bleh, this is a touchy subject for me because the first time i heard about this and began to 'research' and try myself, i was able to squirt! i got to where i could squirt everytime i had vaginal intercourse, and even when my lover at the time fingered me..
the key for me was to just let go of ALL inhibition. because there is this feeling i get before orgasm... if i hold back this feeling, i won't be able to squirt. if i let go and give my complete control over to my orgasm, i can squirt. i got to psyching myself out about it being pee, and paranoid, etc. that i could no longer squirt except VERY rarely..
i would like to be able to squirt every time again..
unfortunately, it is REALLY messy and i didn't like dealing with it, even when towels were set up underneath us.. i'm sure this had a lot to do with it as well.
even if it is pee, who cares?
it's still really hot and these were the best sex of my life... my 'peak' only lasted a month though, before i was back to 'normal' sex.
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Originally Posted by Lindy
I think it's a myth. Just another way to get women to live up to some kind of male model. Although I can get pretty wet (as others have said) I think its nice to be able to masturbate and cum without making a big mess like men do.
Lindy
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speaking from personal experience, it is definitely NOT a myth!! it's actually quite amazing and wonderous and awesome. i'd love to do it on a regular basis
a good resource book is "Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot". Well, I haven't read it, but i've been told it's good and a local female-friendly sex shop sells it and ays so :P