

i was 15 and the girl was 18 outside on a beach at a Christian summer camp. it was very strange because she was the first serious physical realationship id ever had and was fascinated by everything.

I was 17 and she was a 30 something and divorced. We were at a wedding with many many of my family. She was at our table bored, and I was bored as well.

We talked for a couple hours while everybody else partied. Then the entire party went to the hotel we were all staying at.

Partied some more in a very big room with about 60 people. Then we got kicked out. As we went to the next room to party some more she pulled me into her room.

She was so hot and horny that she basically took off all her clothes in about 2 seconds. She laid on the bed and all I did was kiss her stomach and she had an orgasm. That was the first time we touched.

I wanted it to last so I took my clothes off and slowly slipped inside her. I was moving slow and making it last. It was very intense. You could hear people partying all over the place and walking in the hall past our room.

Obviously she had enough of my slow technique. She raised her legs and grabbed my ass and pistoned me into her until I finally orgasmed.

We had about 15 seconds to gain our bareings and her roomates (my cousins) were coming into her room. She dashed to the bathroom and I slowly got dressed. I left before she came out of the bathroom.

I only caught a glimpse of her the next day and I have never seen her again.

A very great first time...

I'm 20 and still haven't lost it... my girlfriend is 17 and she might get it, but probably not for another couple years just because we want to wait. It's going to be the right time and right place which isn't in a car (although I'm not saying its bad just the way I want it) .

I was 17, she was 19 and i absolutely sucked. I don't think there was any possible for me to ever erase the horrible memory of our first time together. After that, she had very low expectations from me as a lover. I guess it's a good thing i got enough practice with her to improve. It's been smooth sailing ever since.

Define loss of virginity? I was first blown when I was 12. There was a party at my mates house (he was 16) and they started showing porn. His sister, lets call her Kate, (almost 12) and I snuck in... saw a little... and then snuck out under the house to mimick what we had seen...

As for actual sex though.... well after that incident I couldn't see the point to all this sex stuff.... and I waited until I got hammered at a 18th birthday party (I was nearly 18) and ended up having what will be the worst sex of my life with this chick that makes the bearded lady look hot.

Luckily.... kate and I meet up again at my 18th, so aslong as I forget to mention that OTHER incident, I just say kate took my virginity. But sadly that aint true... I fucked a fugly... (as we say in oz)

My story is nearly identical...but I dissed her afterwards (wanted some personal space that night). We talked hard about it though, and many tears were shed. She now (7 years later,) understands my feelings at the moment and I realize too - that I was a self-absorbed dickhead.

Sadly I still am...

You give me hope :).. I'm 20 and still gaming :)

Although next time i go to Wisconsin and a certain someone is visiting home as well..... I honestly don't know what'll happen. Unless I have a g/f by then.. it may become a very nice weekend.

I was 19. I'd fooled around before with high school boyfriends but believe it or not I lost my virginity to my husband-to-be. Didn't know at that point he'd eventually be my husband but that's how it turned out!

We were in my dorm room and had kicked my roommate out, and we "tried out" just penetration. Hurt and felt sooooo good at the same time. Must have been a real feat for him to not finish the deed right then. I remember walking around with him the rest of the day thinking "I can't believe I did that!!! I'm not a virgin anymore! Woohoo!" Then that night we made love (somewhat awkwardly, we'll both admit) and slept together and had a shared dream that was the most awesome experience I've ever had with another person.

To be completely honest, I was 13 and she was 14. The only problem is;I wish I could take it back. I now realize that I never really did love her, and the girl that I have now is who I wish could've been my first. If only we could turn back the wheels of time...*sigh*

I was 16. She was 2 years older than me when me, a mate, his girl, and this other girl Pip all got drunk together, played strip Pictionary, then my mate told me to put my arm around her and see what happened... the rest is history (translation: she near killed me!)

21 and still have it. I've dated several women, but I just haven't met the one I'm willing to give it to.

I was 24. Could've earlier but always chickened out. Finally some fat slut kinda did everything for me. Dunno now what the hell I was so afraid of. Now I have more confidence than I can probably afford and standards probably beyond my means. Sex is overrated.