04-15-2005, 08:37 AM | #2 (permalink) |
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Tell your "friend" to try duct tape. That should work.
Honestly, I have never heard of this issue. The sphincter muscle is elastic, but we can control it's contractions. I would say she needs to pay more attention.
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04-15-2005, 09:37 AM | #3 (permalink) |
hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005
Location: North side
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interesting thread...
part of the issue with butt plugs is some of them don't have enough of a flare at the end to keep the plug in. Look for butt plugs that look like the stereotypical drawing of a christmas tree- triangle on top, thin "trunk", wide base. the flare of the bottom of the triangle will keep it in place as long as the ratio of triangle flare to "trunk" size is larger rather than smaller. A flared end is crucial so it doesn't get sucked up into places where the sun don't shine. Doesn't make for a fun night at the ER, that's for sure!
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04-15-2005, 12:05 PM | #4 (permalink) | |
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I would like to see YOU "pay more attention" while Kel is doing his thing!
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04-16-2005, 09:36 AM | #7 (permalink) |
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When I was a kid, my parents were in a bowling league and we used to hang out at the bowling alley with them. There was a woman--well, ok she was actually a disease ridden slut from hell--and once when it was her turn to bowl, as she released the ball, her um... what do you call those things? Venus something or other? it's a little miniature vibrator that you put inside, I think it's held in by some kind of harness. Anyway, the harness or whatever broke and this thing went sliding a third of the way down the lane.
It took me YEARS to figure out where that thing fell out of and why everyone made such a big deal about it. I clearly remember the day I figured it out. I was like "Oh" and then I paused a moment and went "OOOOOOOH!!!!!!" |
04-16-2005, 05:05 PM | #8 (permalink) | |
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04-16-2005, 05:18 PM | #10 (permalink) | |
loving the curves
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If I were grocery shopping I'd hope I'd already picked up the dog food. Or whatever it is in aisle three
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04-16-2005, 05:45 PM | #11 (permalink) | |
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Job. Ever. It's hard to imagine a grosser task for a grocery store clerk than that.
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04-17-2005, 04:09 PM | #12 (permalink) |
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Location: Toronto
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Get a plug retaining harness for her.
Seriously, I bought one for my then GF and kept it after we broke up for those occasional forays into something a little kinkier. They look sexy as hell and they work. And right now until April 30, they have free shipping. http://www.northbound.com/Northbound...=CY4&S=&RegId= Oh, and Northbound is definitely high quality high end stuff. No cheap crap. Check out their leather bras for her. |
04-18-2005, 07:21 AM | #13 (permalink) |
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Location: S. Korea
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Leather bras for her, as opposed to Leather bras for him?
More stuff pulled from james t kirk's Northbound Leather OOOhhh, and if you get one of the inflatable plugs, you might be able to find one that also has a resevoir for warm water... squirt in both ends is great fun for a boy *and* a girl.
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04-18-2005, 08:50 AM | #14 (permalink) |
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Northbound is a great shop... I used to live around the corner from the bricks and mortar store. In those days you had to enter through the back alley to get to Northbound... the streetside entrance was just leather jackets, coats and things...
Now, however, things have changed so much that it isn't an issue that Northbound is on the streetside. Progress.
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04-18-2005, 05:57 PM | #15 (permalink) | |
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Seems to me that you can still enter from the alley if you so choose. They have come a long way since they were just a shoe repair store owned by the current owner's father. If the story I heard was true, the old man was getting requests by the local gay community to fabricate leather S and M gear (I guess they figured that if he could sew your shoes, he could sew you a cock and ball harness.) Soon the old man realized there was WAY more money in S and M then there was fixing smelly old shoes. And the rest is history. |
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04-23-2005, 04:09 PM | #17 (permalink) | |
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04-25-2005, 11:10 AM | #19 (permalink) |
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Okay, another question:
Is the purpose of the plug to get things warmed up for anal, or is there pleasure that comes from it being there before/during/after intercourse?
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04-26-2005, 01:32 PM | #22 (permalink) | |
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04-28-2005, 08:50 AM | #24 (permalink) | |
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05-03-2005, 07:15 PM | #27 (permalink) |
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Location: Atlanta, GA
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I am a straight married male and am curious about butt plugs. Do most males use them in masturbation or during sex? I was looking at this model to give it a try and wanted the forums opinion.
https://www.allero-erotheek.nl/shop/...531652a3add00c |
05-04-2005, 01:13 PM | #28 (permalink) | |
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05-04-2005, 04:36 PM | #29 (permalink) | |
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05-10-2005, 11:42 AM | #31 (permalink) |
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straight married male here, too. use it often during masturbation, have used it during sex (between my first and second marriages), and that same girlfriend used it to loosen up for anal intercourse. both of us loved the sensation.
I'm guessing that the original poster's GF does need a bigger size as someone else suggested. After you've been using one for a while the sphincter does get stretched and you need something bigger to get the same feeling as well as to keep it from falling out. |
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