I'm finding your reponses really interesting, as some of you seem younger and you remind me of back in the day when 2-3 times a night was the norm for me & my bf.
It's true about going thru cycles in your life that affect sex; two real biggies are the birth of children and ill health or surgery. Commitment & compassion towards one's partner really help during those times.
Anyway, to the question of how often I get lucky, well as much as I want. I am 43 now and for the past 2-3 years I've been a giant horn dog! I want it whenever, where ever. My husband, who is my age as well, seems to have slowed down- a lot. Ninety percent of the time it's me that initiates sex. Because of his schedule, he never gets enough sleep, and therefore I show him mercy once in a while
but it's difficult sometimes. I end up masturbating 2-3 times on some days and tho' that's still fun, I prefer the warmth of his body.