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euphoricdork · 12-18-2004, 01:40 AM

Does this girl really like me? We have been seeing eachother occasionally for 2 months... the first week or so we were together every night, we didnt even really know eachother but shed fall asleep in my arms. i saw her last sunday and it ended with a passionate kiss... she was supposed to go with me to the modest mouse show tonight and it was a huge deal to me and she knew it. said she couldnt get out of work... i called her after the show and she was drunk at her friends apartment... when she was talkin to me she was callin me "dude" and shit. am i tripping or is this just bullshit, me practically loving her and her just thinking of me as another dude friend that for some reason has spent some time in bed with...?

Rlyss · 12-18-2004, 02:24 AM

Mate just give her another chance, see if she explains what happened that night she had to work. You never know, maybe she finished work and then had nothing to do while you were at the show, maybe she just fobbed you off and can't admit it.

Ask her out again and see. If she does this again then no harm done, you haven't been suckered or anything, it just wasn't going to happen. But if tonight was just a once off thing then giving her another chance could mean good things.

euphoricdork · 12-18-2004, 02:40 AM

thanks for the optimistic point of view... its just that i know she doesnt want/need a relationship right now. i have a problem with not knowing what i am waiting for... like if shes for real than wait i will, because she is awesome. but if all this shits in vain and she keeps telling me she likes me just to string me along and use me for fun or to chat about her day to day shit just to have someone there... than count me fucking out... its torture. i dont know why i get myself into such screwed up situations where theres never a clear answer to anything

12-18-2004, 01:40 AM	#1 (permalink)
euphoricdork Upright Location: portland	finding the despair in confusion Does this girl really like me? We have been seeing eachother occasionally for 2 months... the first week or so we were together every night, we didnt even really know eachother but shed fall asleep in my arms. i saw her last sunday and it ended with a passionate kiss... she was supposed to go with me to the modest mouse show tonight and it was a huge deal to me and she knew it. said she couldnt get out of work... i called her after the show and she was drunk at her friends apartment... when she was talkin to me she was callin me "dude" and shit. am i tripping or is this just bullshit, me practically loving her and her just thinking of me as another dude friend that for some reason has spent some time in bed with...?

12-18-2004, 02:24 AM	#2 (permalink)
Rlyss The Pusher Location: Edinburgh	Mate just give her another chance, see if she explains what happened that night she had to work. You never know, maybe she finished work and then had nothing to do while you were at the show, maybe she just fobbed you off and can't admit it. Ask her out again and see. If she does this again then no harm done, you haven't been suckered or anything, it just wasn't going to happen. But if tonight was just a once off thing then giving her another chance could mean good things.

12-18-2004, 02:40 AM	#3 (permalink)
euphoricdork Upright Location: portland	thanks for the optimistic point of view... its just that i know she doesnt want/need a relationship right now. i have a problem with not knowing what i am waiting for... like if shes for real than wait i will, because she is awesome. but if all this shits in vain and she keeps telling me she likes me just to string me along and use me for fun or to chat about her day to day shit just to have someone there... than count me fucking out... its torture. i dont know why i get myself into such screwed up situations where theres never a clear answer to anything