greyeyes

Ok guys, would like to say first off that I'm pretty inhebreated and there are two extremely hot girls over at my apt right now. Sad thing is there is four guys over here (one of which is spoken for, has a girlfriend) and we all are fucked up. Now I have been feeling great till just now. I just started feeling really bad suddenly and I dont know why. I really wanted to get some ass (first time in a long time) but now I just dont feel like it. I think I have the 'Curse of the Saints' which I have nominated the name of my 'complex'. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME???? I should be feeling great and wanting to fuck the shit out of all of these girls whom are all hot as hell but I just dont feel up to it. I feel as if this all wrong and I shouldn't be participating in this headonistic act. please post, make fun of me, call me a pussy because I know I'm being one, but please someone relate to this problem because I know I'm not the only one who doese this. Also, what the fuck is wrong with me??? Good question, answers please...

hannukah harry

get your ass back with them girls and get with one!!! you don't feel like it? well then do it for me!!! please, let me live vicariously though you, give me soemthing to think about at the dentists!!!

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jay-g

Just because you dont have sex with every single girl, doesnt make that a bad thing. Dont fight your own feelings. Thats just you and how you are. Maybe for you, you need more substance to have sex, not just the physical aspects. Its all good man. There are plenty more years and opportunities to have sex. Just dont force the issue, or have to convince yourself to do the deed.

Johnny Rotten

I'm of the type that never fucks while wasted. Too much shit can go wrong, like not putting on the condom correctly. Anyone who impregnates a girl after getting shitfaced should be forced to name the child after his drink of choice.

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skysooner

I think this is the competition thing speaking. It is hard to feel you have a chance when there are others around with the same shot. Really this is more about a lack of confidence when inebriated (which has nothing to do with a lack of confidence when sober). Don't worry about it. Have fun. If something happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't.

Mango

2 chicks in your appartment and you are huddled in a dark room by yourself typing on an internet forum. Dude, get a life. Stop being such a GEEK!

Ustwo

Maybe you are not just a typical asshole?

Sex is not everything, and getting laid should not be the most important thing in your life.

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Prince

Well, I dunno what to say about the sex thing. Never had two or more hot chicks in the house that I had any prospects of banging.

On occasion, though, I can be feeling just fine, doing fun stuff or something, and all of a sudden I just feel like shit. Like I'm too much of an asshole to deserve that fun...or something. Out of the clear blue sky. This used to happen to me quite often back in the day, less often now. Seems to happen more likely when I'm drunk. Which, also, is less often nowadays.

I think it might have to do with a not so great self-esteem in my case.

Sorry I can't come up with anything enlightening to say. Try and keep your chin up, mate.

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Martel

I sure misread this the first time and thought you were telling him he needed more beer, hehe...


As to the matter at hand, ignore all these people who are saying you must be a loser if you aren't running around everywhere in life following your cock. Sex means so much more than that (or can), and people who say that kind of crap probably aren't ever going to have a real, fulfilling, functional sexual relationship.

greyeyes

Thanks guys, that night I followed the advice of hannukah harry and got back in the game. I wasn't going to impress or go have massive amounts of sex I was just going back to have as much fun as I could. Then night ended with the girls passing out on the floor (after I gave each ov them the best massage that they have ever had, oh yes I did) and me passing out in my bed (alone, but no big deal). Jay-g what is up with that idea that all guys have to fuck anyone that want it and girls can be the only picky ones (I've been picky before and not given up the dick, whilst being riddiculed for it afterward), it sucks but what you going to do? Tonight the girls will be coming over again, maybe bringing some more friends, but we will see what happens. Oh, and Mango, thanks for reassureing me that I am such a huge Geek.

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tim2shady

seems like timing issue to me, for whatever reason it didn't happen, who cares, but stay in the game no matter what (unless you totally have a "real" problem). life is full of surprises, but you have to be there to find out what might surprise you....besides all that, if the chicks are hot, i would stick around just so i can check 'em out, no score, then i have images in my head and i can score there (in my head) anytime i want.

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Skettios

While this is mean, it's also true.


What the fuck is up with massages? Every sensitive guy has to stop giving massages.

It's like shouting 'I'M SENSITIVE, AND DON"T WANT TO FUCK, BECAUSE I DON"T HAVE ANY SELF CONFIDENCE, BUT DON"T WORRY I"LL RUB YOUR FEET'.

Stop it!

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jay-g

I hope you didnt think i was going against you, or making fun of you. I was commending your actions, and agree with you, because i am the same way.

insidious_machinae

Girls like massages. A lot.

Skettios

So??

Girls LOVE little puppy dog guys, who will give them massages, and never make any kind of emotional or physical demands from them. In essence, when you give a girl a massage, you're agreeing with her, that you're never going to get any.

Go ahead, roll over, just don't be disappointed, if when you're done, they don't scratch your tummy.

I'm just saying, that a passive massage is not the proper way to show interest in a girl. You need to be bolder than that, or you're not going to get any respect. Relationships are all about mutual respect.

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greyeyes

Massageing a girl's feet, I would agree that you aren't going to get any. But massageing a girl while she is laying on the ground and you are strattleing her giving her a massage while she is grinding her groin into your leg hardcore, I believe that is how to get some. Sadly, or not, I didn't get any. Just recently I have found why I didn't get into this croud of females at first: I have never liked the highschool mentality and these girls opitimize that mindset (they are in highschool so of course they would). I realize that I left that type of behaviour a few years ago (though I wasn't a big fan of it during my highschool years either) and now I am glad that I was hesitating especially on a subconsious level (though they are of legal concenting age). So the quest continues I guess...

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