james t kirk

I am very curious to know other male attitudes towards anal sex with women.

Specifically, do you as a normal heterosexual male desire anal sex or not? (I.e. to penetrate a woman)

The reason I ask is because I enjoy anal sex from time to time with a woman. I view it as a bit of a kink, there is something a bit nasty about it, however, I consider it a fairly normal male desire.

A woman that I was recently dating seemed to feel that my desire for anal sex was definitely a minority position among the general male population. She seemed to feel that only a small percentage of men out there desire to penetrate their woman's peach. My position was (and is) that most men at least desire anal sex from time to time to down right live for it.

Hence my totally scientific poll here.

I would like to know how many men on here desire anal sex, and how many don't desire it, and how many are disgusted by it and would never do it.

Women, feel free to pipe in, I'll set up some questions for you too.

Clarification, the poll is set up - male giving, female receiving. Pegging would be another poll - coming soon to a channel near you.

World's King

I like it.


I dated a girl that was way into it. That got me way in to it. My girlfriend now hates it. So I don't much care anymore.

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ShaniFaye

Im assuming the female choices are for women who want it, not women who give it so there is no option for me (unless Im wrong)

My hubby loves loves loves it and I love to do it to him (I have my own strap on for just such occasions)

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Silvy

I've never really considered it, and I don't think the idea is very appealing to me.
(note: I'm not turned off by the idea, it just isn't a specific turn on for me)

If my SO wanted to try it, I wouldn't say no. But it has never been brought up...

Edit: Like Shanifaye said, I assumed by the wording of your question that you meant anal sex as man-to-woman. Whereas the other way around is also possible, and my thoughts lie a little bit more on the adventureous side there

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james t kirk

The poll is set up for male giving, female receiving. (Just for the sake of being consistent.)

The poll is not set up for those females who enjoy pegging. Another day perhaps.

I do enjoy pegging as well, but that would put this poor woman that I know completely over the top I am afraid. (As would some of my other sexual desires I am sure.)

I have clarified, thanks for pointing that out. The poll is strictly female receiving, so the options would be for you - do you enjoy receiving anal or not. In so many words.

MageB420666

I did it on several occasions with an ex. She enjoyed it on occasion and I enjoyed it on occasion. Brought a bit of variety into the act. I wouldn't want anal sex every time, but the occasional treat is great.

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Willravel

I picked "I am male, have never made it a part of my sex life, but would if she asked."

I'm not a fan of anal intercourse. I'll do it for her pleasure if she asks, but I would never initiate it as I find it a bit disgusting, personally. It's just not my cup of tea. Nothing even comes close to vaginal intercourse.

james t kirk

Not judging you, however, if you have never done it, how would you know what it felt like to be able to make the comparison to vaginal sex that "nothing even comes close"???

I totally understand your position as it's not for everyone for sure.

As to the feeling, it's different, more like the initial penetration is extremely different, however, the ultimate sensations are fairly similar (i.e. vaginal / anal).

It's a different process, different penetration and hugely kinky.

Psycho Dad

I always figure there is a perfectly good vagina in that general vicinity anyway so... I've just never been a fan of it. I don't find it disgusting, just not the better of the available bodily orifices.

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Willravel

I didn't mean to suggest that I hadn't done it. I have. I just didn't find it pleasurable. I have never made it a part of my sex life. She has, on occasion, made it a part of my sex life.

World's King

A bit of a story...


A few years ago a friend of mine called at me at like 4 am. He sounded... confused.


He had met a girl in bar. Nice girl. They got a little tipsy. Went back to her place. Fucked. He said that she got on her hands and knees, grabbed his cock and slid it in. He pumped away for a little bit. Thinking to himself that it felt a little different. He looked down... yeah... she put it in her ass. Didn't ask. Just did it. That's not the worse part. He continued to fuck her all the while thinking to himself that she must of really like anal if he was able to get in without a condom or lube. After thinking about this... he pulled out, jerk off onto her ass and left.

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Willravel

It's like Mark Twain....

World's King

Me?

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Willravel

I enjoyed the vulgarity, and thought a little joshing around might make people more comfortable. These types of threads are often about brutal honesty, dealing with taboos and such. No offense was intended, I hope you know.

World's King

I wasn't offended. I was just wondering if you were calling me Mark Twain. Which in my book is a compliment.

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Charlatan

I had a friend that picked up a woman in a bar, and had much the same experience as WK's friend. It turns out that she was a professional dancer (ballet) and very rarely had vaginal sex. She didn't want to risk pregnancy at all.

I was told by another dancer that this is pretty common amongst dancers.

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World's King

I've gotta meet me a dancer...

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Sharon

Me likey.

Mister Coaster

I you asked me a few months ago, I would have voted for #3, Take it or leave it. But the last time me and Mrs. Coaster did anal, it was WAY better than the previous times. Now I find myself craving it from time to time, but rarely push her to do it. I'll only push for it when I can tell she's in a particularly good mood.

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Plan9

Hmmm...

The woman that provided the "best-sex-in-my-life-ever" really enjoyed it. Made a finger in her secondary access point a real priority during just about any sex go-'round. Absolutely loved to be on riding on top with a finger in the backdoor pushing down onto the male thrusting component.

She could orgasm from finger play in there alone. A rare find.

I suppose the biggest part of any other-than-Amish sex play is just being 100% comfortable with your body, trusting your partner completely, and tingling those nerves in new and different ways.

I miss that stuff. The touching of the other person.

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Push-Pull

Thought about it, having heard stories from other guys about it that made it sound intriguing. But in reality, it'll probably never happen for me unless I find myself suddenly single in the future.

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RenaissanceII

the right gal, the right situation, you bet!

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Bear Cub

Definitely nice from time to time. Not all the time though, just something too enticing about a warm, wet vagina to make me look elsewhere.

analog

A friend of mine had sex with an 18 year old. She's "saving her virginity". Yes, she had him fuck her ass. He was also the first person to do so. Apparently, she loved it. A lot. That was about a year ago. He's still bragging. I hate him for it, based on principle alone. I mean... that's just awesome.

Charlatan

Analog... I hate your friend too. Let him know.

Thanks

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The_Jazz

I had a girlfriend a long time ago that LOVED it and insisted on it at least every couple of weeks. It never did much for me once I got over the whole "taboo" thing after a couple of months. The sensations aren't as intense as the traditional method, at least for me.

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fresnelly

Yeah, the feeling ain't any better than traditional, but its "final frontier/ALL the way" status is pretty attractive.

It's something you have to earn.

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snowy

My current SO and I have anal sex from time to time. It's not really a regular part of our repertoire but we do it once in a while when I'm really relaxed. If I'm not really relaxed (read: really drunk or high) it's not very comfortable to me and I'm unable to enjoy it...but if I'm relaxed, it's all right. It doesn't give me the big O, though, which is odd because most other things do.

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Cervantes

To be honest, it's a bit of a turnoff for me. It's all hyped up but in the end it's my most treasured body part into the orifice where she stores her poop.. Not a turnon at all.
Though if SHE wished it I would go along with it if she actually enjoyed it.

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Jim Kata

The only reason I like butt sex is because I don't have to wear a condom.

When my wife and I were dating...we tried it but I was only able to put the head in because she was so uncomfortable so we didn't try it again. I secretly wanted it again since I had never had sex without a condom and it felt pretty nice just getting the head in. She started birth control and the urge to stick it in her caboose disappeared.

She has been off of birth control for the past couple of years and again the buttsex urges came back....she finally decided to try it again and loved it. Actually asking for it 3 nights in a row. Which was damn nice....it felt nice not having to use a condom. But now she is starting birth control again, and again, the urge for me to give it to her in da butt is gone.

Daniel_

I hate him also. Bastard.

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absorbentishe

There wasn't a "I'm a man, and want it, but SO won't", so I couldn't really check one. That's what I want to try, and try and try, but the access is denied.

ASU2003

I like penis-in-vagina sex. Anal doesn't do anything for me.

Then again, I've never had sex of any kind so don't mind me.

MrFriendly

I'll try anything at least twice :P

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Plan9

(imagines the scene as it plays out later this weekend)

:::: sweaty couple flops on bed after long bout of backdoor pounding ::::

Mr. Friendly: "Whew... yeah. So, was it good for you?"

Girl McGirl: "Eh... not really. Not my thing."

Mr. Friendly "Well, hell... we'll just have to keep trying until you get it right!"

(Letterman style drum crash)

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Sticky

It is not about the actual feeling of the sex, it is all in the head (the one on top of the shoulders).
I believe that there are two main reasons that men want anal sex.
- It is taboo - Maybe not as much in society as it used to be but in private in the bedroom it still may be taboo. Extending the limits, doing new things is exciting.
- It tells you that she is really into sex. Nothing is more exciting them a girl who really wants it. Taking it anally tells me (I don't know if you get the same message) that she is really into it. Who would have sex this way if they did not want it.

What is even more exciting is if she asks for it (see the 18 year old above).

Sex is a head game.

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james t kirk

I hadn't thought of it this way, but you are absolutely correct.

It implies that she's really into it - a very sexually adventurous woman and I do crave that. I love a sexually creative woman and it truly turns me on to have a woman suggest various sexual things as opposed to me all the time.

Nothing worse than grovelling for a peach and repeatedly being told NO.

hagatha

Now, I take issue with the idea that a woman who doesn't want/or get turned on by the thought of anal sex isn't into sex. Is that the only sex act on the table here?
Do not judge a woman's sexual desire by the acts she will or will not perform.

That's my two cents, thank you gentlemen.

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tenniels

I'm female and voted for the "I am female and I'd do it only to please my man, but hope he wouldn't ask" option. I have had anal sex once, and it was not really something I remember a whole lot about as I was completely inebrieated that night. I was very sore the next day. It's not something I want to do again. For some reason it just doesn't turn me on although I'm not judgemental about it. I may consider trying it again with someone, but would just prefer not to ever again. I've had a finger in there and whatnot and had no pleasure whatsoever, so I think I'm just not turned on by the bum stuff.

*edit* I think it's funny that that girl was saving herself, but would have anal sex. To me, when you do that, it's like, sex you know? I don't get how people convince themselves they are remaining say "pure" but still doing stuff that is on the same level as sex. But still, I guess it worked out well for your friend there haha.

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pan6467

It's not taboo to me, just something I have no desire for. To me if I want to fuck an ass I'll turn gay..... which I have no plans and I really don't foresee it ever happening sooooooo. Plus if I go there I have to let her go there on me and welllll my ass is one way OUT.

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