10-04-2004, 06:09 AM | #42 (permalink) |
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Location: I think my horns are coming out
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GF did this to me a couple of times, I always wake up.
She hates it when I do that to her though. She's even pissed when she jumps me in my sleep. I' WAS'NT ME! :/
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10-04-2004, 06:22 AM | #43 (permalink) |
Boy am I horny today
Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!
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It's funny to read all the reactions to this. Apperently L P M didn't mind so much. If you all were in the same position, perhaps it wouldn't bother you either, you just don't know. I've played the sleeper creeper with my wife, but I think she pretended to sleep each time. Next morning she'd always ask if I had fun. It's sort of getting away with something that you shouldn't be doing, but do any way.
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10-04-2004, 06:43 AM | #44 (permalink) |
Filling the Void.
Location: California
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Look, everyone who thinks its rape- nwlinkvxd and I are in a relationship in which we KNOW we will end up married. Basically, to me, when I first gave him my virginity, I gave him my consent. Yeah yeah, I know its disrespectful and yaddayadda to some of you, but really, it's fun to wake up and have a good laugh about him being able to pull it off because I snore so loudly/was asleep so deeply.
Anyway, nwlinkvxd is not a bad person, and he knew this would be okay to do to me. |
10-04-2004, 07:55 AM | #46 (permalink) |
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Location: Northern VA
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Before the patch killed my gf's libido, I would constantly be awaken (from naps) with head or her on top of me. It was the best way to wake up.
We don't sleep together every night (maybe once a month) so when I try and get my scrump on when she is asleep, she is usually confused and a bit scared when she feels my fingers rubbing on her since she isn't use to someone being there. What I want to know is, how my performance would be if I remained asleep the whole time. Cause it takes a bit of concentration to last when I'm awake......would I last longer, faster (if that is even possible). |
10-04-2004, 10:18 AM | #47 (permalink) |
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Location: Home.
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My husband loves it when I wake him up like that.
Myself? I've never had the pleasure, but I'd like it try some day *hint,hint. nudge, nudge*
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10-04-2004, 12:38 PM | #48 (permalink) | |
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10-04-2004, 04:53 PM | #49 (permalink) | |
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10-04-2004, 07:06 PM | #50 (permalink) |
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Location: South Carolina
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With my first real GF We had rented a hotel, and while both of us were asleep, she started kissing on me, I woke up and we started making out, next thing I know she is mounting me , only to wake up as she is Orgasming. she still says it was the Best O she ever had.
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10-05-2004, 11:48 AM | #51 (permalink) |
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Location: Native America
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Primal claims to feel me up regularly while I'm asleep, but I've never really known if he was joking or not.
I'm fairly certain that he wouldn't try to have sex with me though. He'd probably be afraid of what I would do to him when I woke up swinging, confused about what's going on. I don't see anything wrong with it other than I would wake up disoriented and panicked. I do see why some might call it rape. I wouldn't look at it that way for my particular situation, but if you're not in a really secure relationship or something then it could definitely be looked at that way. That being said, I think I'll try it the other way around one of these days. I'm sure my husband would love to wake up with me "raping" him.
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10-05-2004, 02:45 PM | #52 (permalink) |
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Location: Wherever I am!
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I've had sex with my wife while I was asleep! She woke me up about half way through it, She was talking to me and not getting a reply, she looked at me and I was all glassy eyed. She said I had been rubbing her and she didn't seem to mind, kind of like she was in a dream too, but when I went further she woke up completely. Luckily we continued while we were both awake, and then both promptly fell back asleep. Kind of wierd, kind of kinky, kind of cool, but very relaxing! ( and it's happened more than once! )
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10-05-2004, 03:07 PM | #53 (permalink) |
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Location: Rich Wannabe Hippie Town
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This is all too weird. To me, it's not real sex unless there's another person actually cooperating. If the other person was actively participating while in their sleep, that's one thing -- they have some idea of the situation, on some level; they're simply in an altered state of consciousness.
But if a woman was just lying there, not participating? How is that more admirable than having sex with someone who's in a coma? |
10-05-2004, 09:21 PM | #54 (permalink) |
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'Lester Burnham', Hell yeah! :-) What a great movie.
I personally think it would be awsome to be woken up with my girlfriend riding me. (well, ex GF) When we slept together at night sometimes I would be awake alot longer than she would be and I'd rub her skin with the back of my fingers, you know, gentle and all, I could (and still cant) get over how soft and amazing the female body is. There's nothing a sexy as a sleeping girl, hair all messed up, goin' commando in a pair of my pajamma pants. ( I only own one pair, printed with Nightmare Before X-mass Characters) Loved wearing those. Anyway, I would just rub her slowly not in a sexual way, just in a facination/apreciation way, she would wake up sometimes and roll over and take my hand and.... partner up with her hand while she masturbated slowly untill she came, then she's kiss me and roll back over and go to sleep. Ah the memories. Miss em..... :-( |
10-07-2004, 03:17 AM | #57 (permalink) |
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Location: Austin, TX
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It's kinda wierd, I've been woken up by ex-girlfriends this way, and I didn't have a problem with it, but I'd be uncomfortable doing it to them. Don't get me wrong, I've played around and fingered girls in their sleep, but to me there is something different about actually having sex. If its cool with your partner, thats fine, but I don't think its something I'd spring unexpectedly.
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10-08-2004, 02:35 AM | #58 (permalink) |
Black Belt in Slacking Off
Location: Portland Or-ah-gun
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When I was dating my ex, I mentioned how it could be cool for her to wake me up by riding me. She responded that I could do that to her if I wanted. One night, I was up and she wasn't so I put on a little lube and, well, it didn't work. Apparently it wasn't enough lube and she was so startled it totally killed any mood that was present. So we just went back to bed and that was that.
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10-08-2004, 02:51 AM | #59 (permalink) |
Casual... Real Casual
Location: Orstraylia
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Well, I think its great!
I do understand if you are a bit miffed, maybe because you didn't get to enjoy it as well, I have never had the opportunity, myself...
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10-08-2004, 11:31 PM | #62 (permalink) | |
Casual... Real Casual
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Now I reckon u should start a new thread spilling all the details on THAT conversation!
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10-09-2004, 12:55 PM | #64 (permalink) |
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well, my girlfriend is a ridiculously sound sleeper, and i, like many others here have done her while she's asleep (she doesnt tend to wake-up if i go slowly). The odd time she does wake up, she notes that she was having a sexual dream and is horny as hell (and we then continue). She doesnt mind in the least that we've done it without her knowledge, and its comforting to know i'm not the only guy who's done this with their partner.
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10-09-2004, 07:41 PM | #65 (permalink) |
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I've woken up on numerous occasions with a girlfriend giving me head.. Never thought of having sex with someone while they were asleep. To me that would seem wrong, but if I woke up with a girl riding me, I don't think I'd complain... I think I'd have a big grin on my face heh...
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11-10-2004, 09:34 AM | #70 (permalink) | |
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11-10-2004, 11:41 AM | #73 (permalink) |
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Location: Seattle
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i always wanted to do something like this, be woken up or do the waking but passed it off as something most wouldnt appreciate. then about 2 days ago, my uh "friend" mentioned that she was kinda dissapointed that i hadnt sexed her up in her sleep
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11-10-2004, 01:48 PM | #74 (permalink) | |
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ummm yeah. that would probably cross a line unless you were into BDSM. The difference is that you would wake her up through pain not pleasure. Plus i've heard from reliable sources that most people don't like being choked.
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11-10-2004, 02:57 PM | #75 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Brisbane
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Wow, I never thought it was possible. My girlfriend has always said that she wouldn't mind, but I can never bring myself to start while I watch her sleep. I usually just give her a nudge until she is just awake and then start. Half awake sex is great
Ive woken up a couple of times to her fondling me and the resulting slow, half awake, relaxed sex was UNBELIEVABLE. |
11-10-2004, 04:13 PM | #76 (permalink) | |
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11-10-2004, 05:23 PM | #77 (permalink) | |
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11-10-2004, 08:00 PM | #78 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Near Sacramento, CA
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I like the comment that if two are sleeping together, it implies consent to fooling around. But if someone feels violated, then that's her/his feelings, and we cannot argue about that. They own their feelings, not anyone else.
But I like fooling around any hour of the night, asleep or not. Mostly so have my SO's over the years. |
11-10-2004, 09:35 PM | #79 (permalink) |
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Hell, sign me up. I'ld love to wake up to my GF on top of me. Dunno about doing it to her though, I like the idea, definitely hot, but I dont know if it's really apropriate, not unless she's given her express permission... I'm not into taking advantage of women, and something like this definitly can swing that way if your not carefull.....
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