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cptgreedle · 10-17-2005, 12:30 PM

I say tell her you enjoyed it. Make sure she knows that even though it was kinda embarrasing, it was also kinda nice. See if you can "return the favor".

Cimarron29414 · 10-17-2005, 01:35 PM

21 days since the first post. That's like 3 years in "College Sex Years". We need an update. Have we moved forward a bit, or still enjoying the ride, as it were?

aa1037 · 10-19-2005, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414

21 days since the first post. That's like 3 years in "College Sex Years". We need an update. Have we moved forward a bit, or still enjoying the ride, as it were?

Haha no nothing has really changed yet in what we do, but that also has to do with we only really get to really hang out for extended periods of time on the weekend, and a lot of the time we are both so tired from the busy ass weeks we had that we wind up just passing out after a short make out session, which is fine by me!

It doesn't bothor me if nothing has really progressed sexually even though I'm ready. We are progressing in other ways, and I know she's confident enough to make it known when she is ready.

aa1037 · 10-19-2005, 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by drewpy

hey aa1037 -

everybody has been focusing on your getting off - but - I have'nt heard anybody comment on whether she got off/gets off on the dry humping. Seems like from what you described, she was the one on top doing the grinding. With this thought in mind - like every other good TFP commentary - I say communicate - but realize that her grinding is a good form of communication. Build upon that patiently, as you are. However, I wouldn't try to push the verbal "let's have a discussion about our dry humping over a cup of coffee" approach - rather look to non-verbal signals such as lovingly hugging after a spiriting grinding session, or eye contact that says how much you appreciate the obvious closeness - in addtion to the appeciative and affirming comments you no doubt generally are already making ...

I agree with a lot of this here - the communication isn't always verbal, as it's easy to take physical cues too

nightstuff · 10-20-2005, 06:07 AM

Right, what I can add is to go with the flow like you seem to be doing, but dont be afraid to be assertive and push things to the limit, especially when it gets hot. Was "my first" that gave me the invaluable advice: Never ask persmission, just keep going until she says stop.

Something that I enjoy doing which can get things rolling for both of us is whispering things in her ear, when I'm sure she's steamy, hinting how sexy she is and what id like to be doing to/with her. Like this:
"this is getting me so hot for you"
*more kissing, nibbling, ...*
"you know what I'd love?"
[wait for her response]
"I'd love to be inside you, right now"

No matter what happens next, those words will be echoing in her head for a long time to come, and thats not bad either.

good luck

Titan_Uranus · 10-21-2005, 03:36 AM

I agree with drewpy the both you got off,so stop faking the funk & start speaking up.

aa1037 · 10-31-2005, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414

21 days since the first post. That's like 3 years in "College Sex Years". We need an update. Have we moved forward a bit, or still enjoying the ride, as it were?

Still enjoyin the ride

HiWayMan · 11-02-2005, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414

Once you break the seal, so to speak, you won't ever go back to this sort of fun. You will miss it, on some levels, once it's gone.

Truer words have never been spoken. Funny that as good as the sex is with my fiance, I sometimes yearn for a good make out session like when we first started dating. Something about all that adrenaline and your heart about to burst from your chest. Yep, good stuff.

Mantus · 11-02-2005, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by HiWayMan

Truer words have never been spoken. Funny that as good as the sex is with my fiance, I sometimes yearn for a good make out session like when we first started dating. Something about all that adrenaline and your heart about to burst from your chest. Yep, good stuff.

Make a game of it! Tell your girl that the two of you should try to turn each other on as MUCH as possible but you can't take your pants off no matter what. Try it. It's really fun. It's also a great teaching tool because it forces you to try new things and you might be amazed at what you can discover above the belt

10-17-2005, 12:30 PM	#41 (permalink)
cptgreedle Upright Location: Earth	I say tell her you enjoyed it. Make sure she knows that even though it was kinda embarrasing, it was also kinda nice. See if you can "return the favor". __________________ Once I stopped to think, and forgot to start up again.

10-17-2005, 01:35 PM	#42 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	21 days since the first post. That's like 3 years in "College Sex Years". We need an update. Have we moved forward a bit, or still enjoying the ride, as it were? __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly."

10-20-2005, 06:07 AM	#45 (permalink)
nightstuff Tilted Location: where polar bears walk the streets	Right, what I can add is to go with the flow like you seem to be doing, but dont be afraid to be assertive and push things to the limit, especially when it gets hot. Was "my first" that gave me the invaluable advice: Never ask persmission, just keep going until she says stop. Something that I enjoy doing which can get things rolling for both of us is whispering things in her ear, when I'm sure she's steamy, hinting how sexy she is and what id like to be doing to/with her. Like this: "this is getting me so hot for you" more kissing, nibbling, ... "you know what I'd love?" [wait for her response] "I'd love to be inside you, right now" No matter what happens next, those words will be echoing in her head for a long time to come, and thats not bad either. good luck

10-21-2005, 03:36 AM	#46 (permalink)
Titan_Uranus Insane Location: South Africa	I agree with drewpy the both you got off,so stop faking the funk & start speaking up.