03-13-2004, 11:54 PM | #1 (permalink) | |
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An issue of personal freedom?
This might be more appropriate in Gernal Discussion but I was surprised to see another forum turn the issue into one of personal freedom and what rights the government has over your body (much like Roe v Wade).
A woman refused to have a C-section because she was afraid of getting a scar and one of her unborn twins died as a result, so now the state is charging her with murder. This is the CNN article but I must warn you that the article is accompanied by a portrait of the woman and she is absolutely hideous. So much so that you will probably regret seeing it and forever wonder how she thought a scar could possibly ruin her appearance... Quote:
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03-14-2004, 12:01 AM | #2 (permalink) |
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I think it is ridiculous to even attempt to prosecute her. The child wasn't even born yet and she is not obligated to undergo treatment against her will.
If you are going to start prosecuting mothers for stillborn babies where do you draw the line? I hate to inject slippery slopage, but if the shoe fits... |
03-14-2004, 12:27 AM | #3 (permalink) |
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The prosecutor responsible for bringing these charges should be sacked, any court which tries them should be disbanded. This is a grotesque insult to this grieving woman, I wish there was something we could throw these prosecutors in jail for, and leave them there to rot.
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03-14-2004, 01:06 AM | #4 (permalink) |
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If you read the article, it sounds like she was afraid of the c-section as a surgical procedure, not because of scars. As you can see from her picture, she hardly seems like someone who really cares about her personal appearance.
A c-section is major abdominal surgery. It should be a person's free choice whether or not they want it. Utah, being anti-choice, was just looking for a test case, I think. Now this poor woman has to mourn her dead child and fight a lawsuit. It's funny that a state which is pro-choice on guns can be anti-choice on SERIOUS ABDOMINAL SURGERY. |
03-14-2004, 02:34 AM | #5 (permalink) |
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Personally, it disgusts me that a mother would willingly risk the life of a child like that. However, bringing charges against her for doing so is a bit over the top.
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03-14-2004, 02:39 AM | #6 (permalink) |
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After kicking around a few times in my head, I think that prosecution is over the top.
Even from a pro-life standpoint, I don't see how they justify it, as most of them believe that the woman should carry until birth, which (unfortunately in this case) she did.
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03-14-2004, 02:44 AM | #7 (permalink) | |
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And I agree the case cannot be allowed to go forward. My mother has to have an abortion, because they told her giving birth would have killed her... so even if she did it to save her own life, and with the knowledge the chances of the babies survival werent great even if she did continue to carry it... if this woman could be prosecuted for murder, so could my mother (legally)
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03-14-2004, 02:49 AM | #8 (permalink) |
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Morally, I think what she did was reprehensible. It's disgusting that she placed the risk of a C-section over the successful birth of her child. I'm glad my mom isn't a piece of shit like this disgusting hag, or else I probably wouldn't be around.
HOWEVER, I do not believe it is the government's position to judge her decision. She should be allowed to determine whether or not a medical procedure can be performed on her body. Otherwise, what's next? Should we be forced to donate blood and a kidney to allow people who need them to live? |
03-14-2004, 03:58 AM | #9 (permalink) |
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She should have just pretended to have a religious aversion to surgery....then it would be a non-issue.
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03-14-2004, 05:44 AM | #10 (permalink) | |
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A related story, in case anyone for some reason thought this woman was a saint or a scared helpless woman. I think this woman is seriously disturbed and should have her children put in foster care.
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03-14-2004, 06:59 AM | #11 (permalink) | |
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And the woman does sound disturbed, and she also sounds pretty scared... I wouldnt say she was a saint, but the state does not have the right to force her to have a c section, the case being brought against her is grotesque, and anyone who is responsible for bringing the case should be sacked, thrown out of office, lose any pension rights associated with that job, because they have proved themselves to be utterly unfit to take part in the process of justice.
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That said, I do not believe she should be prosecuted; however, she may want to consider having her tubes tied. She appears to have some long standing issues. However, she also still has basic human rights as outlined in the Constitution.
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03-14-2004, 11:11 AM | #15 (permalink) | |
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03-14-2004, 11:11 AM | #16 (permalink) |
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A couple of threads have been getting personal.
I'm forming a theory that mods have to crack down every so often or people don't follow the rules.
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03-14-2004, 01:22 PM | #17 (permalink) |
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personally...gotta go wtih the first responder on this one...
There is just something scary about surgery and a C-section isn't just "Oh, let's cut her open across the abdominal area and everything will be fine"; it's pretty serious surgery and any patient can elect not to have surgery performed or have any treatment performed if they wish. She could have had the birth in the backseat of a car or in her home with a midwife, the outcome would be the same in this case. I would HATE to see where this could lead if they could successfully charge her.
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03-14-2004, 02:33 PM | #18 (permalink) |
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I figured someone would complain about that statement... just an fyi I'm white and not being racist. When I say white trash i'm refering to a specific class of people who are habitually lazy, irresponsible, and many other things. They are a burden on society and they are the ones who do things like this. But someone doesn't have to be white to be like this... I just use that term loosley to describe this class of bottom feeders.
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03-14-2004, 03:31 PM | #20 (permalink) | |
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Also, maybe i missed the part in the article where they broke down the SES of the woman in question. Certainly one could assume that she is poor, but i fail to see how that is even relevant. I fail to see how "bottom feeding" even comes into play. And irseg: She isn't your mom, but she could be. She is, in fact, a mother of two. She is somebody's mom. Perhaps you should choose your words more wisely. You probably wouldn't appreciate some random person on the internet, who knows very little about you or your family, calling your mom a bunch of filthy names. |
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03-14-2004, 04:51 PM | #22 (permalink) |
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Under strictly those terms, a woman could be prosecuted for not eating a healthy enough diet while pregnant if her child ended up being stillborn.
It all seems very murky and perhaps a little silly. Last edited by filtherton; 03-14-2004 at 04:53 PM.. |
03-14-2004, 10:55 PM | #23 (permalink) | |
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For that matter, [/i]should[/i] an extremely negligent pregnancy (involving, for example, diet) be considered criminal negligence if it ends up harming the kid? I think so, unless the mother had no choice (if, for example, economic factors prevented her from getting proper nutrition.) Homicide, no, but a criminal offense? Yes. But I digress. Pregnancy, like parenthood, is a responsibility. The risk of pregnancy (sexual intercourse) is undertaken voluntarily, and on top of that, abortions are still legal for those who don't want this responsibility. If that mother chose to carry her kids to term, then she chose to take on the responsibility that comes with it to put her kids first. C-section is a common procedure and is relatively safe (studies put the maternal death rate at 0.1%, maximum... most studies show much lower rates - http://www.gentlebirth.org/archives/vbacjjg.html) And, in a court of law, the defendant's history can be used to establish character. Given this woman's history toward her kids (e.g. the candy bar incident, and the fact that COCAINE and ALCOHOL are present in the twin that lived), her intent in refusing the C-section is shady at best. |
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03-14-2004, 11:08 PM | #24 (permalink) |
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I just think it would open the door for a great many things to become criminalized. No one here is certain of Rowland's motivations. I don't know if it can be proven that she intended to cause the death of the unborn child.
I find it hard to believe that it would be criminal to refuse a medical pocedure, even if by doing so you potentially end the life of another. My body, my choice. |
03-15-2004, 06:53 AM | #26 (permalink) | |
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This utah law is a camel-nose-under-the-tent to make abortion illegal. The Bush administration has been pushing for "rights for the unborn" since he took office. There is more to this case that just this woman. This is standard tactic when trying to push a particular agenda (both on the conservative and liberal sides). Pick an extreme, totally reprehensible target, like a child molestor, and use that case to justify a law that the public probably wouldn't have otherwise supported. My wife has had a c-section, and I think those of you who haven't been through it don't realize exactly what is done. A c-section absolutely puts the woman's life at risk because it involves sedation, which is always a risk. While I personally would find someone making the choice to risk their child to avoid a c-section disgusting, I *fully* support the right of every woman to voluntarily make that choice. I also fully support home births, even though the data shows that they are slightly more risky than a hospital birth. By the standards applied in this case, women choosing a home birth who lose their child should be prosecuted. |
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03-15-2004, 07:06 AM | #27 (permalink) |
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personally, i think that this case is just going to get chucked out of court, with a mulit-million dollar law suit following, you know, as standard practice in america these days...
but, what will happen after that is what scares me. we're entering a slipery slope about this type of thing. A law can be used in many ways, and can often be given leiniency in certain situations (such as a woman having to have an abortion late in pregnancy because birth would kill her and the baby e.t.c/some poor kid getting rid of a baby because having it will ruin her life and the childs), but there is going to be hardliners out there who will push for a litteral interpretation of the law. this is what i'm most afraid of, because in the religious randomness of america, it only takes one president (read monkey) to create a law that will be backed so much that it will remove the right of the mother to decide her life. yes, some people may say that an abortion kills a life, no matter when it is in the pregnancy, but why don't they look at the flip side. if someone has a child without being ready, or having the ability to fully look after it, that child is likely to have a bad life, the mother will effectivly be removed from productive society, and both will often lead miserable lives. now, which is better, the end of one potential life, or the ruining of two? |
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03-15-2004, 08:41 AM | #29 (permalink) | |
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Regardless, it is her body. I guess i'm not aware of any law on the books that allows doctors to force surgical procedures upon unwilling patients. Perhaps that is what you're proposing? Her body, doctor's choice? Barring such a law, it is her body her choice. Besides, if she really wanted to kill her baby she could've "accidentally" fallen on her stomach. There are many ways to terminate a pregnancy and/or cause still birth. Not all of them are necessarily deliberate acts. Do you think it is a good idea to start prosecuting every woman whose stillborn child could've been saved? |
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06-22-2006, 12:28 PM | #30 (permalink) | |
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Wow, I was just looking through some old posts and I just discovered that one of my posts was egregiously misread.
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06-22-2006, 02:58 PM | #31 (permalink) | |
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The issue of whether or not we(i'm assuming you meant to say "we" instead of nothing at all)should repeal the law about late term abortions is a matter of when we think life begins. Maybe in a legal sense it isn't the woman's body in the context of late term abortions. However, the law, as far as i have seen, doesn't make that distinction in the context of surgical procedures associated with labor complications. In the context of this issue, it is her body, her choice. This wasn't an abortion. This was a woman refusing to have a c-section. Even if the latter ultimately has the same result as the former they are two seperate issues. |
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