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fallenangel · 04-09-2004, 12:09 AM

I'm not really sure how to approach this subject to my immediate friends to see their thoughts and opinions on it, so i turn to you ladies here. I'm sort of in need of cash, well not to a desperation point, but it would be really great to save up for school soon...

A friend of mine has a contact that can get me basically into a legit phone sex organization. Nothing seedy, and it pays really well. I'm a slight nympho myself, and i've always been into it with past lovers. I"m just curious about others moral thoughts on this, or just in general. Would it be weird or something you'd avoid altogether, or should i go for it? Thanks

I appreciate any feedback as this is just in the beginning stages of thought right now.

SiN · 04-09-2004, 01:29 AM

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Originally posted by fallenangel
I"m just curious about others moral thoughts on this, ...

Um, what's a 'moral' thought?

Heh..seriously, i say go for it!

I think doing fone sex is a great way to make some good money without having to resort to taking your clothes off for a bunch of strangers.

If you have the chance,do it!

Just make sure you do save some of that cash for school and responsible things. that is the best 'moral' advise I can give you.

Good luck!

Nancy · 04-09-2004, 03:36 AM

hehe I'd do it! And I think you should too. It's easy money and you don't have to take your clothes off in front of some old, horny men like SiN pointed out.

So go ahead and support your studies with this job

raeanna74 · 04-09-2004, 06:53 AM

I think it's a great idea. Probably some good money. Does she know where I can get a job like that? I think it might be fun.

*Nikki* · 04-09-2004, 06:59 AM

Sorry but I would not.

I don't have it in me to pretend something like I am getting fucked by a horse to get some guy off. I would start laughing and get fired.

Averett · 04-09-2004, 08:00 AM

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Originally posted by *Nikki*
I would start laughing and get fired.

Same here... I couldn't do it.

StormBerlin · 04-09-2004, 08:12 AM

I would totally try it out. If the money's that good, I would do that through school too. I have friend who strips out here while she goes to school and she makes a lot of money. I normally don't respect people with that kind of lifestyle, but it's not like you're doing it for the rest of your life because you're too lazy to finish school or something

I say more power to you and have fun at it. Don't take it too seriously

NoLa · 04-09-2004, 12:22 PM

I wouldn't do it myself...

but if you're good at it and really considering it, than go for it. It would be a good way to make money, there areworse things you could be doing.

Eowyn_Vala · 04-09-2004, 12:28 PM

ummm, i know i wouldn't be able to do it! But hey, go for it! Like others have pointed out you don't have to take off your clothes for people you don't know! And there are worse jobs like NoLa said! Good Luck!

sillygirl · 04-09-2004, 01:31 PM

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Originally posted by *Nikki*
Sorry but I would not.

I don't have it in me to pretend something like I am getting fucked by a horse to get some guy off. I would start laughing and get fired.

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Originally posted by Averett
Same here... I couldn't do it.

I third that... I just couldn't keep a straight face. I'd have an easier time, I think, being a stripper. :shrug: I don't know.

*Nikki* · 04-09-2004, 04:50 PM

Hell Yeah!! I could totally go for being a stripper. If I knew how to dance......watch out men.....

sillygirl · 04-09-2004, 05:29 PM

Whew. I thought I was the only one who'd rather be a stripper. I think that I'd look at it as a game....

qtpye4u84 · 04-12-2004, 10:48 PM

phone sex is not to bad cause its not like your having sex with any one so i would do it for the money.

lisa · 04-13-2004, 05:42 AM

If you like it yourself, and you're quite good at it, I'd say, go for it!
No moral thoughts of any kind!

My personal thought is that i would be really really poor at it... When my bf asks me to "talk dirty" or just say something plainly sexy, i allready freak out and don't get any further than an embarassed "fuck me"... LOL! Not very arousing i guess, so i wouldn't really do well on the job i think.

But if you have that talent, use it !!! (and have fun)

lurkette · 04-13-2004, 06:13 AM

Why the heck not! If you enjoy it, and they enjoy it, and you get paid, bless you and go for it!

minyn · 04-13-2004, 07:34 AM

I draw the line at selling your body. my little sister (who is 18) is currently a stripper. anythng up to my drawn line is legit and its good money and if you got the hot voice, use it!

Redgirl · 04-13-2004, 09:47 AM

I've always wondered how you get into phone sex. I get hit on all the time over the phone because men think I have a good voice. I would like to know how it goes (if you do it) because I might try it. Plus I'd probably be horny all day and my husband would love that!
So to answer the question- hell yeah I'd do it! Have you ever seen Girl 6? It's a movie about this sort of thing. Pretty good flick.

onodrim · 04-13-2004, 09:59 AM

Like others have said, if you'd enjoy it and you're good at it, why not? Just have some fun making money and paying for school.

As for myself, I would never be able to. I think I would share *Nikki's* laughter problem.

And I also agree that I'd have a much easier time being a stripper. That's probably because I'm a performance major, so dancing around on stage just comes kinda naturally to me. I just usually have my clothes on. I could use the extra money though, time to look up the strip clubs in the area...

Rowan · 04-13-2004, 02:29 PM

I have actually worked in a strip club for about 6 months, and made good money for school, so I would totally recommend the phone sex thing. . .it's alot easier, you're safe, and the money is good. Good luck and have fun!

04-13-2004, 04:57 PM

whatever you feel comfortable with- be true to yourself. That's what matters. Don't do anything you feel like you would regret later or feel uncomfortable with. It seems safe, afterall, you don't need to worry about rape or STD's or getting pregnant. But it's really up to you.

SparklingDot · 04-13-2004, 10:39 PM

I would so try it out. Granted, I might not be very good at it. Then again, I don't have the guts to talk dirty to the guys I know, let alone my SO. I think it'd be an awesome opportunity to learn and to have fun. Besides, I'd learn where the MUTE button is in case of spontaneous laughter.

shytilwet · 04-22-2004, 10:19 AM

Yeah, go for it. If you want to feel dirty, sleazy and used. Maybe not @ the time but when you stop doing it.
Good luck with whatever you decide.

Angel · 04-24-2004, 07:15 PM

I think if YOU are comfortable with it, there is no reason why you shouldn't.

I have had tons of fun and pleasure before having phone sex with a couple of men I have dated. It is a personal pleasure that we endulged in when we were apart for any reason.

However, I am certain I wouldn't be able to do it with a stranger. I am not one to "fake it" and I wouldn't be able to be convincing enough for them to get their money's worth.

And on the stripping topic...I am quite modest to a certain degree. I could never strip in front of a room full of men or women. That show is reserved exclusively for my sweetie when I have reached a confident level of sharing my body with him.

Redgirl · 04-26-2004, 01:52 PM

Time for a report, fallenangel. Did you decide to do this? I really am curious what it's like, have also been considering it since you posted this.

mydragonfido · 04-28-2004, 10:25 PM

Go for if you feel you could be comfortable doing it! Plus you may get some added fun from it.

la petite moi · 04-29-2004, 07:23 AM

Where can I join? That sounds like fun, and can get you some good money!

Amethyst · 05-13-2004, 07:38 PM

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Originally posted by *Nikki*
Hell Yeah!! I could totally go for being a stripper. If I knew how to dance......watch out men.....

If I would loose some more weight I would.

I would do the phone sex thing if it was legit. Money is money.

maleficent · 05-13-2004, 07:58 PM

I'd find out about the clientelle. I'd bet there are some pretty twisted people that call phone sex lines.

Where would you work out of? Many work out of their homes - if you have roommates or family - it could get weird if you share a phone line)
Is there a cover job for a resume? ie Phone Sales (don't laugh -- it legitimately happens)
What's expected out of you? (encourage customer to buy extras?)
How to handle customer wanting to know your number to call you directly or your address because they love you and well -- they'd want to give you the money directly rather than the agency.
It's the sex business -- what happens if a relative calls - or someone you know well
Only you can answer the weird question, talking dirty to someone you know well is one thing, someone calling because they are lonely and are just using you to get their rocks off -- how would that make you feel?
Your math teacher from 7th grade calls, you can't ever forget his voice and he wants you to spank his touchie --How do you think you'd react?
How would you react to being called some pretty vulgar, degrading names (IMHO) for someone to get their rocks off -- you'd like to beleive it's only money, but there's a person on the other end of the phone talking to you... calling you those names.

It's fun to think about in the fantasy aspect - but think about it really -- it's not just about money.

fallenangel · 05-14-2004, 10:25 AM

Ok ladies, in answer to Redgirl's PM, no, i still haven't decided to do this. I was considering it for extra cash, but job stuff is still being worked out with my other two jobs i'm working now and i'd like to get down to just one full time for now. Sooo, i'll let you know when i decide either way. I'm still humming and hawing about it. Thanks for the feedback though

shannon · 05-14-2004, 03:57 PM

it's funny you say that. in one of my women's studies classes we did a section on sex work and by the end of it i saw no reason not to do phone sex. it's really quite safe and fun and the money would likely be good. still, it is your decision to make. let us know how things turn out for sure!

SixEdxMia · 05-18-2004, 02:07 PM

WEll... thanks to the grand ol internet I researched this..Seems the average pay is around six or seven dollars an hour.

Seems my calling pays less than Taco Bell...Harsh.

www.gaylestaffing.com

Acetylene · 06-14-2004, 09:46 AM

I think that, out of all the possible ways of getting off, phone sex is definately one of the least amoral. IMHO the moral considerations here are whether it is breaking up the customer's relationships, that is, is he cheating by talking to you? I say, as close to "no" as anything.

Think about it: there's porn, which is watching another person/people's bodies. That's very specifically tied to that person and the viewer's involvement is with him/her/them specifically which some women feel jealous about.

There's stripping, which is just like porn but even more so because you are actually there with the man. He is even closer to you, and you are sharing even more of your body with him.

Then there's prostitution and, well, that's cheating :P

But phone sex, you aren't there, he can't see you, he has no idea what you look like and who you are. You have a level of anonymity that, I think, gives the both of you a lot of protection. His fantasies are entirely his own, you're just helping him out with making them seem real. So, I say, if you like it, go for it!

Unga · 06-14-2004, 10:52 PM

haha I would totally go for it

Eclipse26 · 06-15-2004, 12:07 AM

This is something I've done and it can be very good money. I will caution you, however. Phone sex can be tons of fun with the right guys, but you do get the callers who only get off on degrading you. Calling you names, asking you to bark, and just some different fetishes...stuff that's a pretty out there that they can't do with their SO. Though, some is pretty easy to deal with. For example, I had a guy who just wanted for me to pretend that he was washing and combing my hair and others that want you to smoke for them. Those calls are cake.

Most calls, I felt pretty comfortable with, as I have some odd fetishes myself, but some calls can give you a strong distaste for certain types of men. Such as the guy who only gets off by calling you every possible variant of a dirty fucking whore. If you're comfortable with that, then great, but I know I struggled to not tell a few to go fuck themselves.

It can be good money and offers awesome flexibility if you already have a full time day job...as I do. But you definitely have nights that you have to work for it. I cried after many a call.

If you decide to do this, I have many tips I could offer...if you're interested. I could also recommend some reputable services...not all of them are good. Feel free to pose questions here, or PM me.

Ella · 06-15-2004, 12:09 AM

I did it phone sex for about a year when I was in my early 20's and made a shitload of money, which I instantly pissed up against a wall (isn't that what usually happened in the late 80's?). Once I got the hang of it, the whole thing came really easily to me, and I could usually get a guy off in less than five minutes (although they had up to 30 mins, they rarely used the whole time. When they did, tho, it was a major pain in the ass).

You can work in your trackies (sweatpants to you US dudes) and no make-up, although of course you describe your current state of dress as oh-so-sexy and alluring. You can tell tales and stories that no-one would ever know was false. And most importantly....it's dead easy to fake an orgasm.

Easy money....if you're comfortable with that stuff. What creeped me out in the end was seeing a print out of all my customers over the 12 months I worked there...sometimes up to 30 a day. It was massive. I think that's when I realised enough was enough. I would never do it again.

Redgirl · 06-18-2004, 10:00 AM

Thanks to both Eclipse and Ella for telling about your personal experiences. I was hoping some woman out there would be kind enough to share if they had ever done it.

I am pretty curious about it because I would love to have such a flexible p/t job. I'm still considering it, maybe I'll PM you about it Eclipse.

Eclipse26 · 06-20-2004, 12:19 AM

Sounds good... You're welcome to any time.

BlueBongo · 06-21-2004, 06:22 AM

I agree with everyone else... just do it if you want to. I know I couldn't do it because I'd laugh too much... but there was a time when we had a second phone line living with a friend of mine and we had considered doing it on the side for extra cash. Nothing came of it because we just can't keep straight faces.

But if you like it, and want to do it... why the heck not?

Have fun and make some cash, Goodness knows that is what I'm attempting to do right now.... evil school bills. But what can ya do?

Ella · 06-22-2004, 02:48 AM

It's not too funny when you are alone...just kind of pedestrian, ya know? But we used to offer two girls at the same time, which was pretty popular with the fellas. And it would depend on what girl you were with as to how much you tried not to piss yourself laughing. It's hard to suppress laughter when you're faking an orgasm.

pinkie · 07-01-2004, 05:56 PM

I'd love doing it at first, and I'd probably get off on it too. At first, that is. Like every job, I imagine it can have its days that it'd be the last thing you'd ever want to do. Over time I can see it sucking ass.

As a temporary thing, I'd say hell yeah though.

04-09-2004, 12:09 AM	#1 (permalink)
fallenangel soaring Location: near the water	Would you do it? I'm not really sure how to approach this subject to my immediate friends to see their thoughts and opinions on it, so i turn to you ladies here. I'm sort of in need of cash, well not to a desperation point, but it would be really great to save up for school soon... A friend of mine has a contact that can get me basically into a legit phone sex organization. Nothing seedy, and it pays really well. I'm a slight nympho myself, and i've always been into it with past lovers. I"m just curious about others moral thoughts on this, or just in general. Would it be weird or something you'd avoid altogether, or should i go for it? Thanks I appreciate any feedback as this is just in the beginning stages of thought right now. __________________ all I wanna do is - give the best of me to you

04-09-2004, 03:36 AM	#3 (permalink)
Nancy Femme Fatale Location: Elysium	hehe I'd do it! And I think you should too. It's easy money and you don't have to take your clothes off in front of some old, horny men like SiN pointed out. So go ahead and support your studies with this job __________________ I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.

04-09-2004, 06:53 AM	#4 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	I think it's a great idea. Probably some good money. Does she know where I can get a job like that? I think it might be fun. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

04-09-2004, 08:12 AM	#7 (permalink)
StormBerlin Happy as a hippo Location: Southern California	I would totally try it out. If the money's that good, I would do that through school too. I have friend who strips out here while she goes to school and she makes a lot of money. I normally don't respect people with that kind of lifestyle, but it's not like you're doing it for the rest of your life because you're too lazy to finish school or something I say more power to you and have fun at it. Don't take it too seriously __________________ "if anal sex could get a girl pregnant i'd be tits deep in child support" Arcane

04-09-2004, 12:22 PM	#8 (permalink)
NoLa Crazy Location: St.Louis, MO	I wouldn't do it myself... but if you're good at it and really considering it, than go for it. It would be a good way to make money, there areworse things you could be doing. __________________ Through the warmest cord of care your love was sent to me I'm not sure what to do with it or where to put it

04-09-2004, 06:59 AM	#5 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	Sorry but I would not. I don't have it in me to pretend something like I am getting fucked by a horse to get some guy off. I would start laughing and get fired.

04-09-2004, 12:28 PM	#9 (permalink)
Eowyn_Vala Insane Location: There's no place like home..	ummm, i know i wouldn't be able to do it! But hey, go for it! Like others have pointed out you don't have to take off your clothes for people you don't know! And there are worse jobs like NoLa said! Good Luck! __________________ Cain: I know what you're doing. I've lead troops into battle before. DG: And, how am I doing? Cain: Well, there's less hugging when I do it

04-09-2004, 04:50 PM	#11 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	Hell Yeah!! I could totally go for being a stripper. If I knew how to dance......watch out men.....

04-09-2004, 05:29 PM	#12 (permalink)
sillygirl Newlywed Location: at home	Whew. I thought I was the only one who'd rather be a stripper. I think that I'd look at it as a game.... __________________ Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken ....absence makes me miss him more...

04-12-2004, 10:48 PM	#13 (permalink)
qtpye4u84 Flavor+noodles Location: oregon	phone sex is not to bad cause its not like your having sex with any one so i would do it for the money. __________________ The QTpie

04-13-2004, 05:42 AM	#14 (permalink)
lisa Crazy Location: belgium	If you like it yourself, and you're quite good at it, I'd say, go for it! No moral thoughts of any kind! My personal thought is that i would be really really poor at it... When my bf asks me to "talk dirty" or just say something plainly sexy, i allready freak out and don't get any further than an embarassed "fuck me"... LOL! Not very arousing i guess, so i wouldn't really do well on the job i think. But if you have that talent, use it !!! (and have fun)

04-13-2004, 06:13 AM	#15 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	Why the heck not! If you enjoy it, and they enjoy it, and you get paid, bless you and go for it! __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

04-13-2004, 07:34 AM	#16 (permalink)
minyn young and in bloom Location: under the bodhi tree.... bling	I draw the line at selling your body. my little sister (who is 18) is currently a stripper. anythng up to my drawn line is legit and its good money and if you got the hot voice, use it! __________________ "Woke up this morning with a blue moon in my eye" ~A3 "woke up this morning" "Don't compromise yourself, you're all you've got." -Janis Joplin

04-13-2004, 09:47 AM	#17 (permalink)
Redgirl Addict Location: Native America	I've always wondered how you get into phone sex. I get hit on all the time over the phone because men think I have a good voice. I would like to know how it goes (if you do it) because I might try it. Plus I'd probably be horny all day and my husband would love that! So to answer the question- hell yeah I'd do it! Have you ever seen Girl 6? It's a movie about this sort of thing. Pretty good flick. __________________ Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.

04-13-2004, 09:59 AM	#18 (permalink)
onodrim Cosmically Curious Location: Chicago, IL	Like others have said, if you'd enjoy it and you're good at it, why not? Just have some fun making money and paying for school. As for myself, I would never be able to. I think I would share Nikki's laughter problem. And I also agree that I'd have a much easier time being a stripper. That's probably because I'm a performance major, so dancing around on stage just comes kinda naturally to me. I just usually have my clothes on. I could use the extra money though, time to look up the strip clubs in the area... __________________ "The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides" -Carl Sagan

04-13-2004, 02:29 PM	#19 (permalink)
Rowan Tilted Location: The Great Northwest	I have actually worked in a strip club for about 6 months, and made good money for school, so I would totally recommend the phone sex thing. . .it's alot easier, you're safe, and the money is good. Good luck and have fun!

04-13-2004, 04:57 PM	#20 (permalink)
:::OshnSoul::: Guest	whatever you feel comfortable with- be true to yourself. That's what matters. Don't do anything you feel like you would regret later or feel uncomfortable with. It seems safe, afterall, you don't need to worry about rape or STD's or getting pregnant. But it's really up to you.

04-13-2004, 10:39 PM	#21 (permalink)
SparklingDot Insane	I would so try it out. Granted, I might not be very good at it. Then again, I don't have the guts to talk dirty to the guys I know, let alone my SO. I think it'd be an awesome opportunity to learn and to have fun. Besides, I'd learn where the MUTE button is in case of spontaneous laughter. __________________ 17 seconds is all you really need - Smashing Pumpkins

04-22-2004, 10:19 AM	#22 (permalink)
shytilwet Upright Location: Aussieland.	Yeah, go for it. If you want to feel dirty, sleazy and used. Maybe not @ the time but when you stop doing it. Good luck with whatever you decide.

04-24-2004, 07:15 PM	#23 (permalink)
Angel Naughty Just Right Location: Euphoria	I think if YOU are comfortable with it, there is no reason why you shouldn't. I have had tons of fun and pleasure before having phone sex with a couple of men I have dated. It is a personal pleasure that we endulged in when we were apart for any reason. However, I am certain I wouldn't be able to do it with a stranger. I am not one to "fake it" and I wouldn't be able to be convincing enough for them to get their money's worth. And on the stripping topic...I am quite modest to a certain degree. I could never strip in front of a room full of men or women. That show is reserved exclusively for my sweetie when I have reached a confident level of sharing my body with him. __________________ In the depth of winter, I finally learned that there was within me an invincible summer. ~Albert Camus

04-26-2004, 01:52 PM	#24 (permalink)
Redgirl Addict Location: Native America	Time for a report, fallenangel. Did you decide to do this? I really am curious what it's like, have also been considering it since you posted this. __________________ Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.

04-28-2004, 10:25 PM	#25 (permalink)
mydragonfido Crazy Location: Louisiana	Go for if you feel you could be comfortable doing it! Plus you may get some added fun from it.

04-29-2004, 07:23 AM	#26 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	Where can I join? That sounds like fun, and can get you some good money!

05-13-2004, 07:58 PM	#28 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	I'd find out about the clientelle. I'd bet there are some pretty twisted people that call phone sex lines. Where would you work out of? Many work out of their homes - if you have roommates or family - it could get weird if you share a phone line) Is there a cover job for a resume? ie Phone Sales (don't laugh -- it legitimately happens) What's expected out of you? (encourage customer to buy extras?) How to handle customer wanting to know your number to call you directly or your address because they love you and well -- they'd want to give you the money directly rather than the agency. It's the sex business -- what happens if a relative calls - or someone you know well Only you can answer the weird question, talking dirty to someone you know well is one thing, someone calling because they are lonely and are just using you to get their rocks off -- how would that make you feel? Your math teacher from 7th grade calls, you can't ever forget his voice and he wants you to spank his touchie --How do you think you'd react? How would you react to being called some pretty vulgar, degrading names (IMHO) for someone to get their rocks off -- you'd like to beleive it's only money, but there's a person on the other end of the phone talking to you... calling you those names. It's fun to think about in the fantasy aspect - but think about it really -- it's not just about money. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

05-14-2004, 10:25 AM	#29 (permalink)
fallenangel soaring Location: near the water	Ok ladies, in answer to Redgirl's PM, no, i still haven't decided to do this. I was considering it for extra cash, but job stuff is still being worked out with my other two jobs i'm working now and i'd like to get down to just one full time for now. Sooo, i'll let you know when i decide either way. I'm still humming and hawing about it. Thanks for the feedback though __________________ all I wanna do is - give the best of me to you

05-14-2004, 03:57 PM	#30 (permalink)
shannon Psycho Location: Canada	it's funny you say that. in one of my women's studies classes we did a section on sex work and by the end of it i saw no reason not to do phone sex. it's really quite safe and fun and the money would likely be good. still, it is your decision to make. let us know how things turn out for sure! __________________ "When I look down I just miss all the good stuff. And when I look up I just trip over things"

05-18-2004, 02:07 PM	#31 (permalink)
SixEdxMia <3 Peetster Location: Peetster's house.	WEll... thanks to the grand ol internet I researched this..Seems the average pay is around six or seven dollars an hour. Seems my calling pays less than Taco Bell...Harsh. www.gaylestaffing.com __________________ Honey,We're home.

06-14-2004, 09:46 AM	#32 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	I think that, out of all the possible ways of getting off, phone sex is definately one of the least amoral. IMHO the moral considerations here are whether it is breaking up the customer's relationships, that is, is he cheating by talking to you? I say, as close to "no" as anything. Think about it: there's porn, which is watching another person/people's bodies. That's very specifically tied to that person and the viewer's involvement is with him/her/them specifically which some women feel jealous about. There's stripping, which is just like porn but even more so because you are actually there with the man. He is even closer to you, and you are sharing even more of your body with him. Then there's prostitution and, well, that's cheating :P But phone sex, you aren't there, he can't see you, he has no idea what you look like and who you are. You have a level of anonymity that, I think, gives the both of you a lot of protection. His fantasies are entirely his own, you're just helping him out with making them seem real. So, I say, if you like it, go for it! __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.

06-14-2004, 10:52 PM	#33 (permalink)
Unga Crazy	haha I would totally go for it

06-15-2004, 12:07 AM	#34 (permalink)
Eclipse26 Tilted Location: My own private world	This is something I've done and it can be very good money. I will caution you, however. Phone sex can be tons of fun with the right guys, but you do get the callers who only get off on degrading you. Calling you names, asking you to bark, and just some different fetishes...stuff that's a pretty out there that they can't do with their SO. Though, some is pretty easy to deal with. For example, I had a guy who just wanted for me to pretend that he was washing and combing my hair and others that want you to smoke for them. Those calls are cake. Most calls, I felt pretty comfortable with, as I have some odd fetishes myself, but some calls can give you a strong distaste for certain types of men. Such as the guy who only gets off by calling you every possible variant of a dirty fucking whore. If you're comfortable with that, then great, but I know I struggled to not tell a few to go fuck themselves. It can be good money and offers awesome flexibility if you already have a full time day job...as I do. But you definitely have nights that you have to work for it. I cried after many a call. If you decide to do this, I have many tips I could offer...if you're interested. I could also recommend some reputable services...not all of them are good. Feel free to pose questions here, or PM me. __________________ What the damn

06-15-2004, 12:09 AM	#35 (permalink)
Ella Ella Bo Bella Location: Australia	I did it phone sex for about a year when I was in my early 20's and made a shitload of money, which I instantly pissed up against a wall (isn't that what usually happened in the late 80's?). Once I got the hang of it, the whole thing came really easily to me, and I could usually get a guy off in less than five minutes (although they had up to 30 mins, they rarely used the whole time. When they did, tho, it was a major pain in the ass). You can work in your trackies (sweatpants to you US dudes) and no make-up, although of course you describe your current state of dress as oh-so-sexy and alluring. You can tell tales and stories that no-one would ever know was false. And most importantly....it's dead easy to fake an orgasm. Easy money....if you're comfortable with that stuff. What creeped me out in the end was seeing a print out of all my customers over the 12 months I worked there...sometimes up to 30 a day. It was massive. I think that's when I realised enough was enough. I would never do it again. __________________ "Afterwards, the universe will explode for your pleasure."

06-18-2004, 10:00 AM	#36 (permalink)
Redgirl Addict Location: Native America	Thanks to both Eclipse and Ella for telling about your personal experiences. I was hoping some woman out there would be kind enough to share if they had ever done it. I am pretty curious about it because I would love to have such a flexible p/t job. I'm still considering it, maybe I'll PM you about it Eclipse. __________________ Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.

06-20-2004, 12:19 AM	#37 (permalink)
Eclipse26 Tilted Location: My own private world	Sounds good... You're welcome to any time. __________________ What the damn

06-22-2004, 02:48 AM	#39 (permalink)
Ella Ella Bo Bella Location: Australia	It's not too funny when you are alone...just kind of pedestrian, ya know? But we used to offer two girls at the same time, which was pretty popular with the fellas. And it would depend on what girl you were with as to how much you tried not to piss yourself laughing. It's hard to suppress laughter when you're faking an orgasm. __________________ "Afterwards, the universe will explode for your pleasure."

07-01-2004, 05:56 PM	#40 (permalink)
pinkie Helplessly hoping Location: Above the stars	I'd love doing it at first, and I'd probably get off on it too. At first, that is. Like every job, I imagine it can have its days that it'd be the last thing you'd ever want to do. Over time I can see it sucking ass. As a temporary thing, I'd say hell yeah though.