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Old 11-19-2003, 09:45 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Letting them know that "It's Go Time"?

What signals or signs do you give to your lover when you want to have sex? Do you prefer to speak, or do actions speak louder than words in this case?
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Old 11-19-2003, 09:59 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Sometimes playful inside jokes, a certain look, or just "jumpin' him"
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Old 11-19-2003, 10:01 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Letting them know that "It's Go Time"?

I just yell,

BRACE YOURSELF!!!
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Old 11-19-2003, 10:07 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Sometimes playful inside jokes, a certain look, or just "jumpin' him"
Well said.
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Old 11-19-2003, 10:07 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I think to lean over and nibble on her ear, and then whisper something to the effect, "I want you soooo badly."

this usually results in a very enthralled smile or receiving the evil laser beam eyes.

EDIT: this may only work with a SO, but hey, if your sitting with a complete stranger or a general acquaintance maybe you'll luck out!
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Old 11-19-2003, 10:33 PM   #6 (permalink)
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this may only work with a SO, but hey, if your sitting with a complete stranger or a general acquaintance maybe you'll luck out!
You may indeed. I saw a guy walk up to a girl place his hand on the inside of her thigh right where it meets her waist, run his hand slowly down to her ankle, and pronounce "That's all it takes." It was at that point that I started drinking heavily enough to red out.

As for how I announce that I'm in the mood, I told my girlfriend that I am always in the mood, 24/7 for her, and that she need only make the smallest of gestures and I will comply. Which she takes a lot of advantage of. For my part, I sometimes whisper in her ear that I want to make love, and other times I pin her to the floor out of the blue and just start taking her clothes off. It all depends on where your mutual comfort level is at.
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Old 11-20-2003, 06:39 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Old 11-20-2003, 06:44 AM   #8 (permalink)
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A combination of words and actions. We usually do a lot of foreplay even before we hit the bedroom (mainly touching throughout dinner, etc.) that really heats up the mood and then when the time is right one of us suggests we move elsewhere (away from the kids).
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Old 11-20-2003, 09:20 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Geesh most guys dont need much in the way of a signal...
usually it is as simple as a they way i kiss him or maybe it is the way i drop my hand in his pants... heheheheheheh

Most time seriously it is just a few words, but, occasionally a more direct method is necessary. When I unzip his pants there is a clear signal they all get..
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Old 11-20-2003, 01:23 PM   #10 (permalink)
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my stiff member becomes very visible to the eye!

this is the signal that i ready for love tonight!
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Old 11-20-2003, 01:25 PM   #11 (permalink)
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I like to do a powerpoint presentation showing people going out to a nice meal, watching a movie, and then in various stages of undress. Usually by the second slide its "go" time.
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Old 11-20-2003, 02:14 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I like to do a powerpoint presentation showing people going out to a nice meal, watching a movie, and then in various stages of undress. Usually by the second slide its "go" time.
lmao...I gotta remember that one.

Normally, I just jump my SO and forego the formalities....
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Old 11-20-2003, 04:51 PM   #13 (permalink)
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When I want sex, I get into bed naked. That usually gets the point accross. Or, I just go for the sac. Or, I say "Let's go have sex," which is a blatent but less popular method.
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Old 11-20-2003, 06:50 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Or, I say "Let's go have sex," which is a blatent but less popular method.
Less Popular??

Sure would work for me
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Old 11-20-2003, 08:03 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Not necessarily at the same time.
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Old 11-20-2003, 08:45 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I usually dry hump her leg 'til I cum in my pants and then I say, "O.K, it's your turn to get off now."
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Old 11-21-2003, 12:27 AM   #17 (permalink)
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May I recommend not using the following:

Why don't we 68? You can blow me and I'll owe you one.

...A bad idea, and liable to get you severely hurt if she's listening to you.

Personally, I usually will quietly stroll up behind my SO (when I have one), wrap one arm around her waist while I brush the hair away from her neck, and lay gentle, teasing kisses along her most enjoyable areas. By the time I'm up to kiss number 3 or 4, she's usually very aware....and ready for "go time" as well.
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Old 11-24-2003, 04:45 AM   #18 (permalink)
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We worked out a great system of signals, for when we go to bed at night.

I told her, "Honey, if you want to have sex, pull my penis once. If you don't, pull it 100 times."

(ok, that's an old one)
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Old 11-24-2003, 04:54 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Hehe, I just use to grab my gf kiss her like roughly and just rip her clothes off and yeah

it'd happen like 5 times a day, and like 3 times at night (cos it was cold :P)
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Old 11-24-2003, 08:10 AM   #20 (permalink)
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My visits with my SO are few and far between, so when we are together, it's almost a given that there's going to be some lovey-lovey time. Not that its devoid of anticipation. Hard to describe...we just sort of fall into each other and it's go time.

I'm also a pretty frank, vocal person. A couple of times we've been talking about going to do something later that day, and I'll just say, "Yeah, but can we have sex first?" to which he always responds, "Of course!"
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Old 11-24-2003, 08:58 AM   #21 (permalink)
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I will usually start foreplay and if she wants ot continue she will either start moaning or move position so I have better access to her.
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Old 11-24-2003, 02:09 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Quite frequently things start out with us sitting around talking about our day, but I always manage to distract her by attempting to lick her neck (something that always gets her riled up), or something similar - so she'll pounce on me. From there, things are pretty much good to go.
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Old 11-24-2003, 11:19 PM   #23 (permalink)
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I just yell,

BRACE YOURSELF!!!

Very nice.

I prefer the Eddie Izzard approach. I think once you've initiated the "cup of coffee" offense then "sex is on, no?"

That or I leer at her until she slaps me disgustedly or invites me over.
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