RubenCube

How can I talk my wife into letting me cum on her face? Any tips? I'm hooked on the idea now for some reason, but she is not into it.

CityOfAngels

1) Talk to her.
2) If it ain't her thing, don't make her feel guilty. Some women do it, some don't.
3) Don't beg.

One more thing: I've always found that women are more likely to do stuff like that when you're having sex in a situation that makes them feel "bad" or "naughty," such as in the room next to her parents' room while they're sleeping.

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ThatOnePerson

well, in my opinion, a good way to start is to find something SHE really really likes that you don't normally do. something that drives her bat-shit fuckin-nuts. then, i've found, she will sometimes be a lot more receptive to doing the things you fantasize about. this doesn't always work out the way you plan it, but its a great way to learn more about each others fantasies anyway.

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Penndude

Another good way might be to watch a porn film together...watch her reaction as a woman gets a facial....

theFez

if she isnt into it, let it go.

real life isnt porn.

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bermuDa

just spring it on her when she least suspects it. of course you'll only get one shot at it before the divorce.

in other words, forget it.

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Rinndalir

Ask, that's how I got my wife to do it. I told her it was one of my fantasies and she said she'd give it a try, lo & behold she liked it. Some women do think its gross though, a compromise might work, something she's wanted you to do in exchange.

Squishor

Just watch out about getting it in her eyes - the two times I got semen in my eye, I got conjunctivitis.

avhg1

Don't push too much. That will make sure that it never happens. Don't try to start making deals, like if you do this for me, I'll do such and such for you. You're likely to start a trend that you don't want to keep up. Best way is ask and if she really doesn't want to, drop it.

ThatOnePerson

yeah, let her know its one of your fantasies. she'll remember. then just drop it unless she brings it up. then... see previous entry.

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nottwood

Do you get messy when you eat her out? Next time you dive, make sure you stick your entire face in it. Make sure your face is covered with her juices. Then show her your face and let her know how turned on you are. Jerk-off in front of her.... maybe just a little shot the first time on the neck or chin...before long she will be beggin for all of it.....

KungFuGuy

use the "houdini", or maybe its called the magic trick.

fhqwhgads

Ahhhh.... the David Copperfield. Now that's the way to show your wife that you really care for her... trick her into it!

On a serious note, if this is so important to you, don't you think you could ask her? Do you think she'd get offended if you told her one of your sexual fantasies?

MEAD

I've like it in porn, but I don't think I'd like to do that with my girl. Just seems like a thing in the realm of porn and not real life, plus its messy.

fooster

man, talk to her...be open about it, tell her that you'd like to try it out and ask her if she would consent to it.

if not, let it be, don't push it. like some others mentionned before, life ain't pr0n.

ah, and if she does agree, think about drinking enough pineapplejuice well before (more than a glass), she will thank you for it...

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SilverScooter

hehe, try "the houdini" (look it up on turdwords.com)

in all seriousness, drive her crazy to the point that she's receptive to whatever you may want to do, if you can't get to that point, then give up on it...sorry.

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Grace, Too

I must have no clue about women, even though I'm married to one, because I don't care how much I wanted to cum all over her face, there is no way on earth she would ever let it happen. There is no act I could do that would be equal to her being intentionally cummed. If I told her it was my 'fantasy' she'd laugh in my face, and that would be the only thing going in any ones face. How is it that there are such 'porny' women these days that are cool with that??

avhg1

I think my wife would be okay with it once if that was my fantasy. It's not really so I can't say for sure. I personally don't see why it would even be such a horrible thing. It's not like it's battery acid. You just jump in the shower afterward.

nomorensx

I have never understood whay anyone would want to cum all over a woman's face. In her mouth -- well that's just fine.

StickODynomite

I agree with this statement.

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Dingo2879

This is probably an obvious statement, but a man's desire to cum on a woman's face only began after man saw it done in a porno. This is not a innate sexual impulse. Just a case of monkey see, monkey do.

Rinndalir

But does it really matter where the urge came from? I may not have thought of oral sex, or titty sex, or shaving below the belt had I not seen them in porno at first. Or if I had never been exposed to a Victoria's Secret cataloge I might not have the urge to see my woman in lingire. Etc, etc. Doesn't mean I don't find those things erotic though.

Rinndalir

Every woman is different. It has something to do with how they were raised, strict household or more open, were they taught that sex is dirty or part of life, and so on. And how well those opinions took hold on them. And general well being, self esteem, blah blah blah. There are women who will try anything just to try it, but most do have a limit.

I had an ex who didn't enjoy sex that much, it took alot of work to get her in the mood, and I never asked her to do anything kinky like a facial because she thought things like that were perverted and wrong. My wife enjoys it though, although it probably has more to do with she enjoys the pleasure it brings me than she likes getting a load on her face. She won't do anal sex though, she doesn't like it, and I'm cool with that, I never really liked it much anyway. If she wanted it though I'd probably do it, and maybe grow to like it.

So guess its a combination of, doing things for your partner because it gets them off, and staying in the limit of what you feel comfortable with. I guess with so much exposure to porn and sex in the media, that limit has gone up.

iub

Tell her to close her eyes then just do it without telling her. That would be funny.

KinkyKiwi

wait some women DON'T LET GUYS DO THAT! Damn and I didn't think I had a choice..*shrug* can someone explain to me why this is such a huge thing for a girl to let a guy do?? i mean personally i think its kinda fun ...i mean ..as long as its not in the eyes...

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joeyaz

I've never liked the facial.. tried it once on a girlfriend of mine when I was younger after watching some porn and it just grossed me out even when I'm feeling naughty and see a porn I tend to skip over any type of facial action it just doesn't appeal to me. In fact any type of fluids coming out of me tend to turn me off I don't know maybe I'm weird

YKK

my wife accepts that i cum on her face once in a while.. she's embarrassed by the act though i suppose it gives her a sense of satisfaction having done it.. she's a good girl

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ratbastid

lurkette thinks it's cute that I enjoy it so much. She's not real crazy about it, but she's generally willing.

Man, I love her!

wolfpack0102

my gf wont let me do a facial on here....im writing these tips down!

murph

Two things: Why and How

Why: I thought of the idea before I ever saw it in a porno (I had an overactive imagination for a 15 year old, I guess). At the time I couldn't have given you a "why", it just seemed like it might be really fun to do. Now, almost 20 years later, I can explain that there's a bit of a domination kick in it. The woman you love, the woman you are spending your life with, has just submitted to you 110%. There's a charge in that. The same as there's a charge for her when I submit to her straddling my mouth and her grinding. Both are different than regular oral sex, which is more of a "I'll give you this pleasure" than the "I will take this pleasure" of the facial.

How: Seriously, talk to her. My wife and I have known one another for several years. We've learned a very valuable lesson in the bedroom: talk to one another. Talk about what turns you on. Initally, she didn't want me to cum on her face. I had told her my desire and she said no. I was fine with that. But the next time she was going down on me, we just so happened to be in the position where I was standing and she was kneeling. As I began to cum, she pulled me out of her mouth and let me shoot all over her breasts. I told her how much I loved that she did that and it became a part of our routine. Now, every so often, without my asking, she will tell me to cum on her face.

All I ever did was share my fantasy. It was MONTHS before anything happened with it. So, talk to her and be patient and see what happens.

Strange Famous

I would say City Of Angeles pretty much had it down.

I dont think this is a specific "cum on someone's face" type question. but just more about sex and partnership in general. At the end of the day, if she really doesnt want to do it, its not fair to try and pressure her to. You should just talk about it, tell her why you really wanna, cos most people - if my own limited experience is in any way universal - get off on getting someone off - either she will or she wont. I would try not to make a big deal of it, try to find variations that you can both enjoy, dont pressure her, dont make it a real issue... at the end of the day you could live without it, and she could live with it, its just about everyone being happy.

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Kamikaze1978

Next time you have sex in the shower, try bringing it up. For some reason my wife is much more receptive to "messy" sex when the clean up is easier. And definately don't spring it on her. You run the risk of turning that kinky thing she does every once in a while into that time her husband came in her eye.

I have told my wife knows that sometimes I get some kinky idea into my head, and I just can't let it go until I get to do it. Sometimes it happens right away, sometimes it happens after a while of talking about it, but it usually happens if I mention how much I would enjoy it.

stommie29

Uh the shower, that is an awesome idea, I will have to try that. Thanks.

Lefty04

The most exciting thing about sex is seeing your partner excited. Wait until you're both pretty well rev'ed up, then just tell her you're gonna do it. Say it with passion.

jillian

the first time a gave a blow job he came on my face... from there on out i loved it.... so as far as giving advice on how to talk her into it.... i have no idea... nobody convinced me... i just thought thats what girls did... now guys ask and i gladly accept... much to their delight and or shock

Coppertop

Never done it and don't imagine my girl would like it. But hey, who knows? Maybe at this stage of our relationship she will. She does seem to be one of those "I'll only do freaky things after x number of months have passed" kinda girls.

Justsomeguy

Lots of alcohol. Just remember those 3 little words. My girlfriend hates me to splash water in her face in the damn swimming pool. Shooting my cum in her face would result in her forcing me answer the Men only: What do you think about being pleasured by a woman wearing a strap-on? thread that I am not willing to give!

Ovenall

Did it once. Not the same as in the movies... the woman held there for a moment then asked, eyes shut.."get me a towel..."

Moment broken, I fetched the towel.

losamigos

that is so true, u have to learn to let it go


acceptence is the key to happiness.

lucky my girl is cool with anything i want

Kalnaur

Ok, I just have to ask . . . .

Why pineapple juice?

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