thebends

alright, so i'm very new to this forum, and i have a feeling this subject has been brought up before.
but!
bitch be peeing?
i've been watching videos of these so called female ejaculations. i've looked it up on wikipedia (which states it's still in debate) and i've tried it myself.
so really...peeing?
in the videos it looks like it comes straight from the urethra. which i thought, okay...that means pee.
but!
as the all mighty wiki declairs that's the clear fluid of female ejaculation.
like i said i've tried this myself with no evail. true, gushing, definitely. squirting? not *yet*
but! (yet, again)
i've recently been watching the ~how to~ videos and you are supposed to push down during orgasm.
so alright, i don't push down. naturally, it's to squeeze. so i tried this pushing down once, and found it actually lessened the orgasm.
oh but i will try again.
of course i have male friends who have said they've made girls "squirt"

but the real (sorry, BUT!) question i'm asking is to the women not in the pornos:

squirt? have you?
am i wasting my time?

savmesom11

As you mentioned earlier, this subject is up for debate. I personally have studied human anatomy and am not aware of any true biological way this can be done but I am not an expert. It has never happened to me nor has it happened to any of my close girl friends. But lots of stuff hasn't happened to me and I still believe that it's possible. Heck, I think the fun in challenging the debate is the practice

Keep us posted on your progress...if that isn't too creepy

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lostgirl

I have never squirted, I don't think I can. I have gotten really wet, to the point of leaving a wet spot behind.

I have a friend who says she is a squirter, and she says it is definitely not pee.

I remember a friend telling me about when he gave a girl oral sex back in high school. He asked me if it was normal for a girl to pee on you when she got an orgasm.

I'm not sure what it is, but I wouldn't think it was impossible that it is female cum.

ohsweetjebus

My friend says she has done it before... not alot... just sorta happens... I myself, never...

*Nikki*

Never happened to me.

I get wet enough to leave a spot at times. I have to be really really turned on though.

snowy

There is a structure in the urethral region that can cause the phenomenon known as squirting, and when you see a woman squirting from what looks like her urethra, you're actually seeing fluid being released from her Skene's gland. Studies of Skene's gland shows that they are in slightly different locations on different women, and in some cases, missing entirely.

When you get really wet, those are your Bartholin's glands doing their job.

I've definitely squirted from my Skene's gland before. It's not urine, nor is it a vaginal secretion. It's different.

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44phoenix

I've never done it, but have read that it's possible to learn. You can go to liberator.com and see a video that teaches you how to do it. I'm also curious about doing it, but can't seem to relax enough. I really don't want to have to think about having an orgasm.

Lindy

I think it's a myth. Just another way to get women to live up to some kind of male model. Although I can get pretty wet (as others have said) I think its nice to be able to masturbate and cum without making a big mess like men do.

Lindy

KarrB

Can't relate to the squirt!

Texas Raven

I am a man. I forgot that I shouldn't post in the Ladies Lounge.

mth78

Well, whenever any of you accomplish this master feat, be sure to post pics or video. I wish thee luck.

Also, holy shit karr8, have you posted in enough of the ladies lounge threads? I just looked and you were the last post in literally every thread I could see.

snowy

Yeah, pretty sure it's not something I want to share with others (except my significant other, that is).

It happened again on Friday night! It seems to happen most often when I'm on top and can get him to stroke this one spot juuussstriiiight. It makes quite a mess, though; I'm not sure it's something I would want to happen all the time.

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Janey

Is it a pleasurable mess? I mean, similar to ejaculate all over you, it's the issue of the moment, and therefore enjoyable. Or is it annoying and causes embarrasment and cleanup issues?

I woiuld love to experience it sometime myself.

snowy

According to the guys I've been with, it's a pleasurable mess, yes. Usually it leads to more fun in the shower.

But I don't really care for messy sex on a regular basis. It's something I like to save for special occasions.

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anti fishstick

bleh, this is a touchy subject for me because the first time i heard about this and began to 'research' and try myself, i was able to squirt! i got to where i could squirt everytime i had vaginal intercourse, and even when my lover at the time fingered me..

the key for me was to just let go of ALL inhibition. because there is this feeling i get before orgasm... if i hold back this feeling, i won't be able to squirt. if i let go and give my complete control over to my orgasm, i can squirt. i got to psyching myself out about it being pee, and paranoid, etc. that i could no longer squirt except VERY rarely..

i would like to be able to squirt every time again..
unfortunately, it is REALLY messy and i didn't like dealing with it, even when towels were set up underneath us.. i'm sure this had a lot to do with it as well.

even if it is pee, who cares?

it's still really hot and these were the best sex of my life... my 'peak' only lasted a month though, before i was back to 'normal' sex.
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speaking from personal experience, it is definitely NOT a myth!! it's actually quite amazing and wonderous and awesome. i'd love to do it on a regular basis a good resource book is "Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot". Well, I haven't read it, but i've been told it's good and a local female-friendly sex shop sells it and ays so :P

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raeanna74

You mentioned gushing as well as squirting. Were you referring to a moment when you could feel yourself getting really wet? Just not spraying like if you had peed?

I have never 'sprayed' when I squirted. I have gushed more. A lot of it has to do with what is being stimulated. I can have orgasms with or without it.

If your guy knows you really well and is willing to pay attention to what makes you feel good then you'll likely have better success. I have never squirted so many times as I have with my current SO. He actually pays attention to what feels good to me. Makes a world of difference.

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Falconclaw240

In my personal exp I've always made just as much of a mess as a man when I come. (in fact I think its often more than my SO -.- ) whether its masterbating or with my partner. When its with him, i do squirt, but I would have to guess its just a lot of the same fluid at once, definately not pee. nothing mystical to it lol =) its just I have more intense ones with him, and i believe it is just the extra stimulation that does it.

ally_cat

I squirt sometimes, .but I'm not really sure it's something you can learn. It's always happened kind of out of nowhere to me-I'm not expecting it to happen, then next thing you know we're laying in a giant puddle. To be honest, I have absolutely no idea why it happens sometimes but not others, even in the same position. Also, whether or not I squirt seems to have little to no relation to how intense my orgasm is-I've had incredible orgasms without squirting, and there have been other times when I have, and sure, it was fun, but by no means the best sex ever.

SheDevil

Love that squirt!!! Wow, the many ways women can have fun with orgasms! It almost seems unfair for the guys, doesn’t it? I mean, we can have both clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Not to mention, “multiple” orgasms! For the guys its either premature ejaculation or normal and sometimes, “hard worked for” ejaculation…lol! Either way its usually over after he, “busts a nut.” Also, the vagina is much more sensitive than the penis! There is really nothing like a well maintained vagina for hours of fun and excitement! It truly is, “better than chocolate!” LOL!

Tiny Dancer

But when you combine vagina and chocolate together, that is just then the best. Creativity is always welcomed with that. (SheDevil).

But I've personally have never squirted and I don't really have the desire to.

newlyable

This has happened to me several times. To me it feels like a pressure release and a big mess. I have alot of sexual issues though, I can only orgasim clitorally, and only with a vibrator. Sometimes I think I am broken, lol. I have tried everything you can think of, I think for me it's simply impossible.

Altavoz

There's nothing wrong with only being able to orgasm clitorally. It's perfectly normal! Vaginal and G-spot orgasms are very rare and take a LOT of effort and you have to be VERY turned on. I've never gotten off any other way than clitorally, and that's good enough for me!

little_tippler

I am able to have both clitoral and vaginal orgasms, but the latter took me years to work out. They are great but don't come off easily. I have never squirted but somehow, though it sounds like it could feel pretty good, I'm not that curious. One of us making a mess is enough for me! I don't think it's a myth though.

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ngdawg

The last time I went to my Dr. for my routine check-up, she made the comment "Your vaginal walls are thin and very dry." I responded with a chuckle, "That's because I'm not thinking good thoughts right now."
Had she been in my den last night, she'd have gotten some in the eye.(alas, I was alone)
Must say, I was damned proud of myself...over 50 and still messing up the sofa.

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qtpye4u84

I have a few times but I wasn't sure if I really had a g-spot org or if i peed. I was using my toy like normal only on the outside, I then decided to grab another toy that I have and use it on the inside which I never do it just isn't fun for me. So when I had a orgasm I turned off the toy I was using for clitoral then when I took out my blue one some stuff came out which I thought was pee so I freaked out and went and cleaned my sheets,
I don't think it was pee cause pee is yellow and this had no color or no smell, so I went online to look it up and I guess it could of been a g-spot org.
I am pregnant and I decided to please my self just on the outside and I almost gave up cause it was taking way to long and I felt a lot of pressure down there so I thought i was having a Braxton Hick's or some thing but by the time I got a orgasm I squirted and ever since I haven't tried to please my self during my pregnancy. I don't like it I mean it feels good but the squirting part makes me feel like I peed cause I thought maybe if u don't stop after you orgasm right away maybe it makes u pee and its not a g-spot thing I don't know I'm just confused.

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JustDoll

It seems kinda random that its been a while since i've posted (as TFP has reminded me as i logged in) and the first thread i post on is on 'squirting'
But I find this really interesting that , I don't know if i consider myself a squirter, I can't squirt across the room, BUT maybe 10 -15 cm? After my boyfriend found out a way to make me squirt that ONE time, his goal everytime now is aimed towards making me squirt (which is basically orgasm for me), so im not complaining :P
And i want to confirm that its definitely not pee! =) It does make a bit of a mess on the bed, but its odorless and colourless, for me anyway....
What about you ladies, same odorless/colourless as well?

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ametc

I've squirted a few times.. I don't know how I did it though! They've all happened while masturbating on a chair... so try that.

The Fluffy One

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Ella

I have tried to squirt with previous lovers through them stimulating my g-spot - with no success.

I had success with my husband - the first time we discovered I could squirt was amazing! Now I have good control over it - if I want a squirting session, we set towels up under him (at least 2), and I ride him reverse doggy style. That works well for us due to the bendy bit in his cock. Sometimes I spray, sometimes I gush! It's an incredible feeling, but quite draining.

I usually also squirt if he fingers me from behind, doggy style.

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ametc

Maybe it changes according to the shape of your vaginal canal. hmm

whatsit

I got a new g-spot stimulator toy and I found out I can squirt, but it smells-ish, so I'm a little grossed out and wondering whether it really is squirting stuff or just pee. It was like, FWOOSH.

raeanna74

Usually when you are being stimulated your body does not allow you to pee. Just try it sometime while you are on the toilet. It's practically impossible to pee on purpose when you are being stimulated. I don't know about the smell-ish thing. I've never noticed that mine smells but that's not saying that someone elses squirt would have an slight odor. I do know that personally if I notice much of an odor in general down there (not speaking of squirting specifically) it's usually not a good sign - more like a sign of BV - but even then it's a distinctly fishy odor.

So there's my 2 cents. Enjoy your new toy.

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lostgirl

I am going to feel stupid for asking, but what is BV?

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lostgirl

Thanks.

I should have know that. I have just never heard of it referred to as BV. It's what is often known as a yeast infection right?

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snowy

No. BV is different--it's caused by bacteria, whereas a yeast infection is caused by an overgrowth of any of the yeast genus Candida, which is technically a fungus.

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lostgirl

Okay, thanks. I wasn't aware there were different infections besides a yeast infection.

Now I know.... and knowing is half the battle!

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snowy

Yes!

And as raeanna said, the two have very different smells, so you'll know the difference if it ever happens.

Squirting sometimes does have a different smell than regular vaginal secretions, because the fluids involved in squirting typically come from the Skene's glands:
Skene's gland - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

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raeanna74

Actually if you read at the CDC's website, Bacterial Vaginosis is actually more common than Yeast infections. It is not uncommon for the two infections to occur at the same time even. Just be sure to get yourself to a doc if you notice the odor I mentioned since BV can't be gotten rid of without antibactirials.

Thanks for the tidbit snowy. Good info to know.

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NorthernGirl

if a guy cant handle a little pee, he needs to grow up , sex can get messy and dirty, but that means youre really enjoying it , go hard or go home