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Old 04-15-2005, 06:30 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Butt plug retension issues

Any advice? A friend is having some trouble not evicting it when she is not paying attention. :-P
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Old 04-15-2005, 08:37 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Tell your "friend" to try duct tape. That should work.

Honestly, I have never heard of this issue. The sphincter muscle is elastic, but we can control it's contractions. I would say she needs to pay more attention.
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Old 04-15-2005, 09:37 AM   #3 (permalink)
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interesting thread...

part of the issue with butt plugs is some of them don't have enough of a flare at the end to keep the plug in. Look for butt plugs that look like the stereotypical drawing of a christmas tree- triangle on top, thin "trunk", wide base. the flare of the bottom of the triangle will keep it in place as long as the ratio of triangle flare to "trunk" size is larger rather than smaller. A flared end is crucial so it doesn't get sucked up into places where the sun don't shine. Doesn't make for a fun night at the ER, that's for sure!
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Old 04-15-2005, 12:05 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Tell your "friend" to try duct tape. That should work.

Honestly, I have never heard of this issue. The sphincter muscle is elastic, but we can control it's contractions. I would say she needs to pay more attention.
I already suggested duct tape but we decided it would chafe

I would like to see YOU "pay more attention" while Kel is doing his thing!
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Old 04-15-2005, 02:47 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Get an inflatible plug, insert it then inflate to larger than the opening, it can't fall out then.
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Old 04-16-2005, 08:46 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I don't really understand the question but maybe I'm just naive. Do people walk around with these in? I imagine it's pretty embarrassing when you are walking to the local grocer and your buttplug falls out of your dress on isle 3.
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Old 04-16-2005, 09:36 AM   #7 (permalink)
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When I was a kid, my parents were in a bowling league and we used to hang out at the bowling alley with them. There was a woman--well, ok she was actually a disease ridden slut from hell--and once when it was her turn to bowl, as she released the ball, her um... what do you call those things? Venus something or other? it's a little miniature vibrator that you put inside, I think it's held in by some kind of harness. Anyway, the harness or whatever broke and this thing went sliding a third of the way down the lane.

It took me YEARS to figure out where that thing fell out of and why everyone made such a big deal about it. I clearly remember the day I figured it out. I was like "Oh" and then I paused a moment and went "OOOOOOOH!!!!!!"
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Old 04-16-2005, 05:05 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I don't really understand the question but maybe I'm just naive. Do people walk around with these in? ...I imagine it's pretty embarrassing when you are walking to the local grocer and your buttplug falls out of your dress on isle 3.

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Old 04-16-2005, 05:08 PM   #9 (permalink)
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lol I'm pretty sure he means that it's falling out during sexual activities
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Old 04-16-2005, 05:18 PM   #10 (permalink)
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I don't really understand the question but maybe I'm just naive. Do people walk around with these in? I imagine it's pretty embarrassing when you are walking to the local grocer and your buttplug falls out of your dress on isle 3.
"Cleanup, butt plug in aisle three."

If I were grocery shopping I'd hope I'd already picked up the dog food. Or whatever it is in aisle three
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Old 04-16-2005, 05:45 PM   #11 (permalink)
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"Cleanup, butt plug in aisle three."
Worst.
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It's hard to imagine a grosser task for a grocery store clerk than that.
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Old 04-17-2005, 04:09 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Get a plug retaining harness for her.

Seriously, I bought one for my then GF and kept it after we broke up for those occasional forays into something a little kinkier.

They look sexy as hell and they work. And right now until April 30, they have free shipping.

http://www.northbound.com/Northbound...=CY4&S=&RegId=

Oh, and Northbound is definitely high quality high end stuff. No cheap crap.

Check out their leather bras for her.
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Old 04-18-2005, 07:21 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Leather bras for her, as opposed to Leather bras for him?
More stuff pulled from james t kirk's Northbound Leather

OOOhhh, and if you get one of the inflatable plugs, you might be able to find one that also has a resevoir for warm water... squirt in both ends is great fun for a boy *and* a girl.
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Old 04-18-2005, 08:50 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Northbound is a great shop... I used to live around the corner from the bricks and mortar store. In those days you had to enter through the back alley to get to Northbound... the streetside entrance was just leather jackets, coats and things...

Now, however, things have changed so much that it isn't an issue that Northbound is on the streetside. Progress.
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Old 04-18-2005, 05:57 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Northbound is a great shop... I used to live around the corner from the bricks and mortar store. In those days you had to enter through the back alley to get to Northbound... the streetside entrance was just leather jackets, coats and things...

Now, however, things have changed so much that it isn't an issue that Northbound is on the streetside. Progress.
I remember the old store.

Seems to me that you can still enter from the alley if you so choose.

They have come a long way since they were just a shoe repair store owned by the current owner's father. If the story I heard was true, the old man was getting requests by the local gay community to fabricate leather S and M gear (I guess they figured that if he could sew your shoes, he could sew you a cock and ball harness.)

Soon the old man realized there was WAY more money in S and M then there was fixing smelly old shoes.

And the rest is history.
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Old 04-23-2005, 03:32 PM   #16 (permalink)
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i would suggest a bigger one... i had one that was a lil too small and it would fall out in certain positions.... i just upgraded the size and problem was solved
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Old 04-23-2005, 04:09 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I imagine it's pretty embarrassing when you are walking to the local grocer and your buttplug falls out of your dress on isle 3.
BWAHAHAHA! Oh, my God. Oh. my. God.
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Old 04-25-2005, 10:39 AM   #18 (permalink)
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Thanks for the ideas. The harness is nice, but the problem is that we want to have intercourse with the butt plug in and that would block access.
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Old 04-25-2005, 11:10 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Okay, another question:

Is the purpose of the plug to get things warmed up for anal, or is there pleasure that comes from it being there before/during/after intercourse?
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Old 04-25-2005, 02:21 PM   #20 (permalink)
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It helps make intercourse feel better. God only knows how.
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Old 04-25-2005, 02:34 PM   #21 (permalink)
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I have found that the muscle will simply do it's job and eject if one wasn't focused on holding it in. Also, if it is during intercourse that it is ejected, the muscle contraction would be the cause. You may have to hold it in.
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Old 04-26-2005, 01:32 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Okay, another question:

Is the purpose of the plug to get things warmed up for anal, or is there pleasure that comes from it being there before/during/after intercourse?
They are quite pelasurable during intercourse or other activities. For a male, removing it at the point of climax makes the feeling much more intense!
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Old 04-28-2005, 08:15 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Old 04-28-2005, 08:50 AM   #24 (permalink)
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When I was a kid, my parents were in a bowling league and we used to hang out at the bowling alley with them. There was a woman--well, ok she was actually a disease ridden slut from hell--and once when it was her turn to bowl, as she released the ball, her um... what do you call those things? Venus something or other? it's a little miniature vibrator that you put inside, I think it's held in by some kind of harness. Anyway, the harness or whatever broke and this thing went sliding a third of the way down the lane.

It took me YEARS to figure out where that thing fell out of and why everyone made such a big deal about it. I clearly remember the day I figured it out. I was like "Oh" and then I paused a moment and went "OOOOOOOH!!!!!!"
How no one commented on this is beyond me. That is one of those formative stories that just can't be made up. I can just about see it from your description. I wonder how often incidents like this happen where nothing slides down the lane, but something falls out in the middle of a workday and is caught without anyone noticing.
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Old 04-30-2005, 04:26 PM   #25 (permalink)
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OK, so I put my crafty skills to a new, perverted use and made myself a harness out of nylon cable and a fake leather address tag off a duffle bag. It works! BOO-YAH!
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Old 05-02-2005, 09:57 PM   #26 (permalink)
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LOL go you Acetylene. Hope it works for you and doesn't chafe... you deviant you.
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Old 05-03-2005, 07:15 PM   #27 (permalink)
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I am a straight married male and am curious about butt plugs. Do most males use them in masturbation or during sex? I was looking at this model to give it a try and wanted the forums opinion.

https://www.allero-erotheek.nl/shop/...531652a3add00c
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Old 05-04-2005, 01:13 PM   #28 (permalink)
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I am a straight married male and am curious about butt plugs. Do most males use them in masturbation or during sex? I was looking at this model to give it a try and wanted the forums opinion.

https://www.allero-erotheek.nl/shop/...531652a3add00c
As a straight married male also, I use them for masterbation, but have used them during sex in the past.
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Old 05-04-2005, 04:36 PM   #29 (permalink)
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OK, so I put my crafty skills to a new, perverted use and made myself a harness out of nylon cable and a fake leather address tag off a duffle bag. It works! BOO-YAH!
BOO-YAH! I think our housemate slammed the door extra hard the first time we tried that out. WOO WOO!
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Old 05-04-2005, 06:11 PM   #30 (permalink)
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Old 05-10-2005, 11:42 AM   #31 (permalink)
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straight married male here, too. use it often during masturbation, have used it during sex (between my first and second marriages), and that same girlfriend used it to loosen up for anal intercourse. both of us loved the sensation.
I'm guessing that the original poster's GF does need a bigger size as someone else suggested. After you've been using one for a while the sphincter does get stretched and you need something bigger to get the same feeling as well as to keep it from falling out.
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