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I really hate the use of the labels. I love it when people do what makes them feel good, whatever it may be, with whomever it happens to be. The main problem is that when you assign a label, people like to pigeon-hole you to it. If you call yourself "gay", but make a pass at a girl, someone says, "aren't you gay?" That's ridiculous. If you call yourself "straight", and you make a comment about some guy's muscles or something, you're called gay.
Additionally, what the fuck is "bi" anyway when it can mean so many things? I have seen bisexual people of all different scenarios, and it confuses me to use a label when it can mean so many things. It could mean you have sex with either sex, and will only have a relationship with the opposite sex, or will have sex with either and only be in a relationship with same sex. How can you apply labels to such a broad range of possibilities?
Do what (who) you like.
For my part, I like girls. Nothing gets it goin but girls. I have never found myself attracted to a guy, but I find it awesome that others can be aroused by both sexes.
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