just my humble couple cents ...
Sounds like you two have developed a kind of routine. As you say ...
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Originally Posted by Digilogic
... She usually goes down on me for a minute in the very beginning but then we move on to sex ...
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so, perhaps there's a built up expectation that this is the "normal" progession of things - think here "predictable porn"
Try a little something different. One night you stay fully clothed and seduce her. Make it all about her. Bathe her, rubbing, massaging, kisses, feathers, restraints, blindfolds - whatever. That may change it up a bit. Who knows what idea she might come up with ....