Originally Posted by drewpy

hey aa1037 -

everybody has been focusing on your getting off - but - I have'nt heard anybody comment on whether she got off/gets off on the dry humping. Seems like from what you described, she was the one on top doing the grinding. With this thought in mind - like every other good TFP commentary - I say communicate - but realize that her grinding is a good form of communication. Build upon that patiently, as you are. However, I wouldn't try to push the verbal "let's have a discussion about our dry humping over a cup of coffee" approach - rather look to non-verbal signals such as lovingly hugging after a spiriting grinding session, or eye contact that says how much you appreciate the obvious closeness - in addtion to the appeciative and affirming comments you no doubt generally are already making ...