Butt plug retension issues - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

kel · 04-15-2005, 06:30 AM

Any advice? A friend is having some trouble not evicting it when she is not paying attention. :-P

Cimarron29414 · 04-15-2005, 08:37 AM

Tell your "friend" to try duct tape. That should work.

Honestly, I have never heard of this issue. The sphincter muscle is elastic, but we can control it's contractions. I would say she needs to pay more attention.

Sage · 04-15-2005, 09:37 AM

interesting thread...

part of the issue with butt plugs is some of them don't have enough of a flare at the end to keep the plug in. Look for butt plugs that look like the stereotypical drawing of a christmas tree- triangle on top, thin "trunk", wide base. the flare of the bottom of the triangle will keep it in place as long as the ratio of triangle flare to "trunk" size is larger rather than smaller. A flared end is crucial so it doesn't get sucked up into places where the sun don't shine. Doesn't make for a fun night at the ER, that's for sure!

Acetylene · 04-15-2005, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414

Tell your "friend" to try duct tape. That should work.

Honestly, I have never heard of this issue. The sphincter muscle is elastic, but we can control it's contractions. I would say she needs to pay more attention.

I already suggested duct tape but we decided it would chafe

I would like to see YOU "pay more attention" while Kel is doing his thing!

Powderedmaggot · 04-15-2005, 02:47 PM

Get an inflatible plug, insert it then inflate to larger than the opening, it can't fall out then.

Astrocloud · 04-16-2005, 08:46 AM

I don't really understand the question but maybe I'm just naive. Do people walk around with these in? I imagine it's pretty embarrassing when you are walking to the local grocer and your buttplug falls out of your dress on isle 3.

McDuffie · 04-16-2005, 09:36 AM

When I was a kid, my parents were in a bowling league and we used to hang out at the bowling alley with them. There was a woman--well, ok she was actually a disease ridden slut from hell--and once when it was her turn to bowl, as she released the ball, her um... what do you call those things? Venus something or other? it's a little miniature vibrator that you put inside, I think it's held in by some kind of harness. Anyway, the harness or whatever broke and this thing went sliding a third of the way down the lane.

It took me YEARS to figure out where that thing fell out of and why everyone made such a big deal about it. I clearly remember the day I figured it out. I was like "Oh" and then I paused a moment and went "OOOOOOOH!!!!!!"

doncalypso · 04-16-2005, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Astrocloud

I don't really understand the question but maybe I'm just naive. Do people walk around with these in? ...I imagine it's pretty embarrassing when you are walking to the local grocer and your buttplug falls out of your dress on isle 3.

SecretMethod70 · 04-16-2005, 05:08 PM

lol I'm pretty sure he means that it's falling out during sexual activities

kramus · 04-16-2005, 05:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Astrocloud

I don't really understand the question but maybe I'm just naive. Do people walk around with these in? I imagine it's pretty embarrassing when you are walking to the local grocer and your buttplug falls out of your dress on isle 3.

"Cleanup, butt plug in aisle three."

If I were grocery shopping I'd hope I'd already picked up the dog food. Or whatever it is in aisle three

skier · 04-16-2005, 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by kramus

"Cleanup, butt plug in aisle three."

Worst.
Job.
Ever.

It's hard to imagine a grosser task for a grocery store clerk than that.

james t kirk · 04-17-2005, 04:09 PM

Get a plug retaining harness for her.

Seriously, I bought one for my then GF and kept it after we broke up for those occasional forays into something a little kinkier.

They look sexy as hell and they work. And right now until April 30, they have free shipping.

http://www.northbound.com/Northbound...=CY4&S=&RegId=

Oh, and Northbound is definitely high quality high end stuff. No cheap crap.

Check out their leather bras for her.

mazagmot · 04-18-2005, 07:21 AM

Leather bras for her, as opposed to Leather bras for him?
More stuff pulled from james t kirk's Northbound Leather

OOOhhh, and if you get one of the inflatable plugs, you might be able to find one that also has a resevoir for warm water... squirt in both ends is great fun for a boy *and* a girl.

Charlatan · 04-18-2005, 08:50 AM

Northbound is a great shop... I used to live around the corner from the bricks and mortar store. In those days you had to enter through the back alley to get to Northbound... the streetside entrance was just leather jackets, coats and things...

Now, however, things have changed so much that it isn't an issue that Northbound is on the streetside. Progress.

james t kirk · 04-18-2005, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Charlatan

Northbound is a great shop... I used to live around the corner from the bricks and mortar store. In those days you had to enter through the back alley to get to Northbound... the streetside entrance was just leather jackets, coats and things...

Now, however, things have changed so much that it isn't an issue that Northbound is on the streetside. Progress.

I remember the old store.

Seems to me that you can still enter from the alley if you so choose.

They have come a long way since they were just a shoe repair store owned by the current owner's father. If the story I heard was true, the old man was getting requests by the local gay community to fabricate leather S and M gear (I guess they figured that if he could sew your shoes, he could sew you a cock and ball harness.)

Soon the old man realized there was WAY more money in S and M then there was fixing smelly old shoes.

And the rest is history.

jillian · 04-23-2005, 03:32 PM

i would suggest a bigger one... i had one that was a lil too small and it would fall out in certain positions.... i just upgraded the size and problem was solved

Biscuit Buns · 04-23-2005, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Astrocloud

I imagine it's pretty embarrassing when you are walking to the local grocer and your buttplug falls out of your dress on isle 3.

BWAHAHAHA! Oh, my God. Oh. my. God.

kel · 04-25-2005, 10:39 AM

Thanks for the ideas. The harness is nice, but the problem is that we want to have intercourse with the butt plug in and that would block access.

Cimarron29414 · 04-25-2005, 11:10 AM

Okay, another question:

Is the purpose of the plug to get things warmed up for anal, or is there pleasure that comes from it being there before/during/after intercourse?

Acetylene · 04-25-2005, 02:21 PM

It helps make intercourse feel better. God only knows how.

Min · 04-25-2005, 02:34 PM

I have found that the muscle will simply do it's job and eject if one wasn't focused on holding it in. Also, if it is during intercourse that it is ejected, the muscle contraction would be the cause. You may have to hold it in.

black94lt1 · 04-26-2005, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414

Okay, another question:

Is the purpose of the plug to get things warmed up for anal, or is there pleasure that comes from it being there before/during/after intercourse?

They are quite pelasurable during intercourse or other activities. For a male, removing it at the point of climax makes the feeling much more intense!

vvveronica · 04-28-2005, 08:15 AM

avoid clean up use citrus of magnesia a few hours before it cleans you out completely and leaves you clean for hours of fun

Mondak · 04-28-2005, 08:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by McDuffie

When I was a kid, my parents were in a bowling league and we used to hang out at the bowling alley with them. There was a woman--well, ok she was actually a disease ridden slut from hell--and once when it was her turn to bowl, as she released the ball, her um... what do you call those things? Venus something or other? it's a little miniature vibrator that you put inside, I think it's held in by some kind of harness. Anyway, the harness or whatever broke and this thing went sliding a third of the way down the lane.

It took me YEARS to figure out where that thing fell out of and why everyone made such a big deal about it. I clearly remember the day I figured it out. I was like "Oh" and then I paused a moment and went "OOOOOOOH!!!!!!"

How no one commented on this is beyond me. That is one of those formative stories that just can't be made up. I can just about see it from your description. I wonder how often incidents like this happen where nothing slides down the lane, but something falls out in the middle of a workday and is caught without anyone noticing.

Acetylene · 04-30-2005, 04:26 PM

OK, so I put my crafty skills to a new, perverted use and made myself a harness out of nylon cable and a fake leather address tag off a duffle bag. It works! BOO-YAH!

asiansrock · 05-02-2005, 09:57 PM

LOL go you Acetylene. Hope it works for you and doesn't chafe... you deviant you.

DUNIYATFP · 05-03-2005, 07:15 PM

I am a straight married male and am curious about butt plugs. Do most males use them in masturbation or during sex? I was looking at this model to give it a try and wanted the forums opinion.

https://www.allero-erotheek.nl/shop/...531652a3add00c

black94lt1 · 05-04-2005, 01:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DUNIYATFP

I am a straight married male and am curious about butt plugs. Do most males use them in masturbation or during sex? I was looking at this model to give it a try and wanted the forums opinion.

https://www.allero-erotheek.nl/shop/...531652a3add00c

As a straight married male also, I use them for masterbation, but have used them during sex in the past.

kel · 05-04-2005, 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Acetylene

OK, so I put my crafty skills to a new, perverted use and made myself a harness out of nylon cable and a fake leather address tag off a duffle bag. It works! BOO-YAH!

BOO-YAH! I think our housemate slammed the door extra hard the first time we tried that out. WOO WOO!

deanprichard · 05-04-2005, 06:11 PM

---edited--

benjaloo · 05-10-2005, 11:42 AM

straight married male here, too. use it often during masturbation, have used it during sex (between my first and second marriages), and that same girlfriend used it to loosen up for anal intercourse. both of us loved the sensation.
I'm guessing that the original poster's GF does need a bigger size as someone else suggested. After you've been using one for a while the sphincter does get stretched and you need something bigger to get the same feeling as well as to keep it from falling out.

04-15-2005, 06:30 AM	#1 (permalink)
kel WARNING: FLAMMABLE Location: Ask Acetylene	Butt plug retension issues Any advice? A friend is having some trouble not evicting it when she is not paying attention. :-P __________________ "It better be funny"

04-15-2005, 08:37 AM	#2 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	Tell your "friend" to try duct tape. That should work. Honestly, I have never heard of this issue. The sphincter muscle is elastic, but we can control it's contractions. I would say she needs to pay more attention. __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."

04-15-2005, 09:37 AM	#3 (permalink)
Sage hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005 Location: North side	interesting thread... part of the issue with butt plugs is some of them don't have enough of a flare at the end to keep the plug in. Look for butt plugs that look like the stereotypical drawing of a christmas tree- triangle on top, thin "trunk", wide base. the flare of the bottom of the triangle will keep it in place as long as the ratio of triangle flare to "trunk" size is larger rather than smaller. A flared end is crucial so it doesn't get sucked up into places where the sun don't shine. Doesn't make for a fun night at the ER, that's for sure! __________________ Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi

04-16-2005, 05:08 PM	#9 (permalink)
SecretMethod70 Human Administrator Location: Chicago	lol I'm pretty sure he means that it's falling out during sexual activities __________________ Le temps détruit tout "Musicians are the carriers and communicators of spirit in the most immediate sense." - Kurt Elling

04-18-2005, 07:21 AM	#13 (permalink)
mazagmot Crazy Location: S. Korea	Leather bras for her, as opposed to Leather bras for him? More stuff pulled from james t kirk's Northbound Leather OOOhhh, and if you get one of the inflatable plugs, you might be able to find one that also has a resevoir for warm water... squirt in both ends is great fun for a boy and a girl. __________________ d^_^b Got my headphones on.

04-15-2005, 02:47 PM	#5 (permalink)
Powderedmaggot Banned	Get an inflatible plug, insert it then inflate to larger than the opening, it can't fall out then.

04-16-2005, 08:46 AM	#6 (permalink)
Astrocloud Apocalypse Nerd	I don't really understand the question but maybe I'm just naive. Do people walk around with these in? I imagine it's pretty embarrassing when you are walking to the local grocer and your buttplug falls out of your dress on isle 3.

04-16-2005, 09:36 AM	#7 (permalink)
McDuffie Tilted Location: McDuffie Co, GA	When I was a kid, my parents were in a bowling league and we used to hang out at the bowling alley with them. There was a woman--well, ok she was actually a disease ridden slut from hell--and once when it was her turn to bowl, as she released the ball, her um... what do you call those things? Venus something or other? it's a little miniature vibrator that you put inside, I think it's held in by some kind of harness. Anyway, the harness or whatever broke and this thing went sliding a third of the way down the lane. It took me YEARS to figure out where that thing fell out of and why everyone made such a big deal about it. I clearly remember the day I figured it out. I was like "Oh" and then I paused a moment and went "OOOOOOOH!!!!!!"

04-17-2005, 04:09 PM	#12 (permalink)
james t kirk Junkie Location: Toronto	Get a plug retaining harness for her. Seriously, I bought one for my then GF and kept it after we broke up for those occasional forays into something a little kinkier. They look sexy as hell and they work. And right now until April 30, they have free shipping. http://www.northbound.com/Northbound...=CY4&S=&RegId= Oh, and Northbound is definitely high quality high end stuff. No cheap crap. Check out their leather bras for her.

04-18-2005, 08:50 AM	#14 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	Northbound is a great shop... I used to live around the corner from the bricks and mortar store. In those days you had to enter through the back alley to get to Northbound... the streetside entrance was just leather jackets, coats and things... Now, however, things have changed so much that it isn't an issue that Northbound is on the streetside. Progress. __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

04-23-2005, 03:32 PM	#16 (permalink)
jillian Crazy Location: indiana	i would suggest a bigger one... i had one that was a lil too small and it would fall out in certain positions.... i just upgraded the size and problem was solved

04-25-2005, 10:39 AM	#18 (permalink)
kel WARNING: FLAMMABLE Location: Ask Acetylene	Thanks for the ideas. The harness is nice, but the problem is that we want to have intercourse with the butt plug in and that would block access. __________________ "It better be funny"

04-25-2005, 11:10 AM	#19 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	Okay, another question: Is the purpose of the plug to get things warmed up for anal, or is there pleasure that comes from it being there before/during/after intercourse? __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."

04-25-2005, 02:21 PM	#20 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	It helps make intercourse feel better. God only knows how. __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.

04-25-2005, 02:34 PM	#21 (permalink)
Min Crazy Location: Louisiana	I have found that the muscle will simply do it's job and eject if one wasn't focused on holding it in. Also, if it is during intercourse that it is ejected, the muscle contraction would be the cause. You may have to hold it in.

04-28-2005, 08:15 AM	#23 (permalink)
vvveronica Upright Location: From Arizona but stuck in Northern California	avoid clean up use citrus of magnesia a few hours before it cleans you out completely and leaves you clean for hours of fun

04-30-2005, 04:26 PM	#25 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	OK, so I put my crafty skills to a new, perverted use and made myself a harness out of nylon cable and a fake leather address tag off a duffle bag. It works! BOO-YAH! __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.

05-02-2005, 09:57 PM	#26 (permalink)
asiansrock Insane Location: Intarweb!	LOL go you Acetylene. Hope it works for you and doesn't chafe... you deviant you.

05-03-2005, 07:15 PM	#27 (permalink)
DUNIYATFP Upright Location: Atlanta, GA	I am a straight married male and am curious about butt plugs. Do most males use them in masturbation or during sex? I was looking at this model to give it a try and wanted the forums opinion. https://www.allero-erotheek.nl/shop/...531652a3add00c

05-04-2005, 06:11 PM	#30 (permalink)
deanprichard Upright Location: so cal is where my mind stays	---edited-- Last edited by deanprichard; 03-30-2006 at 10:44 AM..

05-10-2005, 11:42 AM	#31 (permalink)
benjaloo Upright	straight married male here, too. use it often during masturbation, have used it during sex (between my first and second marriages), and that same girlfriend used it to loosen up for anal intercourse. both of us loved the sensation. I'm guessing that the original poster's GF does need a bigger size as someone else suggested. After you've been using one for a while the sphincter does get stretched and you need something bigger to get the same feeling as well as to keep it from falling out.