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Digilogic · 10-05-2005, 11:13 PM

I was wondering what is a good way to convey the message that I really more than anything else like oral sex. She usually goes down on me for a minute in the very beginning but then we move on to sex. Once in a while I would love to just get a blowjob from start to finish. I love returning the favor too.

PredeconInferno · 10-05-2005, 11:41 PM

If there's a delicate way to ask for this, then it's news to me.

If it's someone that really loves/trusts you, I would say just say it.

Generally speaking, I would refrain from using such "colorful" phrasiology.... unless she's into that... In any case, I would say just tell her how you feel about it.

I don't know her, though... so I could be way off the mark here.

Johnny Pyro · 10-06-2005, 02:36 AM

How long have you been with her?

I had a similar situation. She was getting me to the point where I was hard enough for sex, which is cool, but other than that, that was it. After three weeks tip toeing around it I asked for a "complete blowjob." She said ok with a not so thrilled look on her face. It was obvious she didn't like to give head. Basically, it was a handjob with a suck here and there.

Maybe she doesn't want to. I would just ask. It couldn't hurt.

lukethebandgeek · 10-06-2005, 03:25 AM

I use these words exactly. "Will you give me a blowjob?"

Daniel_ · 10-06-2005, 04:10 AM

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Originally Posted by lukethebandgeek

I use these words exactly. "Will you give me a blowjob?"

Don't forget to say that you'd love to return the favour.

yabobo · 10-06-2005, 04:26 AM

In the real world a girl that truely loves to give head is difficult to find.
I know I'm going to get jumped by our female members for this,but it's true.
Guys make sure it's really clean and play with some flavored oils too. It might make
a difference. The women I married 23 years ago just wont. She will receive oral and love it
but to "go all the way " hahahahah!
The girl friend I almost married was an everyday sucker! She said she just wanted to take care of her man! Just wasn't the marrying type!

So just be honest with her and don't force the issue..If all else fails use booze!

Charlatan · 10-06-2005, 05:15 AM

Just ask... then again, my wife gave me one this morning and I all had to do was wake up...

Trust me. Let her know it makes you happy to get blow jobs. If she doesn't like doing them at all she will tell you.

ShaniFaye · 10-06-2005, 05:57 AM

IF Dave asks (and I say If because Im one of those rare women who truly enjoys it

) he justs...well asks hehehehe

air45 · 10-06-2005, 06:00 AM

maybe you can do the trade!

so if you girl friend like a back rub, say: "here is the deal! how about if i rub on your back, then you lick on my member? good deal!"

this way, every body win!

Redlemon · 10-06-2005, 06:10 AM

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Originally Posted by air45

maybe you can do the trade!

so if you girl friend like a back rub, say: "here is the deal! how about if i rub on your back, then you lick on my member? good deal!"

this way, every body win!

Actually, that position is a big hit in our household; my wife likes to blow me while I give her a deep neck and upper back massage. Probably not a position to start with, however.

Glory's Sun · 10-06-2005, 06:28 AM

Just tell her it would be nice to get brains without sex every now and then. Be open and honest.. but you could set the precedent by going down on her till she gets her rocks off first :shrug:

snowy · 10-06-2005, 06:39 AM

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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye

IF Dave asks (and I say If because Im one of those rare women who truly enjoys it

) he justs...well asks hehehehe

Hehe...I too enjoy giving a good bj...my main problem at the moment is that my SO is rather, erm, well-endowed...so I'm working up to my former ability to stretch my jaw after a long break away from giving BJs. That prevents me from wanting to do it as often--my jaw just gets too tired too soon.

You've just got to ask. Otherwise you'll never know what her hangup about it is.

rsl12 · 10-06-2005, 06:54 AM

Tell her how sexy you find what's in her head!

Powderedmaggot · 10-06-2005, 11:41 AM

Simple. If you want her to stay down on you, stay down on her.

Digilogic · 10-06-2005, 12:21 PM

Well, she usually says things like "I want you inside me." So I don't really know if she really is just that excited or if its a way to avoid head. We have been together about 4 monthes Pyro.

Glory's Sun · 10-06-2005, 12:26 PM

inside her mouth.. is still inside

martinguerre · 10-06-2005, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl

Hehe...I too enjoy giving a good bj...my main problem at the moment is that my SO is rather, erm, well-endowed...so I'm working up to my former ability to stretch my jaw after a long break away from giving BJs. That prevents me from wanting to do it as often--my jaw just gets too tired too soon.

You've just got to ask. Otherwise you'll never know what her hangup about it is.

And what a problem to have, a boy who's cute AND hung.

God, i'm jealous.

Ustwo · 10-06-2005, 01:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by onesnowyowl

Hehe...I too enjoy giving a good bj...my main problem at the moment is that my SO is rather, erm, well-endowed...so I'm working up to my former ability to stretch my jaw after a long break away from giving BJs. That prevents me from wanting to do it as often--my jaw just gets too tired too soon.

You've just got to ask. Otherwise you'll never know what her hangup about it is.

My wife has the same problem with her jaw hurting from opening wide so she developed the 'lolly pop' technique to finish it when she starts to get sore. Its not as good for me as a 'full' bj, but it gets the job done and I don't complain

You might never be able to open wide enough without pain (there is a limit to jaw opening that going past is bad, its not something you can stretch beyond) and we have found that experimenting with alternative techniques has helped a lot.

Ustwo · 10-06-2005, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Digilogic

I was wondering what is a good way to convey the message that I really more than anything else like oral sex. She usually goes down on me for a minute in the very beginning but then we move on to sex. Once in a while I would love to just get a blowjob from start to finish. I love returning the favor too.

Just tell her you would really love if she would let you finish with a bj once and promise her you will have sex after (I assume you can go twice). Open communication is KEY to good sex, and always leads to better sex.

Digilogic · 10-06-2005, 01:15 PM

I think she came into the relationship thinking blowjobs were gross. Now its just a matter of making them less gross :-)

PayUp · 10-06-2005, 01:47 PM

Take Andrew Dice Clay"s advice...Put a little superglue around the rim.

Seriously the trade off deal works fairly well. I give my wife a foot massage, she blows me. Were both happy.

zkara · 10-06-2005, 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by onesnowyowl

Hehe...I too enjoy giving a good bj...my main problem at the moment is that my SO is rather, erm, well-endowed...so I'm working up to my former ability to stretch my jaw after a long break away from giving BJs. That prevents me from wanting to do it as often--my jaw just gets too tired too soon.

You've just got to ask. Otherwise you'll never know what her hangup about it is.

Maybe that's her problem? Yea, I agree with the others.. just ask. It IS tiring if the guy is .. big. While I would love to please my guy to no end, I wouldn't want to do it if it gets too tiring.

When I was much younger, I used to think that blowjobs were gross too.. until I met the perfect penis.. er.. guy..i mean guy!!.. who keeps his area well-maintained.. Maintenance is very important, imo.. I've been quite turned off by some who don't. And it was probably my first bad experience that set the idea in my mind that blowjobs were gross.

motdakasha · 10-06-2005, 06:00 PM

(Skipping past posts...)

Have you tried flipping her around and going down on her (i.e. good old fashioned 69) so that she'll go down on you longer ****without getting bored****. (Since you didn't mention anything about you giving her anything while she is doing this, I assume a possibility is sheer boredom.)

Gotta give a little to get a little.

noodle · 10-06-2005, 06:07 PM

Never took much for me.
An unbuttoned pair of pant with the zipper just down a few teeth, thumbs in belt loops, big grin and a raised eyebrow.
He usually ended up flat on his back before he could blink.
I like focusing completely on him, watching his toes curl, listening to him moan.
His problem was when I wanted to complete it.
Some guilt complex or something.

mandy · 10-07-2005, 04:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by yabobo

In the real world a girl that truely loves to give head is difficult to find.
I know I'm going to get jumped by our female members for this,but it's true.
Guys make sure it's really clean and play with some flavored oils too. It might make
a difference. The women I married 23 years ago just wont. She will receive oral and love it
but to "go all the way " hahahahah!
The girl friend I almost married was an everyday sucker! She said she just wanted to take care of her man! Just wasn't the marrying type!

So just be honest with her and don't force the issue..If all else fails use booze!

i beg to differ with you...but if you are right and in the real world a girl who truley loves to give head is hard to find, then i must be one of those girls cos i simply love giving head from start to finish.i love pleasuring my man and especially hearing those moans and groans, and to see the look of satisfaction on his face when im done...well, its one of THE MOST rewarding feelings in the world...and, i just love to do it, period!

trust me, if you're honest enough and if you handle it in the proper manner, it'll be smooth sailing from there.trust me buddy, you dont need booze!

erion · 10-07-2005, 10:39 AM

Honesty is the best.

If I want a blowjob, I just ask. The worst she can say is "no", and sometimes she does. usually I get a nice warm mouth in just the right places.

skier · 10-07-2005, 10:53 AM

lol yabobo you called it.

I think the girls who frequent TFP are more liberal-minded than average, meaning more of em like/love giving blowjobs. I agree with you about "In the real world a girl that truly loves to give head is difficult to find." it's certainly been true for me.

Cimarron29414 · 10-07-2005, 12:39 PM

I would try a few nights with you giving her a massage and some oral. When she finishes, give her a kiss on the cheek and snuggle off to bed. Don't ask for a thing!!! After you do this a couple of times, it will suggest that sex can be one-sided and still good. She will probably want to try it with the roles reversed.

You are 100% responsible for your own sexual happiness. The only way to find it is to talk about it.

hobo · 10-07-2005, 11:22 PM

i also love receiving oral, but would like to get it more often, nice to see i'm not alone

aintyoboyfriend · 10-08-2005, 10:54 AM

It sounds to me like you need to have this conversation outside of the bedroom.

First off, you need to let her know that everything that she does pleases you, so she can be sure that you aren't unsatisfied.

Then you simply need to explain that you want to try something new, and it's something that you have thought about, and want from her.

See how she reacts. Being direct will either get you what you want, or at least get you headed in the direction of finding out why she won't do it longer.

drewpy · 10-10-2005, 09:54 AM

just my humble couple cents ...

Sounds like you two have developed a kind of routine. As you say ...

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Originally Posted by Digilogic

... She usually goes down on me for a minute in the very beginning but then we move on to sex ...

so, perhaps there's a built up expectation that this is the "normal" progession of things - think here "predictable porn"

Try a little something different. One night you stay fully clothed and seduce her. Make it all about her. Bathe her, rubbing, massaging, kisses, feathers, restraints, blindfolds - whatever. That may change it up a bit. Who knows what idea she might come up with ....

HoneyPot · 10-10-2005, 02:27 PM

Just tell her shes really really good at it. Girls have an ego too and its like when we hear compliments or when you really into it... it makes us get hornier... I know if a guy is either vocally/verbally showing me they are enjoying themselves... it mekes me want to do it longer.

duded881 · 10-10-2005, 11:23 PM

[/B][/I]I think you're right about flipping her over. But I think you should tell her that you want her to cum all over your face and then see how she reacts to wanting to see and smell the aroma of her own cum. It has been my experience that once a woman shares her body fluids with her partner, she is eager to go further and" go for what she knows" about oral sex and relaxing inhibitions about (some would say) kinky sex .... It makes communication easier about a subject that has historically been labeled a "Taboo" subject among new lovers and old lovers alike. If it feels good .... do it ... principle applies here. Seeing and feeling your partner have an orgasm usually drops all the barriers when it comes to asking/telling your partner what you want. No inhibitions to overcome, perhaps.

Sage · 10-11-2005, 07:05 AM

I have only heard one thing about making sure you're trimmed- make sure you're trimmed! There's nothing worse then going down on a guy and coming back with teethful of pubes. Start in the shower- lather up everything down there with some unscented, mild soap (I say unscented because if your pubes smell like Irish Spring I really don't want to get my face all up ons). After you've thoroughly washed everything, towel dry and then use a small pair of scissors or your beard trimmer to maintain your bushy... well, bush. If you're *really* adventurous, try shaving (tho the stubble is a pain to deal with after) or waxing- I LOVELOVELOVE giving Martel head when he's all smooth (and I love giving head no matter what!).

Also, talk to your woman. This might be a good oppurtunity to communicate with her about what you both want in sex- I know Martel and I have "sex talk" about once every two weeks- just to get feedback on how we're liking it and what we want to change, if anything. Let her know that it's just something that feels good for you, and you'd like to explore other ways of being intimate other than just having sex (I mean, handjobs before work, you going down on her as soon as she gets home, long massages followed by long mutual masterbation sessions, that sort of thing.). Good luck

Digilogic · 10-16-2005, 02:18 AM

An update! She apparently got the message because lately I have been getting more head. This is good, although it has always been after we already had sex once, like as round 2. Plus she obviously doesn't like my cum in her mouth even though she says she wants to do it since it is pleasurable to me. I guess I am ok with that. One other part is that she will not let me go down on her. She just says she is not comfortable with it, to which I replied that I didn't need to do it if it wasn't good for her... Sex is tricky :-)

motdakasha · 10-16-2005, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Digilogic

One other part is that she will not let me go down on her. She just says she is not comfortable with it, to which I replied that I didn't need to do it if it wasn't good for her...

You might try to figure out what things she can receive that she is comfortable with... to even things out. Or, if you're both willing, try to figure out what exactly it is that she's not comfortable with or what it is she doesn't like so that she can learn to enjoy it.

bparker805 · 10-16-2005, 02:09 PM

Well, I just walked up to my girlfriend and asked her if she would suck my c@#k until i blew by load. She said yes. So I say give that one a try!

Borla · 10-16-2005, 02:37 PM

I must also be blessed with a woman who sincerely likes it. It is very rare that I hint at it that she doesn't do it, and it's quite often that she initiates it. I agree with those that said to handle it by talking to her directly. I find the best way to add something new in the bedroom is to, after some especially good sex, compliment her specifically on what she just did to knock your socks off. Tell her how awesome it was. Then say "you know what else I'd love........if you were ever willing........." and tell her.

Mherlee · 10-17-2005, 02:26 PM

Congrats on receiving more! Now figure out a way to reciprocate or it will never last. If she doesn't like oral it may be because of previous experiences or just doesn't work well for her. I find mouth and fingers working in harmony gets the job done.

Mr_Tickles · 10-23-2005, 04:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Digilogic

Well, she usually says things like "I want you inside me." So I don't really know if she really is just that excited or if its a way to avoid head. .

I know that feeling -- it's a real put-off...

10-05-2005, 11:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
Digilogic Crazy Location: Raleigh, NC	Blowjob please? I was wondering what is a good way to convey the message that I really more than anything else like oral sex. She usually goes down on me for a minute in the very beginning but then we move on to sex. Once in a while I would love to just get a blowjob from start to finish. I love returning the favor too. __________________ "Good artists copy, great artists steal." - Pablo Picasso

10-05-2005, 11:41 PM	#2 (permalink)
PredeconInferno Reclusiarch Location: Unfortunately Houston, TX	If there's a delicate way to ask for this, then it's news to me. If it's someone that really loves/trusts you, I would say just say it. Generally speaking, I would refrain from using such "colorful" phrasiology.... unless she's into that... In any case, I would say just tell her how you feel about it. I don't know her, though... so I could be way off the mark here. __________________ Samurai in Training Knowledge is power. Guard it well.

10-06-2005, 02:36 AM	#3 (permalink)
Johnny Pyro Hey Now! Location: Massachusetts (Redneck, white boy town. I hate it here.)	How long have you been with her? I had a similar situation. She was getting me to the point where I was hard enough for sex, which is cool, but other than that, that was it. After three weeks tip toeing around it I asked for a "complete blowjob." She said ok with a not so thrilled look on her face. It was obvious she didn't like to give head. Basically, it was a handjob with a suck here and there. Maybe she doesn't want to. I would just ask. It couldn't hurt. __________________ "From delusion lead me to truth, from darkness lead me to light, from death lead me to eternal life. - Sheriff John Wydell

10-06-2005, 03:25 AM	#4 (permalink)
lukethebandgeek Chicks dig the Saxaphone Location: Nowheresville OH	I use these words exactly. "Will you give me a blowjob?" __________________ Yes, band camp is all it's cracked up to be. So I like Chrono... So what?

10-06-2005, 04:26 AM	#6 (permalink)
yabobo Lust Puppy Location: in your closet and in your head...	In the real world a girl that truely loves to give head is difficult to find. I know I'm going to get jumped by our female members for this,but it's true. Guys make sure it's really clean and play with some flavored oils too. It might make a difference. The women I married 23 years ago just wont. She will receive oral and love it but to "go all the way " hahahahah! The girl friend I almost married was an everyday sucker! She said she just wanted to take care of her man! Just wasn't the marrying type! So just be honest with her and don't force the issue..If all else fails use booze! __________________ Why do they sterilize the needle for lethal injections? Only in America......do we use the word 'politics' to describe the process so well: 'Poli' in Latin meaning 'many' and 'tics' meaning 'bloodsucking creatures'.

10-06-2005, 05:15 AM	#7 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	Just ask... then again, my wife gave me one this morning and I all had to do was wake up... Trust me. Let her know it makes you happy to get blow jobs. If she doesn't like doing them at all she will tell you. __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

10-06-2005, 05:57 AM	#8 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	IF Dave asks (and I say If because Im one of those rare women who truly enjoys it ) he justs...well asks hehehehe __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

10-06-2005, 06:00 AM	#9 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	maybe you can do the trade! so if you girl friend like a back rub, say: "here is the deal! how about if i rub on your back, then you lick on my member? good deal!" this way, every body win!

10-06-2005, 06:28 AM	#11 (permalink)
Glory's Sun Registered User	Just tell her it would be nice to get brains without sex every now and then. Be open and honest.. but you could set the precedent by going down on her till she gets her rocks off first :shrug:

10-06-2005, 06:54 AM	#13 (permalink)
rsl12 On the lam Location: northern va	Tell her how sexy you find what's in her head! __________________ oh baby oh baby, i like gravy.

10-06-2005, 11:41 AM	#14 (permalink)
Powderedmaggot Banned	Simple. If you want her to stay down on you, stay down on her.

10-06-2005, 12:21 PM	#15 (permalink)
Digilogic Crazy Location: Raleigh, NC	Well, she usually says things like "I want you inside me." So I don't really know if she really is just that excited or if its a way to avoid head. We have been together about 4 monthes Pyro. __________________ "Good artists copy, great artists steal." - Pablo Picasso

10-06-2005, 12:26 PM	#16 (permalink)
Glory's Sun Registered User	inside her mouth.. is still inside

10-06-2005, 01:15 PM	#20 (permalink)
Digilogic Crazy Location: Raleigh, NC	I think she came into the relationship thinking blowjobs were gross. Now its just a matter of making them less gross :-) __________________ "Good artists copy, great artists steal." - Pablo Picasso

10-06-2005, 01:47 PM	#21 (permalink)
PayUp DILLIGAF Location: AZ	Take Andrew Dice Clay"s advice...Put a little superglue around the rim. Seriously the trade off deal works fairly well. I give my wife a foot massage, she blows me. Were both happy. __________________ Born to Lose.

10-06-2005, 06:00 PM	#23 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	(Skipping past posts...) Have you tried flipping her around and going down on her (i.e. good old fashioned 69) so that she'll go down on you longer **without getting bored. (Since you didn't mention anything about you giving her anything while she is doing this, I assume a possibility is sheer boredom.) Gotta give a little to get a little. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google** It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

10-07-2005, 10:39 AM	#26 (permalink)
erion Psycho	Honesty is the best. If I want a blowjob, I just ask. The worst she can say is "no", and sometimes she does. usually I get a nice warm mouth in just the right places.

10-07-2005, 10:53 AM	#27 (permalink)
skier Rawr! Location: Edmontania	lol yabobo you called it. I think the girls who frequent TFP are more liberal-minded than average, meaning more of em like/love giving blowjobs. I agree with you about "In the real world a girl that truly loves to give head is difficult to find." it's certainly been true for me. __________________ "Asking a bomb squad if an old bomb is still "real" is not the best thing to do if you want to save it." - denim

10-07-2005, 12:39 PM	#28 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	I would try a few nights with you giving her a massage and some oral. When she finishes, give her a kiss on the cheek and snuggle off to bed. Don't ask for a thing!!! After you do this a couple of times, it will suggest that sex can be one-sided and still good. She will probably want to try it with the roles reversed. You are 100% responsible for your own sexual happiness. The only way to find it is to talk about it. __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."

10-07-2005, 11:22 PM	#29 (permalink)
hobo Archangel of Change	i also love receiving oral, but would like to get it more often, nice to see i'm not alone

10-08-2005, 10:54 AM	#30 (permalink)
aintyoboyfriend Insane Location: Arlington, VA	It sounds to me like you need to have this conversation outside of the bedroom. First off, you need to let her know that everything that she does pleases you, so she can be sure that you aren't unsatisfied. Then you simply need to explain that you want to try something new, and it's something that you have thought about, and want from her. See how she reacts. Being direct will either get you what you want, or at least get you headed in the direction of finding out why she won't do it longer.

10-10-2005, 02:27 PM	#32 (permalink)
HoneyPot Crazy Location: Nunya	Just tell her shes really really good at it. Girls have an ego too and its like when we hear compliments or when you really into it... it makes us get hornier... I know if a guy is either vocally/verbally showing me they are enjoying themselves... it mekes me want to do it longer. __________________ Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.

10-10-2005, 11:23 PM	#33 (permalink)
duded881 Upright	[/B][/I]I think you're right about flipping her over. But I think you should tell her that you want her to cum all over your face and then see how she reacts to wanting to see and smell the aroma of her own cum. It has been my experience that once a woman shares her body fluids with her partner, she is eager to go further and" go for what she knows" about oral sex and relaxing inhibitions about (some would say) kinky sex .... It makes communication easier about a subject that has historically been labeled a "Taboo" subject among new lovers and old lovers alike. If it feels good .... do it ... principle applies here. Seeing and feeling your partner have an orgasm usually drops all the barriers when it comes to asking/telling your partner what you want. No inhibitions to overcome, perhaps.

10-11-2005, 07:05 AM	#34 (permalink)
Sage hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005 Location: North side	I have only heard one thing about making sure you're trimmed- make sure you're trimmed! There's nothing worse then going down on a guy and coming back with teethful of pubes. Start in the shower- lather up everything down there with some unscented, mild soap (I say unscented because if your pubes smell like Irish Spring I really don't want to get my face all up ons). After you've thoroughly washed everything, towel dry and then use a small pair of scissors or your beard trimmer to maintain your bushy... well, bush. If you're really adventurous, try shaving (tho the stubble is a pain to deal with after) or waxing- I LOVELOVELOVE giving Martel head when he's all smooth (and I love giving head no matter what!). Also, talk to your woman. This might be a good oppurtunity to communicate with her about what you both want in sex- I know Martel and I have "sex talk" about once every two weeks- just to get feedback on how we're liking it and what we want to change, if anything. Let her know that it's just something that feels good for you, and you'd like to explore other ways of being intimate other than just having sex (I mean, handjobs before work, you going down on her as soon as she gets home, long massages followed by long mutual masterbation sessions, that sort of thing.). Good luck __________________ Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi

10-16-2005, 02:18 AM	#35 (permalink)
Digilogic Crazy Location: Raleigh, NC	An update! She apparently got the message because lately I have been getting more head. This is good, although it has always been after we already had sex once, like as round 2. Plus she obviously doesn't like my cum in her mouth even though she says she wants to do it since it is pleasurable to me. I guess I am ok with that. One other part is that she will not let me go down on her. She just says she is not comfortable with it, to which I replied that I didn't need to do it if it wasn't good for her... Sex is tricky :-) __________________ "Good artists copy, great artists steal." - Pablo Picasso

10-16-2005, 02:09 PM	#37 (permalink)
bparker805 is KING! Location: On the path to Valhalla.	Well, I just walked up to my girlfriend and asked her if she would suck my c@#k until i blew by load. She said yes. So I say give that one a try!

10-16-2005, 02:37 PM	#38 (permalink)
Borla Junkie	I must also be blessed with a woman who sincerely likes it. It is very rare that I hint at it that she doesn't do it, and it's quite often that she initiates it. I agree with those that said to handle it by talking to her directly. I find the best way to add something new in the bedroom is to, after some especially good sex, compliment her specifically on what she just did to knock your socks off. Tell her how awesome it was. Then say "you know what else I'd love........if you were ever willing........." and tell her. __________________ Coimhéad fearg fhear na foighde!!!!

10-17-2005, 02:26 PM	#39 (permalink)
Mherlee Upright Location: Anaheim, CA	Congrats on receiving more! Now figure out a way to reciprocate or it will never last. If she doesn't like oral it may be because of previous experiences or just doesn't work well for her. I find mouth and fingers working in harmony gets the job done.