In my current relationship, I was the first person to bring up the subject and at first he didn't think he would be into it. But our talking about it, especially my telling him how I would feel about it, sort of turned things around for him. Now we do it fairly regularly and he loves it. We both do. I agree that much of the attraction (and repulsion) to it is psychological. Although orgasms (for women) while having anal sex are incredibly intense.
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