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Others are free to do what they would like, I don't need to classify them. All I know is that I don't have any desire to do anything sexual with another man. Simple as that.

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Sleepyjack

this is the same as labelling what type of music you like. Ie your into metal, rap, alternative, punk and so.
i think tis feasible to say i like music and also just to say i like sex. Albeit very general it works ok i guess.

Labels are for people who can only read the surface of things.

meff

It doesn't matter for me, people are people. Though I have never had an sexual encounter with a guy, I still say I am bi, though I am mutually in marrage with my wife

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Zargix

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soxsfans

I would have to call my self Straight. Never had thoughts or attration to another guy.

bundy

i consider myself straight.
but, like Halx said, some guys pique my interest... i figure its got something to do with perhaps wanting to be like that, not to be with that.

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Litespeed

Wow. All I can say is wow.

All my life I've been surrounded by a culture that simply doesn't know what to do with gays. They're not mean to them, they don't single them out purposefully or tell them to go to hell. They have loved them all the same, but just didn't know what to do with them.

Funny. I always wondered how I should respond when someone confides to me that he/she is gay. I've known that several of my friends were "bi-curious" at least, but they never got me involved.

A couple of my bf's have left me for men, I didn't know how to take that.

My best gf once hinted that she was interested in me, but she stopped that thought mid-sentence.

I just want to say thanks I guess. Thanks for being so open to these points of discussion. Thanks for bearing your souls, for showing me what it all comes down to.

I used to get bummed that guys were leaving me for other guys. I figured I had done something wrong. Now I see that I should just be happy for them that they've found someone special.

Not sure what I'll say to my best gf if she expresses interest in me again, but at least I won't feel so akward.

skippy

The fact is... I like Nikki

Hottie!

meff

My view: People are people, I don't have labels.. but if you wan't to call me something, it'd probably be Bi.

I have fun with both genders and I have nothing against either one, both can make me hot, etc..

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rmarshall

I saw something on the SexTV channel the other day about heterosexual men in gay porn. It seems a lot of male porn stars are moving to gay porn because they can make a lot more money in gay porn. But they all claim to still be heterosexual, not gay.

There was some discussion about whether you really need to be gay to take it up the ass. Most hetero guys prefer to do the fucking. But the money is so great, they'll eventually go both ways.

So, it confirms Halx opinion that it's not the action that makes you gay, it's what goes on in your head.

I had a gay experience when I was quite young. The older boy wanted to compare and see if our dicks were the same. I felt weird and never did it again.

Watching porn without seeing a hard dick is not as much of a turnon for me. I need to see the dick so I can fantasize about me doing the fucking. Lesbian porn is like foreplay. After awhile, the fucking needs to start.

So I guess you could say I appreciate a male body, but I wouldn't want sex with a guy. Perhaps a threesome as long as we're concentrating on the woman.

spudman61

Except for the "I wanna fuck" category!

macmanmike6100

I think you've summed it up pretty well Hal(x). A good question for the thread might be: how many physical engagements have you had with members of the same sex?

toxic515

I'm Try-sexual.... I'll try anything sexual...

Seriously, who cares about a label? It's like Tattoos... The only people who really care if you have one, are those who don't.. Sexually, for the most part, it seems the only ones who care what label you have are those who want to have some reason to dislike, or actively hate someone else. MY sexual partners know my preferences... They're the only one who need to know.

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Lunchbox7

Does it matter what lable you adopt. You have to be true to yourself. If you like men fine. If you like women fine. If you like both fine. Your the one making the choices. Why should you have to justify yourself to anyone. You are who you are. Plain and simple

Charlatan

I'm with World King on this... pleasure is pleasure.

To those who wish to limit their pleasure...it's their choice, but their loss too.

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socalgullsfan

hmm...what if I like women, but I also like Transexuals? Does that make me gay because I like TS/TV?

blackdas

You're only gay if you liked it the next morning

motdakasha

do you like female ts/tvs or male ts/tvs? they do prefer being called a certain gender :P

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Stinky Pee

I prefer fucking humans.

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motdakasha

Are you implying that TS/TVs aren't human? I hope that's a joke and not serious because it's not funny.

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Stinky Pee

Oooo, should have read the preceding post. Excuse me whilst I shove my foot down my throat. Just for the record, my post had nothing to do with TS/TVs. In fact, it took me about 8-10 seconds to figure out what the acronym meant.

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socalgullsfan

my gf is 'female' 24/7

alkaloid

This thread reminds me of an editorial piece I read a while ago:

http://www.theonion.com/onion3604/why_do_all_these.html

mattevil

personally i think label making is something that only you can choose. When you get down to it it's just how your wired right? That said I don't think people should focus on this that much since it takes years(sometimes lifetimes) to figure out who you are.

prince_albert

I am streight but I have done some things that gay guys also do.

motdakasha

Some gay men have had sex with women. Does this mean if a guy has sex with a woman he's automatically homosexual? Just because gay men do it, doesn't make you gay.

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analog

I really hate the use of the labels. I love it when people do what makes them feel good, whatever it may be, with whomever it happens to be. The main problem is that when you assign a label, people like to pigeon-hole you to it. If you call yourself "gay", but make a pass at a girl, someone says, "aren't you gay?" That's ridiculous. If you call yourself "straight", and you make a comment about some guy's muscles or something, you're called gay.

Additionally, what the fuck is "bi" anyway when it can mean so many things? I have seen bisexual people of all different scenarios, and it confuses me to use a label when it can mean so many things. It could mean you have sex with either sex, and will only have a relationship with the opposite sex, or will have sex with either and only be in a relationship with same sex. How can you apply labels to such a broad range of possibilities?

Do what (who) you like.

For my part, I like girls. Nothing gets it goin but girls. I have never found myself attracted to a guy, but I find it awesome that others can be aroused by both sexes.

ismark

I agree

I like sex...any sex

My choice of life partner is my wife and I choose not to express my other interests.....

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motdakasha

Just as long as it isn't a paraphilia.

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