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Cimarron29414 · 03-31-2005, 10:41 PM

My honey is great, she always sleeps on her half of the bed. Problem is, her half is the middle half!!!!

MageB420666 · 03-31-2005, 10:43 PM

I'm currently still living with my parents and my girlfriend is living with hers, but if we could, we would share a bed.

shortynickel · 04-01-2005, 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ratbastid

It sucks being a light sleeper.

my wife is the light sleeper...i have a hard time sleeping period but i have a worse time without cuddling or at least able to feel her warmth.

back in college i was working around 80 hours in a week between 2 jobs...i had like 4 hours to sleep, someone called and i just mumbled crap and fell back to sleep...at least an hour later my wife(then gf) tried calling cause i was suppose to be at work and the line was busy. she found the phone cord wrapped around my neck and it took her a couple of mins to wake me up

absorbentishe · 04-02-2005, 06:10 AM

When I first read this, I though it was asking about your kids!

Okay, I love having someone in bed with me, it's just not the same without. Any time I've been in a hotel alone, I order extra pillows, just to have the feel of someone with me.

SparklingDot · 04-04-2005, 10:43 PM

It has only happened a few times, but I love sharing a bed with my SO. When it isn't possible to stay the night, he'll come over for an hour or two just to snuggle with me in my bed.

Harshaw · 04-04-2005, 11:25 PM

A few years ago, I discovered the joys of sex. That same night I discovered the joy of sharing a bed with someone. Currently my "girlfriend" lives with her other boyfriend. When he goes on vacation, I get to sleep with her. When he comes back she sleeps with him. Normally, he goes away for about a month, then he stays for 2 or 3. She will not stay at my place when he is in town, no matter how much I ask her to. I have a bed, but it just feels to big. I sleep on my couch.

bigdaddy19 · 04-05-2005, 01:25 AM

Harshaw, sounds like you are in a pretty interesting relationship...

For me, everytime we're together for the past twelve years we cuddle up together, even though she usually goes to bed hours before I do. But once I do go to bed, we always snuggle.

BigBen · 04-05-2005, 09:42 AM

When I have partaked in about a dozen beers, my soft palate tends to become very relaxed, thus I snore like a jet engine. I also reek of booze, the breath and the sweat.

In those VERY RARE CIRCUMSTANCES, I do go sleep in the spare room. I used to quietly slip into bed and hear about it in the morning. Now I quietly whisper, "I'm home, and I'm pissed..." to which she replies "Spare room please" if she wants to get a good night sleep or "Come on in" if she wants to cuddle. It is her choice, since I am the one making the disturbance.

Good arrangement, and the result is a lot fewer arguments the next morning. Plus I still tell her I made it home safe and at what time.

/sound of whip
/Ben smiles, knowing what a great relationship really is, and doesn't care what others think

StanT · 04-05-2005, 09:56 AM

Ever since my wife had multiple back surgeries she snores like a chainsaw. I'm a light sleeper. We generally start out the night together, but I will move to a spare bedroom the first time her snoring wakes me.

StephenSa · 04-07-2005, 12:53 PM

I'm a light sleeper and my wife sleeps like a rock. A rock that constantly flails about the bed jolting me into conciousness multiple times a night. I tried sleeping with that woman for a year and after a year of far too little sleep I just couldn't take it. I usually cuddle with her til she drops off then abandon the bed for my pallet. Yes, I said it. My pallet. We don't have space for a spare bed and the couch is too small for me so I made a comfy pallet on the floor out of some foam mattress pads, several comforters, and a sleeping bag. I slept on a futon on the floor for ten years before we were married so I actually find it more comfortable than any bed I've slept on. I don't think she's crazy about the set-up but I've got to get my sleep and until we can afford a Temper-pedic mattress this will have to do.

m0rpheus · 04-08-2005, 07:32 AM

My other answer isnt really that interesting. I work shifts, so when I'm working nights I often sleep in our spare bed so a) I dont disturb her when I go to bed and b) she doesnt disturb me when she wakes up.
Like I said not that interesting.

Janey · 04-08-2005, 07:36 AM

Oh! we can sleep together? I thought that since QE2 & the prince slept in different beds, that by royal decree all married couples had too. No wonder hubby is so upset!

View Poll Results: Do you share your bed with your SO
YES! I couldn't imagine not sleeping without them!	121	59.90%
NO! I join them for sexual rendezvous, but I sleep alone!	3	1.49%
YES! BUT I keep my own bed to sleep in when I want to!	22	10.89%
I don't have anyone to share my bed!	46	22.77%
OTHER! (do tell!)	10	4.95%
Voters: 202. You may not vote on this poll

03-31-2005, 10:41 PM	#41 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	My honey is great, she always sleeps on her half of the bed. Problem is, her half is the middle half!!!! __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."

03-31-2005, 10:43 PM	#42 (permalink)
MageB420666 <Insert wise statement here> Location: Hell if I know	I'm currently still living with my parents and my girlfriend is living with hers, but if we could, we would share a bed. __________________ Apathy: The best outlook this side of I don't give a damn.

04-04-2005, 10:43 PM	#45 (permalink)
SparklingDot Insane	It has only happened a few times, but I love sharing a bed with my SO. When it isn't possible to stay the night, he'll come over for an hour or two just to snuggle with me in my bed. __________________ 17 seconds is all you really need - Smashing Pumpkins

04-04-2005, 11:25 PM	#46 (permalink)
Harshaw Is mad at you. Location: Bored in Sacramento	A few years ago, I discovered the joys of sex. That same night I discovered the joy of sharing a bed with someone. Currently my "girlfriend" lives with her other boyfriend. When he goes on vacation, I get to sleep with her. When he comes back she sleeps with him. Normally, he goes away for about a month, then he stays for 2 or 3. She will not stay at my place when he is in town, no matter how much I ask her to. I have a bed, but it just feels to big. I sleep on my couch. __________________ This too shall pass.

04-02-2005, 06:10 AM	#44 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	When I first read this, I though it was asking about your kids! Okay, I love having someone in bed with me, it's just not the same without. Any time I've been in a hotel alone, I order extra pillows, just to have the feel of someone with me.

04-05-2005, 01:25 AM	#47 (permalink)
bigdaddy19 Upright	Harshaw, sounds like you are in a pretty interesting relationship... For me, everytime we're together for the past twelve years we cuddle up together, even though she usually goes to bed hours before I do. But once I do go to bed, we always snuggle.

04-05-2005, 09:42 AM	#48 (permalink)
BigBen Comedian Location: Use the search button	When I have partaked in about a dozen beers, my soft palate tends to become very relaxed, thus I snore like a jet engine. I also reek of booze, the breath and the sweat. In those VERY RARE CIRCUMSTANCES, I do go sleep in the spare room. I used to quietly slip into bed and hear about it in the morning. Now I quietly whisper, "I'm home, and I'm pissed..." to which she replies "Spare room please" if she wants to get a good night sleep or "Come on in" if she wants to cuddle. It is her choice, since I am the one making the disturbance. Good arrangement, and the result is a lot fewer arguments the next morning. Plus I still tell her I made it home safe and at what time. /sound of whip /Ben smiles, knowing what a great relationship really is, and doesn't care what others think __________________ 3.141592654 Hey, if you are impressed with my memorizing pi to 10 digits, you should see the size of my penis.

04-05-2005, 09:56 AM	#49 (permalink)
StanT © Location: Colorado	Ever since my wife had multiple back surgeries she snores like a chainsaw. I'm a light sleeper. We generally start out the night together, but I will move to a spare bedroom the first time her snoring wakes me.

04-07-2005, 12:53 PM	#50 (permalink)
StephenSa Psycho Location: Dallas, Texas	I'm a light sleeper and my wife sleeps like a rock. A rock that constantly flails about the bed jolting me into conciousness multiple times a night. I tried sleeping with that woman for a year and after a year of far too little sleep I just couldn't take it. I usually cuddle with her til she drops off then abandon the bed for my pallet. Yes, I said it. My pallet. We don't have space for a spare bed and the couch is too small for me so I made a comfy pallet on the floor out of some foam mattress pads, several comforters, and a sleeping bag. I slept on a futon on the floor for ten years before we were married so I actually find it more comfortable than any bed I've slept on. I don't think she's crazy about the set-up but I've got to get my sleep and until we can afford a Temper-pedic mattress this will have to do. __________________ Thousands of Monkeys, all screaming at once. Pulling God's finger.

04-08-2005, 07:32 AM	#51 (permalink)
m0rpheus bad craziness Location: Guelph, Ontario	My other answer isnt really that interesting. I work shifts, so when I'm working nights I often sleep in our spare bed so a) I dont disturb her when I go to bed and b) she doesnt disturb me when she wakes up. Like I said not that interesting. __________________ "it never got weird enough for me." - Hunter S. Thompson

04-08-2005, 07:36 AM	#52 (permalink)
Janey Junkie Location: Toronto	Oh! we can sleep together? I thought that since QE2 & the prince slept in different beds, that by royal decree all married couples had too. No wonder hubby is so upset!