well, in my opinion, a good way to start is to find something SHE really really likes that you don't normally do. something that drives her bat-shit fuckin-nuts. then, i've found, she will sometimes be a lot more receptive to doing the things you fantasize about. this doesn't always work out the way you plan it, but its a great way to learn more about each others fantasies anyway.
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