eMOTIONal20

I had my ex-boyfriend tell me months later that he faked an orgasm with me one time.

He said something about his stomach starting to hurt really bad, and he was wearing a condom so I guess he just decided it was ok. I don't think it was only one time he did it though...

*shrug* He never gave me an orgasm anyway (and I never faked one). So I didn't really care when he told me he faked one with me... I always just kind of waited for it all to be over anyway. Faking it made it over sooner. With him, the sooner, the better.

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djflish

I have a couple of times, but they were both when I was so drunk I was amazed I got it up at all. With a condom on there's no way she can tell

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barenakedladies

you have to do it doggy style and spit on her back.

ah-hem... thats what i heard

Johnny Pyro

Why would a man want to fake an orgasm? I faked not having one.

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bobillydylan

exactly why on earth would we want to do that, i have had sex without shooting my load but thats because she tired before i did lol

Sugarmouse

not when theyre in your mouth they cant!!!!!


i have heeard of men who have done this...thrown the condom away kwik..or p**sed in her mouth instead cos she wasnt doing a good job!


and to thhe last poster who was that?!!lol

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JoseFlanders

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mrace

in the middle of the night after a hectic day in office its really painful to make her relax.knowing the trick that what make best out of woman makes me successful- at least every time the release and in b2in their moan i pretend to get ejaculated also.while in love put pressure on ur foot while 'men on top' their surrender is rest assured.

bobillydylan

ERMMMM let me think
p**sed in their mouth instead did they really think they would get away with that

Sugarmouse

lol i actually readthat in a mag..they apparently did get away wi it!! alcohol involved i presume!!

and that were me i m guessing!!

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bobillydylan

she must off been shitfaced to not tell the difference!!!!

and yes who else could it be lol!!!

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abaya

Wow, I guess I missed this thread the first time around; I just found it by following a link from a new thread on same topic.

I'm completely in shock over how many guys fake orgasms. I thought it was bad when women faked it... I had no idea that guys did it, too. And so MANY, right here on TFP.

I'm a woman, I have never faked an orgasm, and I highly doubt that my bf ever has. It would be extremely difficult for him to fake all of his bodily contractions and expressions when he cums... and with a condom on, I definitely still feel his cock pulsing out cum. There is just no way to fake that sensation! Plus, he's just plain honest with me. We communicate, and all that jazz. What's the point of lying about stuff like this? If someone's tired or sore, they're tired or sore... it has no reflection on the other person's hotness or sexual ability.

I mean, yeah, if someone can't get off for a several sessions over a series of days, I would start to worry about other issues, but even that kind of discussion is healthier than lying about it. This is just wild news to me, seriously.

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tecoyah

Uh....Why Would We.....heh

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visotech

I've done it a few times when i came to early but kept fucking her, then when she came I pretended I did too (well i did, but just earlyer, so i wasnt lieing when i said "i came, oh yeah")

Scrub0

i haven't been able to get off a few times during sex, but i never faked it...we just finished each other off with the fingers and tounges.

uptown

I had a partner that frequently would be unable to orgasm with me, session after session. He tried faking it after awhile because nothing we tried was working to help him.

I finally just said " enough " the penis doesn't lie and despite his protestations to the contary the guy obviously wasn't physically attracted to me.

poundpuppy34

hmm... i didnt know guys could do that... > good to know though

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raeanna74

So far I'm not aware of a guy faking it with me. I don't believe it's happened for a couple of reasons.

1. I can often feel when they cum. Though some men come with more force than others and the volume varies a lot.

2. When I am finished I usually attempt to get some of the cum out so I don't have it running down my legs or making my panties feel like I peed them later. Consquently if there is nothing there I would wonder.

3. I have been with several men who don't cum, at least the first time that night. Partly because I am usually at parties where these men want to make themselves last longer. They're wanting more than one woman that night and the less often they cum the more likely they are to get more women. Usually we'll get to the point where it's chafing and we'll call it quits with the promise of more later on possibly. Very often we will get together once more that night or the next morning.

I've been with men who COULDN'T cum (This went on for 2 months in the case of one guy). In that situation they were usually under exceptional pschological/emotional stress and were undergoing some major life changes.

I say all this to say - forget faking it. Just say your tired. It's not a big deal for us girls. If it is a big deal for any girl she should learn that it's not her (except for those cases mentioned here where it was the beginning of the end) and unless there's a lot of other things going wrong in the relationship she shouldn't worry.

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Invalid Comfort

Uptown, some men just are not able to ejaculate all the time. I was with a girl for 2 years. I loved her deeply and was immensly attracted to her. There was times where I was worn out, tired, stressed out, what-have-you, that I would not be able to phsycialy orgasm.

When you fixate on the fact that the orgasm never happens, it makes the sex less fun and damages the ego of both parties. The fun is the ride, the actual act of orgasm is for the most part anti-climatic.

It was most likely not you, we have just as many insecuritys about sex as women do. It's more mental than it is physicall, simple stating "the penis doesn't lie" is not true. It lies all the time. It has one purpose, and that's not expressing attraction.

...As for faking an orgasm, I don't think that I ever have. I show my partner the same respect that I would like, and that's honesty. I would be more hurt if she faked an orgasm than gave me the tools to lead her down the road of pleasure. I remember one time with a S/O, after the 4th time or so, it was all about her ride. I didn't want to orgasm, I wanted her to wear out before I did. Heh.

I must admit, it is frustrating sometimes when all you want is that climax, but it never happens! I could see how it would be entirely possible to fake it though. I'm not one to make much noise, so that would work in my favor. If one knows how to control certain muscles, then I can seen how it's all too possible.