What is it with guys and anal? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

Shyla Loral · 10-04-2003, 07:27 PM

Not that I mind it, I enjoy it, actually. But is it the tightness? that it's "forbidden" ? Why do guys like anal so much? Just wondering. I 'd like the point of view of men and women.

TheOne · 10-04-2003, 07:37 PM

For myself its the tightness but that "forbidden" aspect of it also makes it alluring. Just my two cents. =)

WarWagon · 10-04-2003, 08:11 PM

Well put, TheOne. My girlfriend absolutely refuses to do so, though, but thats ok with me.

Johnny Rotten · 10-04-2003, 08:41 PM

I think it's the novelty and the fact that it's "naughty."

Aladdin Sane · 10-04-2003, 08:46 PM

I've only done it with one girl, many years ago. She really got into it, which made it all the better.
Anyway, I think it's so alluring to most guys because its more mysterious than pussy. Most guys have felt a pussy or two on their dick. Many have never felt an anus.
I remember that it was very tight at the entrance, but then it seemed to balloon out like a cavern. A pussy generally feels just as tight at the entrance as at the bottom.
Hope this is helpful.
By the way, Shyla Loral, you said you like it, so what do you like about it? Does it feel particularly good? Can you orgasm from it? Or what?

Prince · 10-04-2003, 09:00 PM

Tightness. Not so much the yummy odors.

toxic515 · 10-04-2003, 09:58 PM

novelty and taboo... that's the fascination. It's just so delightfully nasty!

exiled in time · 10-04-2003, 10:58 PM

It's freakin tight!

bermuDa · 10-04-2003, 11:06 PM

never tried it... i guess i'm open to new things but I find pussies more fascinating... maybe it's cause we've all got assholes! I guess it would be... as toxic put it... delightfully nasty... I'm just not sure about it.

h45e · 10-04-2003, 11:49 PM

I wish my gf got off on it....

rodgerd · 10-05-2003, 02:04 AM

It's a whole different sensation - vaginal intercourse grips the whole penis, but more gently than anal, where as anal is a tighter, localised ring.

There's also a significant psychological element, as you note - it's a more intimate /rarer thing that many women either won't do or will only do under the "right" circumstances.

Wombat · 10-05-2003, 02:50 AM

I think a big reason guys like it is that the girl has got to be pretty damn horny to want their ass fucked.. And, there's nothing sexier than a girl who needs you.

At least that's probably why I like the idea.

10-05-2003, 03:26 AM

A lot of guys like it for the fact that their girl is in pain, and getting pleasure at the same time.

SiN · 10-05-2003, 04:45 AM

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Originally posted by 2thumbsup
A lot of guys like it for the fact that their girl is in pain, and getting pleasure at the same time.

done properly there should be no pain.

perhaps a degree of discomfort, and it's totally up to her to decide where she draws the line with that.

but no, no pain.

10-05-2003, 04:54 AM

Actually, a lot of women say anal the first time hurts a lot. I mean, the size of the hole compared to the size of the cock as usually a big difference.

Aladdin Sane · 10-05-2003, 06:30 AM

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Originally posted by Wombat
I think a big reason guys like it is that the girl has got to be pretty damn horny to want their ass fucked.. And, there's nothing sexier than a girl who needs you.

At least that's probably why I like the idea.

This says it for me, Wombat. I think you're on to something. A horny woman is a desirable woman. THE MOST sexy thing in the world is a woman having an orgasm. Sex without her pleasure and orgasm is empty. I live to experience her orgasm.

IC3 · 10-05-2003, 07:06 AM

I have never tried anal..and probably never will.

Just too many nasty thoughts.

Shyla Loral · 10-05-2003, 08:25 AM

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Originally posted by Aladdin Sane
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By the way, Shyla Loral, you said you like it, so what do you like about it? Does it feel particularly good? Can you orgasm from it? Or what?

It's really tight, and seems to push different buttons than with vaginal intercourse. I can defintely orgasm from it, I call them "assgasms", heh. Some sort of fluid starts to come out of the ass at those times, it's white and thick, don't know what it is.
This isn't something I do often, but it can quite pleasurable. If the ass is played with first, made to feel "at home" (you know, fix it a cup of tea, etc. :P ), use a dildo, go just inside, and then out--a lot, then the ass gets the idea that something is going to be in and out of it a lot.
Does that help?

10-05-2003, 08:30 AM

it can be a lot of fun if she is able to relax and is into it!
the guy has to be patient and know what he is doing as well!
if done while she is playing with her clit it will make for a very intense clitoral orgasm!
i used to date a girl that always wanted me in her ass while she fingered herself cause she could cum faster and it was more intense too!

fuhrerhat · 10-05-2003, 08:43 AM

The idea of having yet another oriface being filled is alluring.

440sixpack · 10-05-2003, 11:26 AM

Personally, I've got no interest in it.

Shyla Loral · 10-05-2003, 04:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by SLIMM
it can be a lot of fun if she is able to relax and is into it!
the guy has to be patient and know what he is doing as well!
if done while she is playing with her clit it will make for a very intense clitoral orgasm!
i used to date a girl that always wanted me in her ass while she fingered herself cause she could cum faster and it was more intense too!

Most certainly! heh :P If he plays with my clit w hile I have a dildo up my ass, I will almost certainly ejaculate.

Harshaw · 10-05-2003, 05:49 PM

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Originally posted by 2thumbsup
the size of the hole compared to the size of the cock as usually a big difference.

I'm sure you just hit the nail on the head. For some guys at least.

Found this on craiglist, thought it was funny

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So many men want to give anal... so few want to receive. And I understand the receiving males much better.. since you guys have a PROSTATE. Women do not. But here is why I, personally, dont like anal sex.

1. I know what comes out of there.
2. Knowing what's in there, I dont' really want to cram it in further.
3. I love my colon and try to take good care of it. Sometimes we go on picnics together.
4. I have a perfectly good hole in the front.
5. Two, if you're nice.
6. Three, if you're really nice, and creative enough.
7. Really, truly, I know what's in there... you really don't want to touch it.
8. Okay, it's not really that exciting. It's more like having a rectal exam at the doctor. Yay. WHOO HOO!
9. My (male)gay friends don't even like it.
10. LUBE? Are you serious? Ass grease is gross enough (you know that stuff that looks like the top layer of beef gravy when it starts to chill?). I don't want your fuckign KY creating more.
11. There are really much better forms of sodomy, in my opinion.
12. Did I mention my other perfectly good and functioning orafices?
13. It's nto really just the thought of your dick in my ass... it's the knowledge that I'm eventually goign to put somethign in my mouth that's been in my ass. Think about it. Ech.
14. Ever heard of a little thing called germs? I try and keep mine there for easy removal.
15. I try too keep all my sex parts shaved in ready to go.. NO WAY am I shaving my asshole.
16. I'm no low-fat, low-sugar, low-carb eatin' vegan. Seriously, what's in there.... it ain't pretty!!

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/bos/16362236.html

sadistic midget · 10-05-2003, 06:09 PM

It intrests me as i am not allowed in there....

Uuudar · 10-05-2003, 06:30 PM

Id say the taboo is up there. But also, that's like going with "why the oral sex" too. It just one more place for a guy to put his penis that has a different sensation than either of those afore mentioned places.

20x6 · 10-05-2003, 08:00 PM

i was watching a show on tv...maybe a video on the internet...but thats beside the point.

what i'm getting at is that this video had a quote in it.

"There's only one way to make sure she doesnt get pregnant johnny" "Anal sex."

for me personally, sex is kinda scary at times...theres alot of risk involved, what happens if i get the broad pregnant goes through my brain every time i have sex.

so to be honest i like anal because i consider it more "worry free gratification."

arcane · 10-05-2003, 08:20 PM

it's good to change things up once in a while. i wouldnt want to do it like all the time, but the naughtiness combined with the fact that you dont get to do it that often makes it supererotic.

rogue49 · 10-05-2003, 08:35 PM

It's just another way to enjoy the beauty of a woman,
and give her pleasure.

If done right, and she is comfortable with it, she will enjoy it.

If she's not comfortable with it, I don't enjoy it.
Selfishness is not a part of the act.

tikki · 10-05-2003, 08:41 PM

No interest whatsoever. I consider that area of the woman's body exit only

Semi-Normal · 10-06-2003, 01:00 AM

Not much interest here either. If a chick wanted me to, I'd do it, though that seems highly unlikely.

Fire · 10-06-2003, 01:08 AM

I have read somewhere that anal can stimulate a girls G- spot and this may be why it can induce orgasms indepently of the clitoris- have met several girls who came from anal w/o clit stim or in addition to clit orgasms.

novacainex · 10-06-2003, 06:50 AM

i think i like it so much beacuse my girl loves it. She likesi tb etter than vaginal sex. It gives her a much more intense orgasm especially if you pay attention to the clit at the same time. Hell i can't complain it all feels good to me.

Regziever · 10-06-2003, 07:10 AM

The tightness and the security it gives, it's not like she can get pregnant that way.. It's those aspects that makes it different from vagina intercourse. Different, not better not worse.
Then it is the fun of doing something rare. Not too many women put up with it and enjoy it.. at least in my experience..

SabrinaFair · 10-06-2003, 09:10 AM

I have yet to explore the "back door" personally.
Although my experimental boyfriend and I had an interesting experience last weekend that involved a rubber glove, a whole lot of Astroglide, and a blindfold. I'll leave the rest to the imagination but let's just say he had a mighty good time. Don't knock it til you've tried it.

Buzz · 10-06-2003, 10:16 AM

Only done it there a couple of times with old girlfriends. Wife is not in to that ;( oh well but it was the thrill of doing some thing bad or forbiden....

forkies · 10-06-2003, 04:32 PM

what is with the disparity of guys that think anal is hot with women, but then turn around and use it to bash gay guys?

Scorpion23 · 10-06-2003, 04:43 PM

My 2bits
First, it is possible to get pregnant from anal if you're not careful. There was a study somewhere that said the risk from leakage is around 8%.
Also, look on p-2-p services for a file called "How to get a girl to have anal sex" it's friggin hilarious.

meff · 10-07-2003, 05:07 AM

Well me and Shyla just started getting into it and I've yet to get it down exactly the best way.. For me it's just very tight and I love doing anything she enjoys, so we're both being open here.. We're finding the best ways to do this, can anyone recommend positions to us?

Thanks

Sparhawk · 10-07-2003, 09:02 AM

I think it's the power trip that gets me going. A woman is Never more submissive than when she's offering her ass.

jbrooks544 · 10-07-2003, 10:03 AM

This guy is NOT into it. Just what I want - a shit covered dick! No thanks, next...

10-04-2003, 07:27 PM	#1 (permalink)
Shyla Loral Crazy Location: Austin	What is it with guys and anal? Not that I mind it, I enjoy it, actually. But is it the tightness? that it's "forbidden" ? Why do guys like anal so much? Just wondering. I 'd like the point of view of men and women. __________________ "Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead" Ben Franklin, Poor Richard's Almanac. Meff r0x

10-04-2003, 07:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
TheOne Upright	For myself its the tightness but that "forbidden" aspect of it also makes it alluring. Just my two cents. =) Last edited by TheOne; 10-05-2003 at 08:11 PM..

10-04-2003, 08:41 PM	#4 (permalink)
Johnny Rotten lost and found Location: Berkeley	I think it's the novelty and the fact that it's "naughty." __________________ "The idea that money doesn't buy you happiness is a lie put about by the rich, to stop the poor from killing them." -- Michael Caine

10-04-2003, 08:46 PM	#5 (permalink)
Aladdin Sane Degenerate Location: San Marvelous	I've only done it with one girl, many years ago. She really got into it, which made it all the better. Anyway, I think it's so alluring to most guys because its more mysterious than pussy. Most guys have felt a pussy or two on their dick. Many have never felt an anus. I remember that it was very tight at the entrance, but then it seemed to balloon out like a cavern. A pussy generally feels just as tight at the entrance as at the bottom. Hope this is helpful. By the way, Shyla Loral, you said you like it, so what do you like about it? Does it feel particularly good? Can you orgasm from it? Or what? __________________ Ceterum censeo Carthaginem esse delendam.

10-04-2003, 09:00 PM	#6 (permalink)
Prince /nɑndəsˈkrɪpt/ Location: LV-426	Tightness. Not so much the yummy odors. __________________ Who is John Galt?

10-04-2003, 08:11 PM	#3 (permalink)
WarWagon Loser	Well put, TheOne. My girlfriend absolutely refuses to do so, though, but thats ok with me.

10-04-2003, 09:58 PM	#7 (permalink)
toxic515 Addict Location: Texas	novelty and taboo... that's the fascination. It's just so delightfully nasty! __________________ Time flies like an arrow, fruit flies like a banana.

10-04-2003, 10:58 PM	#8 (permalink)
exiled in time Upright Location: Washington State	It's freakin tight!

10-04-2003, 11:06 PM	#9 (permalink)
bermuDa don't ignore this--> Location: CA	never tried it... i guess i'm open to new things but I find pussies more fascinating... maybe it's cause we've all got assholes! I guess it would be... as toxic put it... delightfully nasty... I'm just not sure about it. __________________ I am the very model of a moderator gentleman.

10-04-2003, 11:49 PM	#10 (permalink)
h45e Tilted	I wish my gf got off on it....

10-05-2003, 02:04 AM	#11 (permalink)
rodgerd Psycho Location: Wellington, New Zealand	It's a whole different sensation - vaginal intercourse grips the whole penis, but more gently than anal, where as anal is a tighter, localised ring. There's also a significant psychological element, as you note - it's a more intimate /rarer thing that many women either won't do or will only do under the "right" circumstances.

10-05-2003, 02:50 AM	#12 (permalink)
Wombat Crazy	I think a big reason guys like it is that the girl has got to be pretty damn horny to want their ass fucked.. And, there's nothing sexier than a girl who needs you. At least that's probably why I like the idea.

10-05-2003, 03:26 AM	#13 (permalink)
2thumbsup Guest	A lot of guys like it for the fact that their girl is in pain, and getting pleasure at the same time.

10-05-2003, 04:54 AM	#15 (permalink)
2thumbsup Guest	Actually, a lot of women say anal the first time hurts a lot. I mean, the size of the hole compared to the size of the cock as usually a big difference.

10-05-2003, 07:06 AM	#17 (permalink)
IC3 Poison Location: Canada	I have never tried anal..and probably never will. Just too many nasty thoughts. __________________ "To win any battle, you must fight as if you were already dead" -Musashi

10-05-2003, 11:26 AM	#21 (permalink)
440sixpack Lord of All Fevers and Plagues Location: Brockton, MA	Personally, I've got no interest in it. __________________ Be a victor, or be a victim - David Vincent My Toys: 1970 Dodge Challenger R/T 440SIXPACK 2003 Dodge Ram 1500 SLT QuadCab 4x4 5.7L Hemi Magnum

10-05-2003, 08:30 AM	#19 (permalink)
SLIMM Guest	it can be a lot of fun if she is able to relax and is into it! the guy has to be patient and know what he is doing as well! if done while she is playing with her clit it will make for a very intense clitoral orgasm! i used to date a girl that always wanted me in her ass while she fingered herself cause she could cum faster and it was more intense too!

10-05-2003, 08:43 AM	#20 (permalink)
fuhrerhat Tilted	The idea of having yet another oriface being filled is alluring. __________________ Shazbot

10-05-2003, 06:09 PM	#24 (permalink)
sadistic midget Upright	It intrests me as i am not allowed in there....

10-05-2003, 06:30 PM	#25 (permalink)
Uuudar Insane	Id say the taboo is up there. But also, that's like going with "why the oral sex" too. It just one more place for a guy to put his penis that has a different sensation than either of those afore mentioned places.

10-05-2003, 08:00 PM	#26 (permalink)
20x6 Upright	i was watching a show on tv...maybe a video on the internet...but thats beside the point. what i'm getting at is that this video had a quote in it. "There's only one way to make sure she doesnt get pregnant johnny" "Anal sex." for me personally, sex is kinda scary at times...theres alot of risk involved, what happens if i get the broad pregnant goes through my brain every time i have sex. so to be honest i like anal because i consider it more "worry free gratification."

10-05-2003, 08:20 PM	#27 (permalink)
arcane Insane Location: SLC, UT	it's good to change things up once in a while. i wouldnt want to do it like all the time, but the naughtiness combined with the fact that you dont get to do it that often makes it supererotic. __________________ <Arcane> so if you banged 2000 chicks then at least one had a pen0r?

10-05-2003, 08:35 PM	#28 (permalink)
rogue49 Loser	It's just another way to enjoy the beauty of a woman, and give her pleasure. If done right, and she is comfortable with it, she will enjoy it. If she's not comfortable with it, I don't enjoy it. Selfishness is not a part of the act.

10-05-2003, 08:41 PM	#29 (permalink)
tikki Justified Location: West Lafayette, IN	No interest whatsoever. I consider that area of the woman's body exit only __________________ Take notice. Take interest. Take me with you.

10-06-2003, 01:00 AM	#30 (permalink)
Semi-Normal Insane Location: Christchurch, New Zealand	Not much interest here either. If a chick wanted me to, I'd do it, though that seems highly unlikely. __________________ I'm not lazy, I'm "motivationally challenged."

10-06-2003, 01:08 AM	#31 (permalink)
Fire Warrior Smith Location: missouri	I have read somewhere that anal can stimulate a girls G- spot and this may be why it can induce orgasms indepently of the clitoris- have met several girls who came from anal w/o clit stim or in addition to clit orgasms. __________________ Thought the harder, Heart the bolder, Mood the more as our might lessens

10-06-2003, 06:50 AM	#32 (permalink)
novacainex Upright	i think i like it so much beacuse my girl loves it. She likesi tb etter than vaginal sex. It gives her a much more intense orgasm especially if you pay attention to the clit at the same time. Hell i can't complain it all feels good to me.

10-06-2003, 07:10 AM	#33 (permalink)
Regziever Sexy eh? Location: Sweden	The tightness and the security it gives, it's not like she can get pregnant that way.. It's those aspects that makes it different from vagina intercourse. Different, not better not worse. Then it is the fun of doing something rare. Not too many women put up with it and enjoy it.. at least in my experience.. __________________ Life is shit, Death is even worse, So what's the point of killing yourself? /Ignatius Camryn Paladine

10-06-2003, 09:10 AM	#34 (permalink)
SabrinaFair Junkie Location: Louisville, KY	I have yet to explore the "back door" personally. Although my experimental boyfriend and I had an interesting experience last weekend that involved a rubber glove, a whole lot of Astroglide, and a blindfold. I'll leave the rest to the imagination but let's just say he had a mighty good time. Don't knock it til you've tried it. __________________ "With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy." -Desiderata

10-06-2003, 10:16 AM	#35 (permalink)
Buzz Addict Location: Earth	Only done it there a couple of times with old girlfriends. Wife is not in to that ;( oh well but it was the thrill of doing some thing bad or forbiden.... __________________ The Only BEER is a Cold BEER. And a Single Malt will get ya every time.

10-06-2003, 04:32 PM	#36 (permalink)
forkies Tilted	what is with the disparity of guys that think anal is hot with women, but then turn around and use it to bash gay guys?

10-06-2003, 04:43 PM	#37 (permalink)
Scorpion23 Psycho	My 2bits First, it is possible to get pregnant from anal if you're not careful. There was a study somewhere that said the risk from leakage is around 8%. Also, look on p-2-p services for a file called "How to get a girl to have anal sex" it's friggin hilarious. __________________ "Empirically observed covariation is a necessary but not sufficient condition for causality" - Edward Tufte

10-07-2003, 05:07 AM	#38 (permalink)
meff Vanishing, like I do.. Location: Austin, TX	Well me and Shyla just started getting into it and I've yet to get it down exactly the best way.. For me it's just very tight and I love doing anything she enjoys, so we're both being open here.. We're finding the best ways to do this, can anyone recommend positions to us? Thanks __________________ Toy-like people make me boy-like.

10-07-2003, 09:02 AM	#39 (permalink)
Sparhawk Dubya Location: VA	I think it's the power trip that gets me going. A woman is Never more submissive than when she's offering her ass. __________________ "In Iraq, no doubt about it, it's tough. It's hard work. It's incredibly hard. It's - and it's hard work. I understand how hard it is. I get the casualty reports every day. I see on the TV screens how hard it is. But it's necessary work. We're making progress. It is hard work."

10-07-2003, 10:03 AM	#40 (permalink)
jbrooks544 Addict	This guy is NOT into it. Just what I want - a shit covered dick! No thanks, next...