ally

I just have to ask!!!
I've been dating Greg700 for about six months now and we on average have sex at least twice a day. There are days like last night however when we can do it six times a night.
So I wonder how many times or how often everyone else gets lucky!!

SexyCat

I like to have it as much as possible, BUT my boyfriend lives kinda far away from me so I don't get as much as I would like.

When I do get it though it's the best!!

Minx

Oh brother....I would love to do it first thing in the morning, a quickie for lunch and again before bed if I could! Unfortunately due to circumstance right now we can only get together once a week but when we do it's AMAZING!

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cheerios

we live together... hmm it ranges from twice a day to once every 3 or 4, depending on how stressed/busy we both are. I burn out easily, so, while I feel bad pulling the "not now, honey, I'm tired" I do sometimes :/

Xapphire

When we're not sick like now He wakes me up with morning sex, comes home for quicky sex, and then wakes me up again when he comes to bed (after me because I fall asleep with the kiddos), so 3 times a day most days... We haven't had sex since Tuesday though since we both feel awful, and I just started my period, so it'll be a week before we have sex again Gonna curl up in his arms tonight after we get back from the movie and just enjoy him holding me. Blowjob tomorrow if my throat stops hurting, I hate not having any sexual contact with him.

So.. lots!

redrose2

Geeze... my bf lives 4 hours away and we get to see each other at most every weekend tho it's been usually two weeks between visits. We've gone 6 weeks once and that SUCKED, but it had to be done cause of college classes and cars in the shop. That is just SEEING EACH OTHER!! As for sex, well sexual contact. Everytime we get a chance. During those 3 to 4 days we spend together every 2 weeks, I would say we are in bed maybe half of the day, minus 8 hours for sleeping that's 4 hours of fooling. Anywho the shortest time between seeing each other and starting stuff is about 20 min when we met at a shopping mall and got reaquainted in a dressing room . Anyway I see how a lot of us have been putting down things like, once or twice a day. What I find as sad is girls who do that while they date but clam up after marraige. Check this site out if you don't believe me http://blogs.salon.com/0002153/stories/ . Anyway I certainly don't plan on becoming one of them casue the man I'm with is a gentleman true and true. About the only thing that ever COULD turn me off would be a beer gut the size of a bean bag or possibly being stressed out of my mind at work. Even then we would fix it for sure. All work and no play make "Jill" a dull girl.

sierra2774

Not nearly enough!

I would love to have it twice a day, I am very jealous of you all! But because of the situation I am in right now, it has been awhile. But I am hoping to change that very soon!

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G0dd3ss

My boy and I get it on pretty frequently, and it's always fabulous!!
I'd say we have sex about 7 or more times a week. Sometimes it's once a day, sometimes it's five. Some days I just need to recover. =D

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ally

Nice to see I'm not alone!!!! I think it's great that so many of you seem to be in great relatoinships.And I have to say that I agree with redrose2 I can't imagine ever giving up sex!!!

Somenosuke

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snowy

Not often enough. Just got out of a relationship so I'm going through a bit of a dry spell. Before that, it was maybe once a week. Depressing. If it were my choice...every single day! If not more!

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annie1

twice a day for me when were together but most often were in different places so its not that often that it happens... we try to make up for it though

SiN

hmm..i live with my bf, and i'd say anywhere from 2-3x a day to 4x a week, depending...(plus add a few sessions of masturbating together...)

mostly it just depends on if our parts/bodies are cooperating with us or not..rite now his penis hurts and i'm on my period, so...

overall i'm perfectly satisfied with it all. no complaints.

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Plummie

Sex is awesome.. me and honey have it as much as we can, which usually ends up being every day or every other day. =)

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*Nikki*

As often as possible when in a relationship.

~springrain

Okay... i'll be the "odd girl out" here...

Sometimes, it's everyday, a couple of times a day... and sometimes... it's only once a week.

I have three young children... three pets... and never seem to know whether i am coming or going (*laugh*, not be confused with CUMING or going).

ANYWAY... i sheepishly admit that sometimes he and/or i am just too damn tired to have sex. we always seem to fill in any "off time" with plenty of showers together, massages, cuddle time, picture taking, and other intimate activities... but i unfortunately, am not nearly as rich in that department as many of you all.

Atropos4

We also go in spurts...
Sometimes everyday but usually everyother day or every couple of days...to us ...quality is also more important than quanity....
When I don't feel like having sex (period week usually) I still give him blow jobs....
We found out that we can't go for two weeks without sex.
When I had my surgery they told me no sex for two weeks.
heh..I was going fucking nuts and so was he.
We only made it a week and 4 days.. and the week was only because of bleeding....
I caved on day 11
SO AMAZING!!!!

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raeanna74

On average once a day sometimes more. I think that's pretty good since we've been together for 5 years.

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darksparkles

heh, it used to be around once or twice a week but since my boyfriend got a new roomie and i still live with my parents we haven't had sex in around five weeks. haha, i'm dying!

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Xapphire

We have off periods too, I think I've just been having a really lucky 2 months going... I think it's about to go back to off and on, we still haven't had sex, but at least my throat stopped hurting enough that he got a blowjob.

darksparkles, do you guys go out on dates? dinner and a movie? take that 30, 40, 50 bucks and go get a room at a motel 6 and enjoy each others bodies instead. Jaid and I did this a week and a half ago, just so that we could get away from the kids and the house and everything else.
Yea it's only a motel 6, but to have peace and quiet and sex, while knowing that outside that room with the two of you, is not a house that needs to be cleaned, or a roommate or parents to bother you...

~springrain

Well said!

Willow and i haven't done that in years... but i remember how nice it was to wake up in the morning with just the two of us... tangled together... no kids... no "have-to's"...

thanks for the reminder Xap... i'll have to see what i can schedule with a babysitter... *smile*

Concertina

Wow...I feel frigid compared to some of you gals....hardly ever...

I could make excuses, but it all boils down to lack of desire on my part....

got any tips?

m

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redrose2

Try looking back on when you did have sex... Did you like it then? If so look for the same type of situations... maybe you are quite particular in the way you want it. Or if you didn't like it then examine that too. Was he too agressive, too timid. Learn from these shortcomings and look for guys who don't have them. Also make it worth something to you. Having sex just to have sex makes it more routine. As has been stated before, quality is better than quantity. Even a guy can agree with that simply by examining masterbation. He could masterbate every day and get a really weak orgasim each time. Or he could have sex once or twice a week that could blow his mind along with other things. I don't doubt that deep down inside you do want to have sex or atleast a sexual relationship. I've posted this link before, but you may want to look at it because it has some advice. Most of the tips are really for guys looking to rekindle the sexual relationship with their S.O.s, but there is some advice purely for girls to help themselves get back into the "swing" of things http://blogs.salon.com/0002153/stories/

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Concertina...

*soft smile* please don't feel bad... or frigid... like i said... we go in spurts. sometimes, we seem to be having sex all the time... and sometimes it's few and far between.

I think most all of us women go through periods in our life when our desire for sex wanes... especially as we get older. Our kids, hormonal shifts, stress, etc... they all play a part in it.

I went through a spell where sex was the very LAST thing on the planet that i wanted. Over time, my husband and i worked it through. It took a little bit of patience... a lot of communication... some creativity and the willingness to take some risks on my part... and my husbands undying patience and understanding.

You asked for suggestions?... this is such a tough one, becuase we are all so different, and needless to say, sex is such an intimate and personal thing... but here's what helped me:

When i felt desire-less... the thought of having to "perform" put a lot of stress on me. I so very much wanted to "be more" for my husband... and my own perceived "failure" was almost painful for me. My desire simply wasn't there.
We started really small... lots and showers and baths together... massages... stuff like that. Our rule was really simple -- lots of intimacy... no sex. Amazing how much that took the pressure off of me. After a little while... my comfort zone increased and my desire returned.

I know that's not that world winning advice... but it's something to try... if nothing else, you and your parnter remain close and intimate... the actual "sex" stuff can be worked out over time.

Hope some of this helps!
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Double D

I'm finding your reponses really interesting, as some of you seem younger and you remind me of back in the day when 2-3 times a night was the norm for me & my bf.

It's true about going thru cycles in your life that affect sex; two real biggies are the birth of children and ill health or surgery. Commitment & compassion towards one's partner really help during those times.

Anyway, to the question of how often I get lucky, well as much as I want. I am 43 now and for the past 2-3 years I've been a giant horn dog! I want it whenever, where ever. My husband, who is my age as well, seems to have slowed down- a lot. Ninety percent of the time it's me that initiates sex. Because of his schedule, he never gets enough sleep, and therefore I show him mercy once in a while but it's difficult sometimes. I end up masturbating 2-3 times on some days and tho' that's still fun, I prefer the warmth of his body.

BlueBongo

Can't say that it's as much as I'd like.. but with our weird sleeping patterns and schedules.. I suppose it happens when it can

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galaxygirl

Not often enough - only see i8 once or twice a week, but we do try to make up for it when we see each other!

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erin

not often enough,BUT,more than before...is it true women reach/hit their peak at 40? ...maybe that's it! horndog is a good word for it....lol

mew

Holy shit thats a lot of sex! 6 times in one day! ANIMALS! lol

my bf lives far away and when he comes down or i go up its usually round 6-8 times in 4 days..

warmingup2prose

*sigh* usually my boyfriends live far, far away...so not nearly often enough. however, when i catch a close one, it's whenever we can get together. (usually very busy, conflicting schedules.) congrats to you girls who get just what you want, no matter how often it is.

Amethyst

I like to have sex as much as possible. 4 or 5 times a day would satisfy me. But that doesn't seem to happen. Having two small childern makes that tough. So, we end up doing it 3 times a week sometimes more.

KayleighJolie

Wow, I guess i'm the "odd woman out". My bf and I have sex once or twice a week; sometimes less because we don't live together and we both work full time jobs with different hours. I, personally, don't want it every day. Then again, maybe I would if we lived together.

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alisa

we have sex about 4 or 5 times a week. i work days and he works nights so it is hard to do it every day...

motdakasha

Unfortunately, I haven't been in a steady relationship for a while. The few men I've dated recently didn't last longer than a month for several reasons. Lately though, some sort of friends-with-benefits thing has been developing and hopefully that will go somewhere, though I don't know where.
I don't think I've had regular sex for 1.5 years or more. I miss it.

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dawnylou

As much as possible!!!


Unfortunately not as much as I would like though as we both live with our parents still and often work opposite shifts!

Next week will be fantastic though as his parents are away and we are both doing a 'normal' shift!

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Apache

I would say my hubby and i do it atleast 5 times a week, and unless it's a weekend or something it's only once a day but its like we can forever while we're going at it. I don't think I could handle it more than that!!!!!!!!