XtinaHollywood

hey girls?

the whole husband in a dress thing got me thinking...what's the strangest request you've had from a guy?

i think mine would have to be to...um..."tickle" his behind while i was down there. has anyone else had this request? i was a little weirded out and didn't want to because hello! of what it might smell like, so i didn't, but is this weird?

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jewels

It probably seems weird until you've done it. Are you referring to the prostate area? A lot of men enjoy being touched, stroked or massaged, finger up the ass ... anything anywhere from the ass forward.

I guess I don't think it's weird because if it's a man that pleases me, I want to give him at least as much pleasure as he gives me. If you know your guy is clean, no worries.

I can't say that I've been asked to do anything I would consider strange.

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ÐiGiRed

I'm can really think of ever having a strange request from a guy. But I've always thought it was kind of weird that almost every time I'm with an older guy he always seems to have that daddy/daughter - teacher/student fantasy. Which makes me wonder if the only reason they wanted to be with me in the first place is cause I look a lot younger than I am...

..and the only other thing would be this one guy that I've never slept with.. but used to talk to online. Had this whole pirate w/ a foot fetish thing going on. Oh.. and stockings.. can't forget those.. he'd bug me, and bug me to paint my nails red (had to be red) and take pics of my legs and feet...

Never did though... and I don't talk to that guy anymore either. lol

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girldetective

The most unusual thing Ive been asked was to be my friend J's "poker bitch" - to dress provocatively and attend his poker tournament to distract another player. I went with him but in all fairness to the game did no distracting. As I pointed out to J, if one is a good poker player one wont be distracted. Besides, it felt like cheating in some way.

Although I have never slept with J (and I never will) Im sure he would have the most creative as well as disgusting things to do. Its just his nature.

Tpop once mentioned wiping my ass, but I laughed and told him I could only take the Daddy thing so far. I draw the line at shit.

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creepysusie

My boyfriend wanted to put a frozen pizza box on his head during the act.
When I said no and he turned out all the lights, it was on his head.

genuinegirly

That's definitely odd! ROFL

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ÐiGiRed

Very strange indeed.

Ya know, I like pizza just as much as the next person.. but that's a bit much. lol

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settie

Haha! That is the strangest thing I heard...a pizza box. hehe. :P
The strangest thing I've been asked to do is teabagging. At first I thought he was joking, but he was curious and so shy/embarrassed, it was kind of cute actually. As jewels said, I want to please my man any way I can when he takes the time to please me...so I did it. It was kinda fun actually...

genuinegirly

I had to look this one up.

Urban Dictionary's definition of teabagging:

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*Nikki*

I think tea bagging is demeaning.....

The pizza box thing has got that beat though.

settie

*shrugs* and I think anal sex is one of the most perverse forms of sexual gratification out there. (But then again, being a scholar on anatomy/physiology of the human body, and of bacteriology/virology, I know what harm anal sex does to someone's colon. That information alone turns me off from it.) Your point is? Think about what you say Nikki...

I would never put myself into a sexual situation where I cannot stop it if I feel uncomfortable. You don't know the guy I'm talking about, nor me. Everyone tries new things when it comes to sex... eventually, at least. This experience was just one of those times, and it was fun! The best part about it is, you're really in control. A guy's not going to be comfortable doing that (especially not doing it fast!) when there's teeth involved, he'd be on the floor curled up in a ball so fast! haha.

Sorry if I sound defensive, but that comment kind of hit a nerve, kind of made me feel like a dirty slut.

creepysusie

I'm not big into anal either. It's where the poo comes from. I mean, if my guy wanted it, I'm game for anythign within reason at least once.

Yeah, the worst part of the Pizza box was that he turned off all the lights so i couldn't see a thing, and the first position we were in did not have lots of face to face interaction, so when we switched positions, i was shocked. I mean, imagine in the middle of lovemaking and you felt a pizza box on his head.

It was funny. I mean, I was laughing during sex. But hey, sex is supposed to be fun, eh?

savmesom11

ROFL - I used to play in a dart league with my UNCLE and he used to request the same thing.....funny how men will do silly things to try to gain an advantage!

I was a little offended for you also. Many women lick/suck/kiss their man's nuts when giving a blow job so how tea bagging is any different than that, besides the position was odd to me...

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little_tippler

I so could not do that pizza box thing...I mean why did he like that? Don't even want to let my imagination go there lol

Edit: Oh yeah, i'm pretty tame sexually so I don't think anyone's ever asked me for anything outside of what I know already, nothing shocking or noteworthy here

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creepysusie

ha ha

Yeah, it was really just being silly. It was a shock, i can tell you that. I'm not that adventurous either, but we are cool enough that we are ok with making fools of eachother infront of one another. And heck, it makes one hell of a story when sharing "What's the worst thing he has ever done" stories

Sharon

I once got asked to act like a little girl while he tried to touch me. It was just as creepy as it sounds and still gives me the shivers to think about it.

Ok, I'm curious... how does it harm your colon?

creepysusie

Oooo, acting like a little girl is borderline pedophilic
*shudders*

Shaindra

I had a guy who wanted to dress me up slutty and watch the guys hit on me. Does that count?

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I think about everything I say/type here. That was just my opinion and when you post info about yourself publicly you are subject to many different types of opinions. It had nothing to do with you personally, just my feelings on the matter.

creepysusie

My philosophy is "I'm game for anything once within reason"
What someone may find to be out of their comfort zone is clearly not the same for everyone else. I don't think, Settie, you have anything to worry about. I have things that I am willing to do, such at "tea bagging" but I refuse to give a facial because I find one more demeaning than the other. (i'm afraid it will get in my eyes)
I have a friend who finds giving oral sex is disgusting because, as she puts it "that's where the pee comes from". We aren't here to judge one another.

panky777

Having sex during my period with this guy has happened without planning before but he was requesting a date to do it only while I was on. I said what? He said "I want to plan a date to spend a couple days with you and make love as much as we can while your having your period." What he didn't know was that I have a girl friend who likes the same thing, she and I are heavy bleeders and our periods overlap. She and I discovered this by coincidence and experimented with it for a couple years. Now we really enjoy our special time together. The three of us finally got together and it ended up looking like a murder scene. It was definitely shower time after that. I don't know if the guy friend was exactly ready for all that happened cause he has never requested it again and it's been nearly 5 months.

SabrinaFair

I suppose the weirdest request I've ever received was from an ex-boyfriend who asked me to finger his ass...not that unusual, except he wanted me to wear rubber gloves while I was doing it....

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anti fishstick

i don't really have any good ones. the only one i can think of didn't even lead to action. but he would just be surfing internet sites at gothic/anime/leather/japanese lolita type outfits and show me ones he thought i would look hot in. i guess that's not all too strange. rather boring actually. specially since we didn't get anywhere with that... would have loved to buy some of those and dress up for him.

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snowy

That sounds fun! Too bad you didn't get to try it, but there's always the future to look forward to

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stellabella1978

My boyfriend is always looking for a threesome with another girl or even a guy. I'm don't have a problem with most other stuff, but I don't like the idea of bringing another personality into the bedroom.

Janey

how can the pizza box stay on? how did he balance it without it sliding off? I thought anal was pretty mainstream as well. Also, I didn't know that i was teabagging until just now. But anyways, the oral act is fairly intimate, and I don't think that it should be constrained to specific body locations.

Strangest for me? outdoors. public, i.e. picnic table in the afternoon: Old Mill park if anybody from around here knows it, as well as the roof top park of the Sheppard Centre (when it was there).