wisj2

None of the choices in the poll fit me so I have not placed a vote there.

While in college an older male (I was a freshman at 18 and he was a graduate student who had been a teacher of mine in high school) seduced me one night when I was drunk, lubed up his ass and did me while he jerked off. I didn't touch him, I didn't even move, but I let him have his way with me. While I did enjoy it, the next morning in the dorm cafeteria line for breakfast I told him once was enough for me. My one and only same sex episode in my life. That was 40 years ago, not likely to happen now.

That same former teacher of mine married a female gym teacher about a year later, I have always wondered how that worked out! LOL

I was married twice in later years. While I kind of dabbled with anal with both of them, it just didn't seem right and we never completed "the act" if you know what I mean. Those two wives were when I was between 19 and 31.

When I was 33 I hooked up with an old female friend who was very heavy into anal. At first I obliged her, it was good a few times, but after a time I got tired of getting up to wash the shit off of my dick. We kind of dated off and on for about 15 years, the last time she asked me to fuck her in the ass, I had to decline.

Oh, one side note...

That single espisode way back in 1966 now precludes me from giving blood. Might have AIDS? I don't think so!

I gave a lot of blood during the Viet Nam thing that we dare not call a war. I'm sorry I can't still give more.

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Sticky

You turned what I said around in a way I did not say.

I said that I feel that when a woman wants anal sex it shows me she is really into sex.
I did not say that a woman who does not want anal sex shows me that she is not into anal sex.

Do you see what I mean about turning around what I said into something I did not say?

There are plenty of other ways to that show that you really love sex but this thread is talking about anal sex.

I agree you should not judge a woman's sexual desire by the acts she will not perform.
But the ones she will perform?

Actually what I said was really referring to how I (in my head) imagine a woman's sexual desire to be should she be the one asking for anal sex.

As I mentioned sex is a head game. What I believe or imagine makes sex better or worse.

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Aladdin Sane

Yes, my situation exactly.

On another note, the only time I tried it I ended up getting mud on my helmut, which was a big turn off. My girl absolutely loved it, but she didn't see the poop on my scoop. Anyone else had this unfortunate experience? How can it be avoided?

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abaya

Well, sorry to be frank, but it's an asshole. Shit comes out of it. Shit is stored up inside it. I see no solutions other than for you to wear a condom (which I ask my husband to do anyway), or ask your girl to take a dump and/or give her an enema beforehand. Even then, though, shit still happens. Comes with the territory.

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Jim Kata

A dump and then an enema are probably your best bet in my experience....but like it has been said...it sometimes can still leave a little poop on your rod.

xepherys

I agree with that. I've been told no more than once. Eventually I was told "hell no" and left it at that. Though recently it's been brought to my attention that I may be graced with such a gift. We shall see...

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tinydancer

I'm a woman... and i chose "into it from time to time"...because well, I am! It's not like my bf and I do it all the time, but every once in awhile we get a wild hair up our ass...HA!... and go for it. I've never found it enjoyable in any other relationship other than my current one... and that's probably due to the fact that in all previous relationships where we had anal, I'd never used lube!!!! Just spit...which works for awhile but dries up pretty quickly. So the lube definitely makes it more enjoyable. Sometimes it feels good...most of the time, I'm touching myself while he is going at it and that helps..... but I think it's more the idea of him really enjoying it that makes me enjoy it. Knowing that he's getting incredibly turned on by my body, makes it alllll worthwhile. Same as getting the ol' boob sex. It doesn't necessarily physically feel good, but it turns me on like nothin else knowing that he's immensely enjoying himself.

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Infinite_Loser

I'm a male and have no desire to try it. I dunno'... But the idea of sticking my dick in her ass just doesn't do anything for me.

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Philangicality

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Kpax

Umm... I voted for the first option, though I'm a virgin. I was surprised to learn that most women find it to be the most unconventional thing. To me, it's less degrading than oral. Now that's shocking. I would never ask a woman to do that for me. That's just my unique self. It just doesn't seem right. A guy should kneel before a woman, not the other way around

ItWasMe

No.

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Sharon

I disagree.

lankrypt0

I agree with your disagreement.

The_Jazz

I agree with the disagreement with the corollary that no one should kneel before someone else in a metaphorical sense. Placing lovers on pedestals means that you don't deal with them as a living breathing person. Kneeling should be saved for blowjobs.

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RenaissanceII

And Cunnilingus, and fingering...

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and the #1 answer...


I AM A MAN AND I LIKE VARIETY~!

loquitur

I was curious about it for a while, then did it and saw it was no big deal and not significantly different from vaginal. I don't think about it much anymore.

Xerxys

Your friend, the dude with the chick who's saving her virginity, let him know I hate him very, vwery much!

sp0e

there is absolutely no waaay.. i have enough fun with "normal" sex, why should i walk on the brown side of life?
i think it's disgusting.. who ever wants to do it, i don't care, but for myself nothing can make me do that ^^

james t kirk

An interesting spread of responses to the poll itself.

1. There are far fewer women responding, however, the numbers are pretty much spread across the possible answers. From this, it probably comes down to luck if you find a woman who is into anal.

2. Only a small percentage of males are turned off by anal, however, there is a more significant number who are in the category of only if she wanted it. I.e. they are not opposed, but would not seek it.

I am actually surprised at the high number of males who responded in the afirmative to this option. I wonder why these men are so wishy washy on the topic? I didn't expect so many to align themselves with this option frankly. I am wondering if those who picked this option are more thinking that they would go for it only if green lighted by the female?

3. The largest percentage of males either actively seek, or from time to time seek it out.

All in all, however, my original assertion to my female friend that most men are into anal sex would seem to hold water. She would more than likely meet a man who would at least request anal sex with her.

GeminiPixie

i'm not going to read everyone else's replies, so excuse me if i'm repeating...

as a female, i started out just putting up w/ it, as long as there was enough lube. ie, A LOT. now, i've come to enjoy it, and the fact that my boyfriend likes it so much makes the slight discomfort that may occur, well worth it.
to answer your question about guys benig into it though, i've come across about a 50/50 match up. just depends on the guy, i guess

abaya

Huh, funny this just came up again... ding, ding!! Just had anal sex and it was great. Big promo for Maximus lube! Does it every time (along with a bottle of wine). Bad weather in Iceland = good weather in the bedroom. My husband definitely likes it, and so do I.

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Terrell

I have no desire to penetrate a woman anally. My position on this is somewhere between:

I am male, have never made it a part of my sex life, but would if she asked.

and

I am male and there is no way I am going in the back door ever.

I did once have a girlfriend who brought up the subject indirectly, but I didn't really want to do that, and didn't with her. I suspect though that with the right approach the right woman may be able to convince me to do so.

Porky Pig

i put my foot down and say no. an anus is an anus, regardless who it belongs to...i don't do it with a man, i don't do it with woman.

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Plan9

A mouth is a mouth, too.

And everybody likes oral.

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True, but there's no feces in a person's mouth. At least not under normal conditions.

mixedmedia

In my current relationship, I was the first person to bring up the subject and at first he didn't think he would be into it. But our talking about it, especially my telling him how I would feel about it, sort of turned things around for him. Now we do it fairly regularly and he loves it. We both do. I agree that much of the attraction (and repulsion) to it is psychological. Although orgasms (for women) while having anal sex are incredibly intense.

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ew.

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match000

I don't really get how women get orgasms having anal.. cuz doesn't it hurt like hell? and that area wasn't really evolved to give any sort of sexual or pleasure feeling, was it?

mixedmedia

No, when I am aroused and well-lubed it is only slightly painful when his penis is first inserted (getting the head past the sphincter)...after that it feels quite pleasurable actually. But it is probably different for many women. Like I said, I think a large part of it is psychological.

And the orgasms come from receiving clitoral stimulation while being anally penetrated.

Writing that last sentence made me horny.

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World's King

Reading it did the same thing to me.

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abaya

Yep... that is exactly what happens for me, too. A little vibe on the front side, cock up the backside... damn, those are effin' HOT orgasms.

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Sharon

Or being penetrated with a vibrator in the other hole.

I... need to go take care of something now...

mixedmedia

You know, I don't even own a vibrator. Never had much use for them...but I'm getting some ideas.

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Terrell

Exactly my point, that's why oral can't be compared to anal. There's no "ick there's shit on my dick", factor with oral.

Sharon

So I'm guessing analingus and ass-to-mouth aren't turn ons for you then.

Hyacinthe

I've only ever done anal once. I really enjoyed it, since then I have had problems finding a guy that's open to the idea actually, asked both about it and got a flat out "nope not interested".

Pain wise I imagine it's kindof like if you go without sex for a long time the first few can be a little painful while your muscles relax / stretch.

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Terrell

I think that those are gross as well. Not something I would do, but to each their own.

abaya

Oh, honey... get to your local female-owned sex shop and buy one now!!! I recommend the Laya for ergonomic use during intercourse.

I should also add that pseudo-DP (double penetration) is a lot of fun, as well. Imagine: a real cock up one hole, a nice dildo up the other, and maybe a vibe on the front as well. It's insane... feels so good. I tend to like the real cock in my ass and the dildo in my pussy, but whatever works for you.

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