cellophanedeity

(I've never started a thread before, and I searched to find this before, but I hadn't. Sorry if I'm duplicating here.)

I orgasm often and hard. It doesn't take much time at all for my love to get me off, and I'll usually come a bunch of times before he does. This is great, but the problem is that I get too wet. I drip everywhere and I get so well lubed that there's next to no friction for him. Most of the time we need to take a break for me to give him head before I dry up more. He loves that I get so wet, but we both agree it can hinder the feeling.

So here's the question: Is there any way to not get so damn wet?

PDOUBLEOP

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I never knew there was such as thing as "too wet" hmm....

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ShaniFaye

I used to think I had that problem, cause I get really really really wet....I've talked to hundreds of guys, literally (magic of the internet) and they all told me....there is no such thing so I cant offer any "advice" I can only tell you that coming from the same place I've been told repeatedly its not a problem....all it means is that I dont have to budget lube into my expenses

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liquidlight

In an attempt to be slightly more constructive I'll add that personally speaking some of my best experiences have been with very wet women, but if it's a concern you could try to isolate a couple of things. Like does it seem to correlate with how well hydrated you are? There are certian medications like diuretics that can increase your fluid output and if you're taking anything you could check with your doctor for alternatives, also you could check with your OB/BYN to see if it something that he/she has encountered before, after all I'm just some dude on TFP.

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Redlemon

My only two thoughts would be (1) Kegel exercises and (2) try other positions to see if there's more friction in one of them.

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I'd never heard of anyone having that problem before.

Glory's Sun

Redlemon is right on with this. I dated a girl that had a similar.. um "function"(?) as you. Different positions offer different levels of friction. The one that worked the best for us was us on our sides, me behind her, and me holding her top leg in the air. (I don't know the name of it but it's a common position) Throw in Kegel exercises and you can't go wrong

snowy

I'm also really, really wet and I'll have to throw in my agreement for the Kegel exercises. I can grasp him with my muscles and bring myself off easily this way while increasing friction for him (the first time I did this with my current lover he was like, HOLY SHIT! What can I say...I have really strong vaginal muscles, hehe) which he loves. Also, if he doesn't mind getting a little messy, girl on top can increase the friction as the wetness tends to...migrate. He will end up with a puddle, but a real man doesn't mind that.

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SonnyBono

My SO is the same way. She can really clench when she gets close and it really accelerates things. It really does help the wetness when she is on top, although I do get a bit messy. At least it's on me and not on the bed so we don't have to change the sheets as often.

kramus

If you'll excuse the phrase I'd say go with the flow. Get your hand involved in rubbing the base of his unit and the scrotal area - good when doing the cowgirl or that doggie thing Even lightly "scritch" with fingernails. It'll be juicy enough for him to enjoy hands on for sure. Also opening your mouth and making moist inviting sounds can help - guys are very visual. While taking your "head" break you might try giving him vaginal kisses up and down his leg/shin and ride the top of his foot. Stay vocal and keep up lots of showtime eye contact and he'll enjoy the multi media event so much any slick willie issues with over-wet womanhood will vanish.

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Gatorade Frost

That's unfortunate for him.

My girlfriend's like that some times, and for me it's kind of a blessing because I've always found it felt better, and because of the lack of serious friction it's good for her and I last a lot longer then normal (Yeah, I'm a quick one).

I also like the excessive amount of wetness that gets on stuff. I've had my pants soaked through when she was that wet, and to me, that's extremely hot.

I guess the excessive wet-ness was just made for me.

degrawj

yes, you get REALLY wet. and that's a VERY good thing. :-) i don't think there is such a thing as being too wet. i understand that that there would be less friction, but that just means having to use more ingenuity during sex. finding things that will work to help your SO get off. to me, that's the most fun part about sex: experimenting. :-)

cellophanedeity

Thankyou so much! I didn't expect this much response so fast.

Just to clarify, the sex is still great. We both enjoy it. I just figure that whatever one can try to make it better is for the best!

(kegals are awesome, but in the moment you sort of forget to squeeze, and the positions just make it worse Merci merci merci!!)

gar1976

How is this a problem? I'd be really into it. Just enjoy what nature gave you.

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Aladdin Sane

Have a soft towel handy. Just stop every so often and dry off his penis and your vagina.

Are you really able to cum from just vaginal stimulation? You are really a rare bird indeed. Most girlies need more than the old in out to cum. Count yourself lucky, and never let your bf forget how lucky he is to have you.

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fluster

I agree with most people here. It is a blessing to have plenty of natural lubrication. As for the lack of friction, I think Aladdin's suggestion is a good one. I have also heard of people using honey to add a bit more friction. Apparently it is fairly safe and has the added bonus of tasting good!

ruggerp11

I had an ex who would literally drip when she got off of me, totally soaked her couch every time, which was a little gross but we put a towel down after a while. Once I happened to be hitting just the right spot and she went nuts, I could feel it pouring down me. Didn't really bother me at all though I understand about the less friction. I would take her from behind with her legs together and that always helped.

Have fun with it man, better than drying up!

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cellophanedeity

Ooh! Towels would be much better than tissues. *feels dumb that she hadn't thought of it before* And yes, I can come just from vaginal stimulation

Samalie

Happens every now and then with the wife.

We're just inventive when it does. Move around, change positions, use a towel if absolutely necessary, etc.

The only real disadvantage I've seen once is by just "keeping plugging" we wore ourselves down completely, unable to move for days. Which wouldn't be bad, but we have kids to take care of in the daytime

JamesB

As some have mentioned (and others thought) this is generally a blessing . If your SO is on birthcontrol, perhaps the brand is causing an increase in vaginal secretions due to hormone proportions .. perhaps see a gyn. if it is really worrisome.

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dbh

Another vote for experimenting with positions. Try lying on your back with your legs closed and rotated to one side with him kneeling low in front of you like missionary. Also go from behind with you on your belly with your legs closed and him behind you straddling your thighs. Not sure if I'm explaining that well...it provides plenty of friction though if you get positioned right!!

cellophanedeity

That's exactly what we do in the uberwet sessions! *laughs* I will need to try to remember to try the other position as well.

Cimarron29414

That position is one of our favorites. It does produce the right friction. I have also found that positions that force my member down create a better sensation for me. So if she is on top and leans back, that's better. If I am in the position described above and sit up (a bit) it helps with sensation. As many have said "Kegel". Hey, you have to sit at your desk all day anyway, might as well do something constructive!

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analog

In all honesty, I can't say there's such a thing as "too wet".

My $0.02

PDOUBLEOP

I just checked back on this thread and saw my comment was removed. I apologize if I was rude. I didn't intend to be mean. I was just in a goofy mood.

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portereight

Check with a doctor or pharmacist before trying this, but I think that some otc nasal decongestants can increase vaginal dryness. This would usually be a side effect, but in your case it might help used sparingly and infrequently.
Word of warning. Unless directed otherwise by a physician never take a decongestant for more than a few days. Due to pharmacological magic that I do not understand, overuse of a nasal decongestant will lead to the very same sinus problem that they initially relieve.
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HAL3000

I am brand new here, glad to comment though. I agree with Aladdin Sane... a soft towel can do wonders. My wife and I have experienced similar issues, nothing bad, but she said she would enjoy things more if she weren't SO damn lubricated.

A soft towel to gently dry her a bit inbetween position changes does wonders.

Hope this helps!

doncalypso

There's no such a thing as a pussy that's too wet.... It can be too loose, but never too wet.

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CrAzEd

I agree with everyone, no such thing as too wet. As long as its a buttery sort of wet its fine, but if its like water then I agree with doncalypso.

absorbentishe

My first thought was... Man oh man, I'd love to be eatin' that! Okay, sorry for that. I would say, let him go back door? If too wet is a problem, even after switching positions, what ever, let him try the rear entrance. You should have plenty of lube for that, but you might find it only stimulates more.

CrAzEd

If you have never done anal before then definitely only start with a pinky finger and work up from there. Also use loads of lube, or just take some from your "Dispenser"

cellophanedeity

To be honest, I don't really like the idea of anal sex. Yes, it probably feels awesome, but I can't get over the idea. If he wanted to try it, I'd be willing to give it a go, but he's not interested either. Maybe one day, but not now.

DJ Happy

My wife can get like that. When it happens she usually takes me in her mouth to suck off her juices, after which I fuck her for a bit again, then she sucks me off again and so on and so on until some of her wetness has gone.