It sounds to me like you need to have this conversation outside of the bedroom.
First off, you need to let her know that everything that she does pleases you, so she can be sure that you aren't unsatisfied.
Then you simply need to explain that you want to try something new, and it's something that you have thought about, and want from her.
See how she reacts. Being direct will either get you what you want, or at least get you headed in the direction of finding out why she won't do it longer.
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