Fresno_aztec

Im just curious, espcially to hear from the girls. Me and my SO have been together for a few months now and everything has been great. The only thing that i have noticed is that when we have sex she is very quiet. At first i thought it was becuase she was jsut uncomfortable to make noise or didnt wnat to wake anyone up, but as time has gone by we have been alone in my house and still she makes little noise. I know that it isnt a problem of not wanting to have sex, because shes the one that initiates sex the majority of the time so i know that she like having sex its just wierd because shes so quiet that i dont know it shes enjoying it as much as i am. I am not th noisiest person by any stretch but I really loved it when my previous partners really made some noise letting me know that i was doing something or hitting something that made them want more. Just wanted some thoughts from the ladies on why this may be...

cameroncrazy822

During the heat of the moment while you are really going at it, tell her that she's the nastiest whore you've ever banged...she'll make some sound for ya!
Seriously, whatever she feels comfortable doing is o'k. If she is just a bit shy then with time also will come comfort and trust. She'll make some sounds then... if that is in fact her thing.

Untitled

I'm a very noisy person now, but I sure wasn't when we started. I'm just a very quiet person by nature, but when I made a teeny noise once, my SO mentioned that he liked it, so I made an effort to not hold anything back... it apparently has made a pretty big difference :P

So maybe mention to her that you enjoy her noises? I know it's really a turn on for me as well. Just a suggestion...

Averett

Have you asked her about it? I'm a tiny bit vocal. My boyfriend isn't so much. Does that bother me? No. Sometimes I wouldn't mind him being a bit noiser, but we've talked about it and he's just not the yellin type And that's just fine by me.

So basically, some people are vocal, some aren't. Some people start out being quiet to become more vocal. If you talk to her, maybe she'll give you some insight.

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Glory's Sun

communication is necessary..however some people don't like dirty talk or noise during sex. I don't mind it much as long as it isn't over the top. When it gets to be distracting..well I'd rather not have it. I like to talk dirty but if the partner I'm with doesn't then I'll *try* to hold my tongue.

portereight

When we lived in an apartment my wife was lip bitingly quiet. She did get turned on when we could hear the neighbors going at it when we were in bed however.
Since buying a home she has... how to say... become more outspoken

stonegrody

I wouldn't worry about it too much. Some people just aren't noisy. Ask her about it but don't make it a big deal. I do think that telling her that it turns you on to hear her make noises is a good idea. She may be holding back. If she is more comfortable letting go, it may make it better for both of you. Have fun!

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ratbastid

Some people are noisy. Others aren't. It's no biggie.

I grew up in a room right next door to my parents. I learned to have orgasms sliently. I'm starting to loosen up sometimes, but I'm still pretty quiet.

Now, you make a good point--vocalization is one big way she can give you feedback about what she likes and what she doesn't. The absense of a lot of noise just means you have to pay closer attention. Which would make a big difference anyway. So think of it as a gift--you HAVE to pay the sort of attention that you might otherwise let yourself off the hook of.

ShaniFaye

Im so into what we are doing I dont really notice if dave makes noises or not most of the time lol

Im extremely vocal and at climax very loud from what Im told hehe....Its VERY hard for me to be quiet...I can do it if I HAVE to but I dont like being limited that way, to me it takes away from the enjoyment...its like I cant "let go" and have to stay focused on being quiet.

But...all women are different, she might be embarrassed to be noisy

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tehpronking

Used to drive me nuts when my ex-girlfriend would squeak and moan. Dammit, I need a new girlfriend.

Suave

She's just not a screamer. Some people are quiet, some people are loud. I've been told that the way someone reacts when they're excited/scared (ie. on a rollercoaster or something) is how they sound during sex. Take her on a rollercoaster and see if that holds true for her, then report back.

Rinndalir

My wife has the opposite problem, I have to tell her to keep quiet so she doesn't wake the baby, she's definitely a screamer. Of course when we are alone I let her loose because it really turns me on. I normally don't make alot of noise but sometimes I can really get into it with her. Tell her you like it when she makes noise...

Sugar&Spice

Is she worried that people can hear her?? I know when I am having sex with my boyfriend I try to be extra quiet because I don't want others to hear me moaning and such. But when I know that the roommates aren't around I feel that I can be a lot louder.

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StickODynomite

I agree with Sugar&Spice.. If i know there are people near by I'll be quiet, but if not.. I'm kinda loud... depends on how aroused I am too. The more I get into it, the louder I get.

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imkeen

I have a proble keeping my wife quiet too. We've got two kids in the bedroom across the hall from ours and one on the floor below ours. ...get up slowly, close two bedroom doors...resume...

Funny side comment, when our bed was new it didn't squeak, but it seems to have developed one....I wonder how... :-) A whole other issue to worry about. Once our daughter, 6 at the time, came up to us the next morning and told us she could hear us last night. We both just kind of shrugged it off. She's well aware of where babies come from....

superredhead

*hands imkeen a can of wd40* enjoy.

st33lr4t

well how loud are you?....you said your not the nosiest...so if your not loud then why should you expect her to be.

but just ask her...its pretty simple.