04-03-2009, 02:19 PM | #1 (permalink) | |
Tilted Cat Head
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Voice mail: do you care anymore?
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I limited my home phone to only allow 1 minute messages. I like when people leave who they are, and if there is any pertinent information like, "It's an emergency..." but if you are just yammering on and on and on.... BEEEEEEEP. Time's over! Now, the idea that messages converted to text and then sent to you. I don't know if I'm a fan of that, there's something to be said for listening to my nephew ask me star wars character questions via voicemail, or getting news from my parents about a family member. There's tone, inflection, something to explain the nuances of what they are saying. The written language of English is horrible for that because we've dumbed it down to the point of mulitple meanings for the same word. But ultimately, if you leave me a message, note to not leave anything too long, I'm going to spend a minute listening to it tops, and then call you back. Most interestingly enough, I do use it at the office as much as I can. Publishers are very much into words so they tend to read into emails more than they should. So many times, I pick up the phone and talk directly. What do you do with your voice mail? Like it? Hate it?
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04-03-2009, 02:44 PM | #2 (permalink) |
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Hate it, but I hate talking on the phone in general. The phone is still better than text messaging and e-mail which I can't bring myself to write to often. I much prefer to talk to someone in person, and avoid all the above as much as I can.
I guess you could say I am communication impaired. It is something I am working on, which is why I am back on here posting more often. I am making an effort to reach out to others. Voice mail I find very annoying. I don't like listening to messages and most of all leaving one. Just like on answering machines before voice mail, I rarely leave a message unless it is important or I really want you to call me back. I feel so stupid talking to a machine.
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04-03-2009, 02:49 PM | #3 (permalink) |
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Location: Canada
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I still use voicemail. I recently switched cell phone providers, and the two features I insisted on having were voicemail and call display.
Interestingly enough, I hate text messages and avoid them as much as possible. I'd just as soon have someone leave me a voice message that I can check at my convenience. I do frequently find myself erasing messages that are no longer pertinent by the time I get them (mostly from my mother, who loves to leave a lot of messages), but I get important messages often enough to mean that the function itself is still indispensable.
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04-03-2009, 03:19 PM | #4 (permalink) |
The Reverend Side Boob
Location: Nofe Curolina
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Always check it at work. If somebody left me a voicemail rather than an e-mail, odds are it's important and needs done ASAP. In construction, you can't afford to have delays.
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04-03-2009, 03:27 PM | #5 (permalink) |
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Location: Florida
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Like lostgirl, I really dislike talking on phones in general, but I always listen to my voicemail (and respond) when I am at work. It would be neglectful not to and I imagine I would get into a lot of trouble if I didn't.
My personal voicemail is a different story, though, I'll go for days sometimes without listening to messages. It's pretty much just my family that calls me, though, and we always end up catching each other one way or another.
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04-03-2009, 09:28 PM | #6 (permalink) |
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Location: Central Republic of Where-in-the-Hell
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I really don't like leaving voice mails... I always sound like a complete dork. I'm not bug on talking on the phone in general, though; I'd much rather text.
On the other hand, GETTING voice mails is different. If an unknown number calls me, I don't answer, and if they don't leave a voice mail, I'll have no idea who it was. Also, I can't answer the phone in class or at work. I don't get a signal at all in some of the school buildings, so a missed call won't register... without voice mail, I'd miss some (somewhat) important stuff. The voice-to-text thing is an interesting idea, but I think I prefer listening to the voice mail. I have a few friends that leave some really goofy messages every time they call, and if I was just reading text, I wouldn't get the silly voices or songs. That's no fun.
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04-04-2009, 05:44 AM | #7 (permalink) |
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Location: Louisville, KY
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I hate leaving voice mails, I sound like an inarticulate goober. I still listen to mine, mainly because it drives me crazy to have that little voice mail symbol on my cell phone. I'm weird. I don't have voice mail at work anymore (thank god), so any such messages I get are generally personal in nature. I generally only get them from unknown callers (my eye doctor, my dentist, etc.) or my Mama.
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04-04-2009, 05:57 AM | #8 (permalink) | |
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In a business environment, I think ignoring voice mail messages is bad work etiquette. If your employer provides that tool and it can't be turned disabled, it needs to be checked.
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Overall, I still enjoy actually hearing someones voice. I understand the convenience of texting or email but I think it should be an additional tool. I don't think it should be used as a replacement for true personal communication.
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04-04-2009, 06:44 AM | #9 (permalink) |
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Location: LI,NY
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We have voice mail at work, but I don't rush to listen to it because 9 out of 10 times, they email me as well. OR they don't leave a detailed message and I don't know what they want. If I don't call back quick enough for them, they walk down to my office. So, the voice mail is there, but it is not as important or urgent. At home, we have caller ID. Most callers don't leave messages anyway. Probably solicitors.
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04-04-2009, 09:44 AM | #10 (permalink) |
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Location: Australia/UAE
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never had it..rarely ever used it
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04-04-2009, 09:58 AM | #11 (permalink) |
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Location: Denver City Denver
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I never leave them or listen when people leave them for me. If I need to tell you something and don't really need a response, I'll text you. If I need to talk to you I'll assume you're smart enough to figure that out just by the fact that I called you. It's pointless to say, "Hey, it's Sean, call me back. Need to talk to you."
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04-04-2009, 11:51 AM | #13 (permalink) | |
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Location: Franklinville, NJ
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04-05-2009, 08:05 AM | #14 (permalink) |
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Location: the center of the multiverse
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A year ago, my mom left me a voice mail and I inadvertently saved it. Now I'm glad I did, because she died five months ago, of cancer. I plan to re-save it and listen to it, every now and then, for as long as our phone service enables me to.
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04-05-2009, 09:20 AM | #16 (permalink) |
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Location: Some where in Southern California
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Back in '98, my manager at a bank did something that might have been revolutionary at the time. While listening to her voicemail, she would set the speaker phone on, and do other paper work at her desk. If it was an important message, she would jot down a few notes, and return a few calls after all her messages have played back.
Personally, I screen calls to my cell if I don't recognize the number, since they'll only leave a message if it's an important call. At first, I would Google the phone number to see who had called when there was not message, and most of the time the number was on listed as a telemarketing company. And I love leaving voice mail. I'm not talking to a machine anymore than when writing email to a machine, both are forms of comunication. And voice mail is just that, a verbal message. I dated this one gal that would call early in the morning from her work line, and since I'm not in a chatty mood until the afternoon, I'd let the machine answer for me. Rather than leave voice mail, she would email me instead. Which was great for me What boogled my mind, is that this gal is use to speaking to assemblies full of people, and yet an answering machinng gave her the heeby geebies.
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04-05-2009, 11:51 AM | #17 (permalink) | |
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Location: South Africa
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I don't think voicemail's going anywhere anytime soon.
If you're willing to wait through my automated greeting in addition to the 10 rings before the phone kicked over to voicemail to leave one, I'll assume it's important enough for me to listen to. This rings true at work especially - no one's going to bother leaving a message just to ask me how I'm doing. And really, we can't take a few seconds out to listen to the messages themselves? I usually only have to listen to the first few seconds to realise what it's about and how to respond. Voice-to-text is cool and all, but I refuse to be reduced to channeling my life through my thumbs. For me it's all about ease of use. It's easier for me to hold the '1' button down and listen to my messages than to press however many it takes to read through all of them.
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04-05-2009, 03:38 PM | #18 (permalink) |
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Location: Some nucking fut house.
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Agreed. IMHO, the best systems are the ones where a real, live human being answers the phone. If the person being called doesn't answer, it rings back to the operator who can then ask if the caller wants transfered to the voicemail of the person they want to reach.
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04-05-2009, 07:10 PM | #19 (permalink) |
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Location: Amazon.com and CDBaby
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As annoying as voicemail can be, I hate text messaging double. I rarely respond to a text. If I do, it's with a phone call or email.
I use voicemail as a call screener, as well. If I don't recognize the number calling, or if I do and just don't have the time or inclination to get into a conversation with that person at the time, I let it ring out and wait to see who they are or what's on their mind on the voicemail they leave, if any. Plus, as a rule, I don't take personal cell calls while at work, nor texts, or chat requests.
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04-06-2009, 07:43 AM | #21 (permalink) |
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Location: Fauxenix, Azerona
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Texts are superior in every way than VMs, and I will always send a text if I get someone's message. Why? Time and difficulty to parse. I can read a text message in 3 seconds, versus calling the traditional vm hassle of punching through menu options, then either waiting through the message header and wasting that time, or not having the message header and then having no idea if this was sent a week ago or this morning and by who.
Google is working on the ultimate solution to this problem, which is auto-transcription of your VMs, which will then be sent to you via text. Until then, the interim solution of visual voicemail eliminates almost all of the hassle on my end, and since installing PhoneFusion I have started checking my cell voicemail with great regularity. Having a list of messages displaying who (or what number, at least) they are from, time, date, and length, and having to just hit 'play' (or be able to delete without listening) makes voicemail actually useful.
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04-06-2009, 07:58 AM | #22 (permalink) |
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Location: Oregon
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The only people who bother to leave me voicemails are clients, friends, and parents, so yes, I usually check them.
I don't like text messages, mostly because my provider (Sprint) totally dicked us. When we went to get me a new phone, I selected the LG Rumor for its nifty slideout keyboard after the guy in the store told us that text messages were only $5/mo, with no extra fees. Wrong. The bill showed up the next month with a $15 charge for access to Sprint's Vision network, plus the $5 for texting. We tried to straighten it out, but they insisted that we needed the $15/mo Vision access to even have texting (despite the fact that I asked the guy in the store that exact question). Given that I have a $20 line on a family plan, it's not worth paying as much as my line costs just to get texting, so we turned the texting off (Sprint's charges are obscene for individual messages). Unfortunately, a lot of people my age and younger don't seem to comprehend that not everyone has text messaging or wants to use it. Sure, it has its uses, and there are times I wish I had it, but I think our culture has gone a little text-crazy. I HATE seeing people text in class. GRRRR. How much are you paying to sit in a college classroom and text people? Seriously.
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