Next time you have sex in the shower, try bringing it up. For some reason my wife is much more receptive to "messy" sex when the clean up is easier. And definately don't spring it on her. You run the risk of turning that kinky thing she does every once in a while into that time her husband came in her eye.
I have told my wife knows that sometimes I get some kinky idea into my head, and I just can't let it go until I get to do it. Sometimes it happens right away, sometimes it happens after a while of talking about it, but it usually happens if I mention how much I would enjoy it.
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