02-23-2009, 10:17 AM | #1 (permalink) | |
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Hot Sex: How To Do It
This is an article from Tracey Cox My wife and I have a few of her books and I have to say that she's honest and open and her books are quite easy and fun to read.. (not to mention the hot photos)
So here's a little teaser article that she wrote.. Quote:
So do you view sex as a adventure or are you more a "as long as I get mine I'm happy" type of person? Has anybody tried all of these? None of these? Thinking about it? My wife and I have pretty much tried all of these and enjoy the whole experience of sexual fun. Sure there's room for a quickie now and then, but it's much more fun when we have the time to play and explore each other. It makes the ending much more enjoyable and keeps things fresh and fun. thoughts? ideas? stories? share them here If you aren't comfortable, don't forget you can post anonymously. Just remember all the same rules apply even if you are posting anonymously! |
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02-23-2009, 10:30 AM | #2 (permalink) |
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Location: Oregon
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We mix it up. Sometimes we take our time and play and tease, sometimes we don't have time for that and just go for it. I get off pretty easily, so quickies can be just as good as taking it slow. Sometimes we just masturbate together. It really depends on our mood, when we get to bed or what time of day it is, and where I am in my cycle. I would say we typically have hot sex.
But I will have to take some of these suggestions and play with them; unfortunately my SO is incredibly ticklish in some very inconvenient places.
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02-23-2009, 11:09 AM | #3 (permalink) |
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I certainly dont feel like as long as I "get mine" then thats all I want.
Obviously Im not gonna start talking about techniques in a public forum.
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02-23-2009, 04:48 PM | #8 (permalink) | |
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Location: Oregon
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I'll have to remember this when we start frisbee practices.
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02-23-2009, 07:14 PM | #13 (permalink) | |
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Location: Oregon
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I like it rough. Bruises are part of the deal.
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02-23-2009, 08:26 PM | #15 (permalink) |
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Hahahaha... you just scared me, NG.
... Yeah, I don't think any woman wants to put her oh-so-sacred mouth anywhere near my scragglefunkin' paratrooper feet. ... I get the distinct feeling that a lot of the "70 HOT NEW WAYS TO TEASE YOUR MAN" listed on the front of girly magazines like Cosmo... ugh, it just rehashes of the same stuff that real women don't do to their guys because real guys really don't like it. Something tells me* that actual manly desires like "road head" and "anal" aren't listed in there. The feathers and chocolate syrup and bondage ribbons and ice cubes have been done and America is moving onto candle wax and nipple clamps. Touch it, see it, touch it, feel it... woo! Sex in this country is probably like a cocaine addiction: once you've done it the first time, all the subsequent experiences are never quite enough... but that isn't nearly enough incentive to stop. Stop? Are you insane? Rinse, repeat. . . . * Okay, so I looked. Last edited by Plan9; 02-23-2009 at 08:33 PM.. |
02-24-2009, 08:14 AM | #16 (permalink) |
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This isn't so much a checklist as an idea creator..it helps to get your imagination flowing.. sure we all know that some things just don't work for people..for instance.. feet.. no fucking way.
I mean..really who pulls out a book and starts checking things off while they are in the middle of sex? I certainly hope nobody does this. |
02-24-2009, 08:37 AM | #17 (permalink) | |
Kick Ass Kunoichi
Location: Oregon
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02-24-2009, 08:39 AM | #18 (permalink) | |
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right this thread also serves a purpose for people to post their ideas as well as the real life situations they have that may be similar to what was in the article.. or completely different.. as long as it's legal and within site rules it's cool. like I've said before if you aren't comfortable, use the anonymous box |
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02-24-2009, 08:42 AM | #19 (permalink) |
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Location: Large City, Texas.
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I guess that some people, inexperienced and/or unimaginative, can benefit from a list of things to try.
My wife knows that feet & bellybuttons are a turnoff for me.
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02-24-2009, 02:12 PM | #20 (permalink) | |
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02-24-2009, 06:21 PM | #22 (permalink) |
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Location: Arabidopsis-ville
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Kissing. Any level of kissing. Little pecks on my forehead send me whirling.
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02-24-2009, 07:42 PM | #23 (permalink) |
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Story time, chitlins... gather 'round:
Hmm, I think the hot-hot sex animal sex, much like the mythical werewolf, only appears when the atmosphere is just right for it to have maximum impact. For me, it often involves being blindsided by a do-it-to-me look from a sultry partner when I'm distracted with something else. It's like getting ambushed by a flank attack initiated by a pants-piercing lust bazooka. It also requires you're alone or near an area where you can have privacy for doing the deed... not too many couples throw down in public. A good example of this was had at Fort Bragg sometime mid-'05. My platoon had just finished an absolutely awful yet badass field training exercise (cold rain, followed by more cold rain for a week) and we were having a pretty Viking barracks party (beer, grilled meat, someone's car pulled up on the grass blasting music, T-shirts optional) with my then-girlfriend-later-more woman. It doesn't take much for me to get fuzzy, so I was bumping chests and telling tall tales like everybody else after my third Bud Light. Girlfriend was socializing with various half-drunk paratroopers and giving me looks that I couldn't quite decode. This isn't rare... around women, I'm dense like uranium most of the time. The combination of the booze and the music and a bunch of sweaty guys yelling and telling war stories had her fired up like something off the Discovery Channel. At one point I went over and scooped her up (trying to imitate Godzilla) and she leaned over my shoulder and whispered, "I'm going to need you to take me upstairs and fuck me. Right now." Whew. Yeah, and you'd never seen a half-drunk honky push a girl up two flights narrow concrete stairs as fast in your life. By the time we hit the door, I had a leg snaked my waist, my shorts undone, and close to working on a boob with my mouth. Luckily I was Corporal Crompsin by then and had a room to myself. There was no conversation, we were a knot of tongue and hip-thrusts and I'm pretty sure that every North Carolina sodomy law was broken in the first iteration alone. I'd like to thank Equate personal lubricant for providing such smooth sailing. I was made fun of the rest of the week for the screams that emanated from that concrete box. I had scratches on my back and neck like some wildcat had mauled me. It was the kind of sex where you walk funny even after you wake up from your two hour nap. ... That's totally how ya do it. In the words of Sergeant Charles Caudill, that's the standard, dawg. There isn't ever any plan for really hot sex (it's a surprise)... simply the right combination of elements coming together and... KABOOM... spontaneous combustion. Last edited by Plan9; 02-24-2009 at 10:50 PM.. |
02-24-2009, 08:57 PM | #26 (permalink) |
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But I'm your tax dollars at work. Typing up smut on TFP and making it hard to stand up from your rolly chair.
... I think others should follow suit and type up hot-hot sexual war stories. Techniques. Lessons learned. Last edited by Plan9; 02-24-2009 at 09:19 PM.. |
02-24-2009, 10:43 PM | #27 (permalink) |
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For me, it's just cuddling and touching and lots of kissing. Also, spanking. Lots of spanking. Spanking me, that is. A little biting and nibbling, too. I don't want to be attacked, but just knowing he can control how I feel turns me on.
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03-07-2009, 02:12 PM | #32 (permalink) |
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Location: East Texas
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One night me and a former SO were skinny dipping in Lake Calhoun in DT Minneapolis in the middle of summer...we'd been dating for only a few weeks at the moment... nothing like the feel of warm summer lake water against naked skin at night....oops my hand accidentally brushed here and caressed there...anyway we ended up swimming up to one of those anchored yacht sailboats that people leave in the water all summer...all aboard! I got in over the side, let the ladder down, opened up the cabin...she led me down the stairs and pulled me onto the table....mmm ...and what do you know, the owner had stashed a bottle of crown aboard...of course we didn't find that for awhile... few sessions, a few hours, a nap or two later and an exhausted pair of naked swimmers were ready to go find our clothes. Nothing like being nude and swimming, surprising touches, caresses, games, etc for hours before ...the need was strong....what a night
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