Wow. All I can say is wow.
All my life I've been surrounded by a culture that simply doesn't know what to do with gays. They're not mean to them, they don't single them out purposefully or tell them to go to hell. They have loved them all the same, but just didn't know what to do with them.
Funny. I always wondered how I should respond when someone confides to me that he/she is gay. I've known that several of my friends were "bi-curious" at least, but they never got me involved.
A couple of my bf's have left me for men, I didn't know how to take that.
My best gf once hinted that she was interested in me, but she stopped that thought mid-sentence.
I just want to say thanks I guess. Thanks for being so open to these points of discussion. Thanks for bearing your souls, for showing me what it all comes down to.
I used to get bummed that guys were leaving me for other guys. I figured I had done something wrong. Now I see that I should just be happy for them that they've found someone special.
Not sure what I'll say to my best gf if she expresses interest in me again, but at least I won't feel so akward.
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